I told a girl I love her

[Jack McCrack]

Well technically it was her answering machine.



Restraining order narrowly averted!

 

[kreuz]

Good way to give her all the control in the relationship my friend.

 

[Jack McCrack]

I can think of better ways.

Like presenting her with a giant dildo and my buttcrack.

 

[Obsidian]

wow, nice goin'...lol

 

[Fenderules]

nice blow'n it

 

[Jack McCrack]

aww crap my covers blown dudes what do i do

i've got a blanket and some duct tape

 

[Raikojo17]

aww crap my covers blown dudes what do i do

i've got a blanket and some duct tape

so down there bro. you dont love her yet, you just like her. love is a feeling that develops over time and is more serious than liking. when you love someone, you would do anything for them, sacrififice yourself for them. and if your fretting about telling her you love her, then you really dont. cuz if u loved her you wouldnt be ashamed of saying it, because you mean it.

but just from saying it, your not in deep doody yet. jus keep doing wat u do. from the way you said it in the post, doesnt sound like u were pouring your heart out to her, so u should be fine (unless u did, then she might be freaked out abit) if she asks about it, jus play it cool and dont acknowledge it too much. act like it was nothing. but jus keep doing wat u were doing before, and u should be fine. and dont day the "L" word, until u really mean it. which could be a long time.

 

[Jack McCrack]

i owe you a beer my friend

*high five*

 

[Dannyrt34]

I love you brother!

 

[Jack McCrack]

i love everyone in this topic

hugs all around

 

[The_Unit]

don't freak out. The situation is not hopeless. I know there are tons of "rules" on this forum like "don't ever say I love you to a girl" and " dont let her know how you feel" and crap like that. The truth is there are no rules in love, there are only guidelines (if there rules, everyone would be a DJ and there wouldn't be a need for this site). And guidelines do not work in every situation. If you feel like saying "I love you" to her, then do it, and dont think back.

 

[wjh]

It depends on the context of your "relationship"/friendship/whatever.

If you meant it... and she was someone you would consider an LTR with, who cares?

Even if it was a little too early to really say it, it's not like you told her she was a *** burping sl_t.

Just smile if she brings it up and laugh... But if she senses weakness you'll look like an idiot.

 

[Jack McCrack]

*thumbs up*

 

[Jack McCrack]

good form old chap

i'll have to persuade her into bed with me

and then tell her

 

[The_Unit]

good form old chap

i'll have to persuade her into bed with me

and then tell her

dont use persuasion or cheap tactics. No smokescreens, no bull****. unless your a player, of course A lot of the "advice" on sosuave.com is crap. And remember, just because she doesn't say it back right away, doesnt mean she doesnt love you. It takes a different time for everyone, thats all.

 

[azanon]

I also have to agree that just making the statement itself is not necessarily a problem. I agree, if you really do love someone, then its ok to say it. Just one sentence isn't going to give you the ole AFC brand on your ass; its going to be the way you behave most all of the other time. For instance, it is more than possible (people do it every day) to be confident, not supplicate, and act in a patient and DJ way yet tell someone you love that you love them.

So.... just worry about the way you're behaving most of the time. Does this mean you're going to act needy now, for instance? If not, then don't sweat it. One sentence didn't screw you. I hope at least half the guys who did say you were screwed were just joking around.

 

[Jack McCrack]

dont use persuasion or cheap tactics.

Does chloroform count?

 

[Vypros]

Congratulations on taking that first step towards adulthood.