Eternal said:
You got it right Babnik.
When you act like a BOY, you get nothing. When you act like a MAN, you get whatever. You can only be a man by being mature, something a lot of people in this thread severely lack.
If any of the guys on here posted this thread, they would want to be showered with applause and "way to rail that chick!" Or, if the same things were said, they would get all pissed off and whine.
People wonder why the site is dying. It is because of stupid sh*t like the replies in here.
Oh yeah.... I wasn't posting here for months... after there was a big discussion where a famous PUA said that in this entire world, there is a SECRET society and about 50% of people are in it. 1% are men, 0.5% are gay men. Its a society of swingers and men who know about it know that regardless of a woman's marital status she wants to screw the man in the society. The world is 50% secret society agreed slut-fest.
And as soon as I scream "BS" you get 100 replies saying that I know nothing about women.
I must have missed the news of a single man single-handedly surveyed the world with "Do you belong to secret sex society? Are you gay?"
They also label who women who ever had sex as sluts.
Lets say I travel and I meet a girl. I can only stay with her for 3 days or so. We are having an amazing time and we want each other. She has a BF or is married but her man is a freaking fatass mucho man drunk or just plain *******. She is with him because no other good man came alone and she doesn't want to be alone herself.
I would hit it and I would never consider her a slut.
Relationships set labels and labels can't bind human feelings and desires.
There are SO many women out there in relationships for reasons of money, not being alone, and etc.
Some have kids and can't raise them by themselves. They marry so they can raise their kids. Maybe they don't even love their husbands or BFs... they just NEED (not want) money.
Many women would give up and cheat on their man if a better man came along.
Its only unfair because we look at it from OUR side.
If I have a GF biatch and I find better girl - I would cheat and feel no remorse.
We are looking for our HAPPINESS and not something binding or some label.
Love comes, love goes. Its the way of life. NOTHING in life or in the universe lasts forever.
Enjoy the damn time you have with a girl.
Look at how many men want to treat their girls like crap so they can KEEP THEM.
I would rather treat a girl what she deserves and ENJOY MYSELF for 2 weeks, living in a bliss, and then in 2 weeks have our feelings fade and leave. I would do that instead of a 1 year long relationship where I have to be **** and the whole atmosphere would be filled with negativity and crap and insults and blah..