I think this broad wants to have cake, and eat it as well

[MyTeamSupreme]

Long story short, she broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years in jan, I was the rebound in feb...she started getting distant in may and finally told me in late june that she's back with her boyfriend for 2 weeks(which i thought was complete bullsh*t)...I told her that was cool but then I had no reason to talk to her since she has a boyfriend now and broads dont make good friends...i was thinking if I should go completely no contact or keep talking to her...It may help to stay relevant, right? I only get the strange feeling that she hits me up occasionally (about twice a week) to see if im still an option

heres what im thinking, keep talking to her so i can pound her vadge in the future...or forget she ever existed...any thoughts?

 

[DJjazzyJeff]

1 vote for forget she ever existed. If you don't currently have any other girls you are seeing, spend time talking to her or with her to keep your ego in check and confidence in line, but as soon as you get 2 -3 other girls I would disappear off of the face of the earth never to be seen or heard from again.

 

[women haze]

Women do make good friends...so your statement is false there. Yet, if you have feelings for them or have kissed them or whatever, then that is what turns the tide.

 

[Iceberg]

Women do make good friends...so your statement is false there. Yet, if you have feelings for them or have kissed them or whatever, then that is what turns the tide.

Not really. They lack our sense of loyalty. Not to mention, they're just not as fun to be around.

Besides, once a chick gets a boyfriend, she forgets how to hang out.

 

[ARrocket]

. Not to mention, they're just not as fun to be around.

I disagree. Girls can be fun...it's much easier to be playful with them, and even if you want to bang their brains out, if you are not EMOTIONALLY attached, you can still maintain a fun friendship!

Besides, once a chick gets a boyfriend, she forgets how to hang out.

Yes!!!

OP, I think it all comes down to your feelings for this girl. If they are nonexistent, then continue to be her friend. She can introduce you to other women, you can one day "pound that vadge," and you might actually have some good platonic fun with this girl. BUT if you find yourself thinking about her too much, and getting any of those nasty oneitis symptoms, you need to break it off. Only you can decide for yourself.

 

[everywomanshero]

You do whatever you want. I see women from my past sometimes and enjoy it... I dont see ones that annoy me.

 

[eaglez1177]

The decision is all yours OP. Personally, I would keep her around cuz it seems to me like this whole bf thing isnt going to work out, so pounding the vadge probably will be pretty easy at some point in the future and wont require much work.

 

[BritBoy]

Hitting you up twice a week is a lot considering she has a boyfriend too. My guess is that she genuinely appreciates you and want you as a friend (rather than just to see if you are still an option or just playing you)

Probably not what you want...and if it drives you up the wall then probably forget her ever existed would be a good option for you.

You were her rebound so I assume you've banged her already. To me the possibility of banging girls I've already banged is just not worth the hassle and heartache. Better put your energy in seeking out fresher pu55ies.

But who knows it could be the beginning of a genuine friendship. And it's not about banging all of the time (well maybe 99.9% of the time LOL)

 

[MyTeamSupreme]

I hit my 10 limit so i couldnt respond yesterday...I really like this girl actually...It kinda bothers me to talk to her while she has a boyfriend

 

[kingsam]

you were her rebound, she was after the emitional validation and attention rather than liking you for being you

so rebound chicks most of the time are not serious...and you have become infatuated with her (loss of self control)

move on

 

[Uberguy]

I hit my 10 limit so i couldnt respond yesterday...I really like this girl actually...It kinda bothers me to talk to her while she has a boyfriend

In that case, you're done with her. She had her chance with you, and she blew it. If (she falsely thinks) you're not good enough to be her boyfriend, then you're not good enough to be her justafriend.

I don't care how hot she is, or what great times you had. A Don Juan never settles for scraps. We're kings, not beggers. I'd rather never have sex again than sell my dignity just for some action.

There's plenty of women out there, and a few of them don't treat guys like sh*t. Respect yourself and go find a better woman.

 

[MyTeamSupreme]

^Thanks for that...I've started ignoring her and her calls and texts have been getting less and less frequent

I just can't stop fantasizing about the day her boyfriend ****s her over

One of my biggest problems is letting something that i've invested time and money into go