So, let me give you my 2 cents here.
Guys calling her crazy, ***** and so on.. Seriously, you are overreacting. This seems like a totally regular girl and what she wants is a 'regular' guy. A genuine and not too mindful of money/status kinda guy.
Having the lincoln driver open the door, taking cabs, talking about your grandiose plans, etc was over the top. What she wanted was your general view on life, and you probably went straight for career/money. If you didn't transition onto something else, it shows a 1 dimensional character. I don't know how you said the rest, but it's easy to seem arrogant when talking about making money.
On money and ambition: Best bet is to just not talk about it or even allude to it. Keep it super vague in this respect, even when they press for details. "I got enough to not worry about it" & "I like to work hard" kind of thing. More than that and you are treading boring territory. Women don't really care to listen about business and finance, that's your business.
I think she liked you personally, but you seemed to her like you would be consumed by your career and wouldn't nurture other interests enough.
Backbreaker has it right imo. Like you wouldn't walk around in tuxedos everywhere, you don't flaunt wealth because it will mostly be a bad kind of attention unless in the right setting. So you kinda have to fit in with your crowd and scene. If you stand out too much, there will certainly be bull**** flying you way, so learn to handle or avoid it.
You also might be out of her league, but you did say you liked her, so i'm guessing you wouldn't mind having a better experience on the date. Considering that she was blowing up you phone, you probably could have had an nice date ending with a happier ending if you stayed off the money/ambition topic. On future dates with this kind of girl, maybe it's better to keep it mostly personal and show her what you got in that department
good luck
Guys calling her crazy, ***** and so on.. Seriously, you are overreacting. This seems like a totally regular girl and what she wants is a 'regular' guy. A genuine and not too mindful of money/status kinda guy.
Having the lincoln driver open the door, taking cabs, talking about your grandiose plans, etc was over the top. What she wanted was your general view on life, and you probably went straight for career/money. If you didn't transition onto something else, it shows a 1 dimensional character. I don't know how you said the rest, but it's easy to seem arrogant when talking about making money.
On money and ambition: Best bet is to just not talk about it or even allude to it. Keep it super vague in this respect, even when they press for details. "I got enough to not worry about it" & "I like to work hard" kind of thing. More than that and you are treading boring territory. Women don't really care to listen about business and finance, that's your business.
I think she liked you personally, but you seemed to her like you would be consumed by your career and wouldn't nurture other interests enough.
Backbreaker has it right imo. Like you wouldn't walk around in tuxedos everywhere, you don't flaunt wealth because it will mostly be a bad kind of attention unless in the right setting. So you kinda have to fit in with your crowd and scene. If you stand out too much, there will certainly be bull**** flying you way, so learn to handle or avoid it.
You also might be out of her league, but you did say you liked her, so i'm guessing you wouldn't mind having a better experience on the date. Considering that she was blowing up you phone, you probably could have had an nice date ending with a happier ending if you stayed off the money/ambition topic. On future dates with this kind of girl, maybe it's better to keep it mostly personal and show her what you got in that department
good luck
