I think this girl I was talking to shied away cause I was black

[Ringleader41]

K, I go to ole miss which has a traditional antebellum old southern vibe to it and the greek system is composed of rich white kids from Memphis and New Orleans. There are very few asians and Ive never seen a black person in it. Most of the fraternity guys here are racist as fuq and the one im in aint too bad, but u can tell im an exception. Needless to say, I have a very hard time meeting girls here. Well, this sorority girl showed me interest and weve been talking, but she suddenly became distant after a recent hookup we had. She still shows signs of high interest, but she has her shield on when shes around her sisters. Frankly, its been like that lately, so I havent had the chance do anything with her. When shes not around her sisters, shes way more comfortable around me and lets me do stuff with her. Ive been to her place a couple of times and her roommates were never friendly to me and I just got that vibe from them. I mean she could have found a another guy, but I did nothing wrong and she still shows too high of interest in me. Even if, should I confront her about this.

 

[zinc4]

just go to a night club and stand around smoking a cig...if you have the thug look going on...not saying you do...the hot chicks will gravitate toward you end of the night...some black guys where i went to school at Auburn in Alabama were killing it a few years back at the big dance club there...

 

[Ringleader41]

Ya, theres no middle ground here. There are girls here that like black guys, but most of the girls here would not want to be seen with one.

 

[3countriesPlan]

welcome to the real world. Girls don't often like to be seen in an intimate manner in public with a person of another race. Its just how it goes.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Ya, theres no middle ground here. There are girls here that like black guys, but most of the girls here would not want to be seen with one.

Yay, another interracial dating thread. We don't get enough of these here.

Here's a question for you: have you considered dating black chicks? Or are you so disgusted by your own kind that it's not even an option?

 

[Ringleader41]

Black girls dont like me because I dont act like nor look like a typical black guy. I only get interest from caucasian girls.

 

[3countriesPlan]

Get in where you fit in. If that happens to be in a place that you don't exactly like then so be it. Keep going forward and you'll come across something good.

 

[B Clipz]

Appears that we have some ignorant minds on this very thread. This girl obviously has some feelings for you, but she is afraid of the very thing you have experienced,being an outcast. unfortunately animosities and ignorant behavior still exist(as seen from some of these posters) and will not change for a while,especially and more profound in the south. know that this isn't your fault but the fault of the pea brain community you currently reside in. if you bang her good for you, but of you neither do that or get in a relationship with her know its not your fault.best of luck ma dude.

 

[visions]

Ya, theres no middle ground here. There are girls here that like black guys, but most of the girls here would not want to be seen with one.

get the hell out of that ****-hole. don't just transfer schools, consider going to a different part of the country. it's 2013, and opportunities abound for living a much happier life than what was available decades ago. that being said there's no point staying in a miserable place.

 

[Kevin Matthew]

Next time you see her with her friends try giving her less attention, and try being nice to her friends. If they're racist, they're racist. There's nothing you can do(**** 'em, doe!). But the truth is, how can someone be mean when you're being polite. If you kill her friends with kindness, they will eventually have to be nice to you. So you'll be winning over her friends, all while you are negging the girl you actually want. Win-win.

And if her friends don't open up to you. **** EM, AND **** OLE MISS! Transfer, man. Go to some other school big school where the girls aren't racist(extreme I know, but if I wasn't getting laid at college, I'd transfer).

 

[Velor]

She doesnt deserve you, she's afraid of the judgment of the others.
I'd lose interest very fast for a person like that.

 

[Ringleader41]

I mean im not 100% sure, but I can definitly see it being an issue. Plus I dont have enough money to transfer.

 

[Down Low]

Black girls dont like me because I dont act like nor look like a typical black guy. I only get interest from caucasian girls.

That's funny. When I was young, practically every black and brown girl around put her moves on me, but the white ones were aloof.

Could it possibly be that the ones of a different color don't hold you to any standard, expect that it can't last, you're just a walking dildo to them, while the ones of your own color try to hold you to regular-man standards that clumsy youth rarely meet?

 

[Bling]

Black girls dont like me because I dont act like nor look like a typical black guy. I only get interest from caucasian girls.

you're telling black girls don't like a college educated black guy?

Guys tend to get interest from the race they pursue. Also considering the numbers, you're more likely to get "interest from white girls" because that's all you're surrounded by. Ever taken a statistics course?

Face it, you're attracted to white girls. Someone else can get deeper into the psychology of it, but I'll shy away from that one. But don't tell me black girls wouldn't be interested in you.