I am just reflecting on my past experiences, trying to learn from them.
4 years ago I met this milf. she was 15 years older than me. very attractive after a bunch of plastic surgery. But the surgeon had done a great job and I could not tell until I looked her up online and looked at her old pictures. on our first date I said I like her because she hasn't done any work done, and she confirmed that she hadn't done any work done. on her phone she showed me a bunch of pictures of women who have done plastic surgery, as evidence that she doesn't look like them, she looks natural. she also said she smokes weed every night. she had a perfect body, JLO body. Anyway, all of this is irrelevant I am just trying to give you a picture of what kind of person she was. she said she is looking for a gentleman and she likes me because I am a gentleman.
I could tell she liked me because on our first date because she dressed up very well (short dress, nice boots). she actually made me nervous because she made a comment that showed she intends this relationship to last a long time. I don't remember the comment, but it was like when she was hitting her glass against mine for cheers, she said "to our" something something.
we got out of the restaurant and made out. she said she likes me because I have innocent eyes. then we went to a bar nearby. We didn't drink anything alcoholic but she asked me for water and I got her a cup of water. so far so good.
but here is when things went south. I told her I am paranoid about STDs. she said she gets tested during her yearly checkup with her ob gyn. I said "your ob gyn is so lucky" she looked at me and said "so you're one of those guys" I saw the opportunity close right before my eyes. That was it. she asked me to call and uber and take her home. one sentence ruined my opportunity to get laid with a hot milf (not that I care because I don't like girls who do plastic surgery, and I don't like deception).
What's the problem? is it the paranoia about STDs that turned her off? or the "lucky" comment? or she was just a nut job and I had no chance to begin with?
4 years ago I met this milf. she was 15 years older than me. very attractive after a bunch of plastic surgery. But the surgeon had done a great job and I could not tell until I looked her up online and looked at her old pictures. on our first date I said I like her because she hasn't done any work done, and she confirmed that she hadn't done any work done. on her phone she showed me a bunch of pictures of women who have done plastic surgery, as evidence that she doesn't look like them, she looks natural. she also said she smokes weed every night. she had a perfect body, JLO body. Anyway, all of this is irrelevant I am just trying to give you a picture of what kind of person she was. she said she is looking for a gentleman and she likes me because I am a gentleman.
I could tell she liked me because on our first date because she dressed up very well (short dress, nice boots). she actually made me nervous because she made a comment that showed she intends this relationship to last a long time. I don't remember the comment, but it was like when she was hitting her glass against mine for cheers, she said "to our" something something.
we got out of the restaurant and made out. she said she likes me because I have innocent eyes. then we went to a bar nearby. We didn't drink anything alcoholic but she asked me for water and I got her a cup of water. so far so good.
but here is when things went south. I told her I am paranoid about STDs. she said she gets tested during her yearly checkup with her ob gyn. I said "your ob gyn is so lucky" she looked at me and said "so you're one of those guys" I saw the opportunity close right before my eyes. That was it. she asked me to call and uber and take her home. one sentence ruined my opportunity to get laid with a hot milf (not that I care because I don't like girls who do plastic surgery, and I don't like deception).
What's the problem? is it the paranoia about STDs that turned her off? or the "lucky" comment? or she was just a nut job and I had no chance to begin with?
