I thought I passed the s*it test ...

[Lookatu]

I dont see her as a measure to value myself. I give myself value. In order to lear, I tolerate a situation or a person for as much as I can or as much as it is useful. I dont get offended easily. She's a woman. Definitely she's head over feels for some guy somewhere. I try to figure out what that other guy does differently. My mistake was, I considered making of remarks or negative comments whining. Maybe its not.

I dunno, it seems like you are willing to conform to her or qualify yourself to her to get her to like you, rather than the other way around.

If you truly gave yourself value, she should be trying to qualify herself as worthy of being with you.

On the other hand, if you just wanna seduce and get the bang, all rules are out the window and I'm sure you can deceive or be whoever she wants you to be to get her in bed. But you've already done that so I guess in that regard, you've succeeded.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

In theory - thanks to sosuave teachings - a man should be able to seduce any girl, right? That is why I keep thinking about how to find a way to get a particular, hard to get girl. I'm not obsessed with a girl per se, i'm ombsessed with learning how to solve unsolvable situations - have I done enough? Could I have done something differently? etc

I mean there are always things that you could have done differently...it is hard to say. We didn't see the interactions. And I mean you did seduce her...you banged her.

Seducing a woman in the moment and making her want to continue seeing you are two different things. And there is no way to make a woman want to continue seeing you past a certain point if she doesn't.

 

[Charm2K]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts?

DUMP HER ASAP. Shes pissing at your face and you are saying "ohhhh keep it coming". What the **** is wrong with you? How can you take it ? Move the **** on.

 

[zigzag77889]

DUMP HER ASAP. Shes pissing at your face and you are saying "ohhhh keep it coming". What the **** is wrong with you? How can you take it ? Move the **** on.

That's an easy solution. I'm curious to learn how to crack these hard cases

 

[Glassguy]

Thought bitching over using a phone could be regarded as whining

You don't ***** about it. You just get up and leave.

You put up with a lot of disrespect from this chick....because she's hot?

Chicks come and go. Your weak frame will last forever if you don't start working on it now.

 

[Glassguy]

That's an easy solution. I'm curious to learn how to crack these hard cases

What are you talking about? Crack these hard cases?

She either respects you or she doesn't. She is either submissive to you or she isn't. You putting up with disrespect behavior while WITH her was the nail in your coffin because she neither respects you nor will she ever submit to you.

 

[zigzag77889]

What are you talking about? Crack these hard cases?

She either respects you or she doesn't. She is either submissive to you or she isn't. You putting up with disrespect behavior while WITH her was the nail in your coffin because she neither respects you nor will she ever submit to you.

I explained above. Please read.