I think I'm losing my sex drive...

nightcrawler

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..and I'm getting concerned.

I'm only 20 years old and these days I don't even feel like jerking off anymore. Is this normal for a person like me to go through? I mean a few months ago I'd get random boners all the time and be horny all the time..

I can still get it up but I feel my erection are really soft. Also it takes awhile to get an erection one more time, sometimes I don't even get it.

Lately I've been very depressed though nobody knows about it..I do a good job at hiding it. Or maybe it's not depression? but I find myself thinking and self-pitying all the time. I'd like to call it "teen agst" but I'm not a teen anymore...and quite frankly I don't think teens do as much "thinking" as I do right now. Seriously I think I'm becoming very anxious and worried.

The loss of my sex drive is making me "think" more.

Anybody deal with this before? specially at a younger age? I mean seriously I'm 20 years old I should be able to go all day ffs!
 

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You gotta stop that depressed sh!t. It can really mess you up.

Also, make sure you're eating good food, and getting enough sleep. They can affect your sex drive as well.

Another thing, your sex drive should naturally fluctuate. Somedays you'll be hornier than others. There's nothing wrong with that.

Last thing I can suggest is to just not worry about it. If you dwell on it, you'll never get over it.
 

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Happen to me too man at about the same age. Reason why is because you get tired of jerking off. Jerking off doesn't do a lot anymore. It's like when you watch porn. The first time you ever watched it you probably got off just like by seeing l a titty when you were in jr. high but as you got older you needed more hardcore porn and as you kept on jacking off to it you need even harder porn. After a while that doesn't even do much for you. Thats why you need to stop jerking off and go have sex with girls not your hand. Trust me when you do that your drive will be back.
 

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The Sperminator said:
Happen to me too man at about the same age. Reason why is because you get tired of jerking off. Jerking off doesn't do a lot anymore. It's like when you watch porn. The first time you ever watched it you probably got off just like by seeing l a titty when you were in jr. high but as you got older you needed more hardcore porn and as you kept on jacking off to it you need even harder porn. After a while that doesn't even do much for you. Thats why you need to stop jerking off and go have sex with girls not your hand. Trust me when you do that your drive will be back.
This here is some sagacious advice. Nice, dude.
 

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you are feminized - go find your balls and the depression will go away and turn into a natural aggression (aka a MAN)
 

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Maybe you just have poor blood circulation. Does cold weather seem to effect it?-- Try some ginseng or siberian root for a while and see if that helps. You might also try some physical exercise to get the blood movin' before trying to perform sexually.

As for the depression -- get laid. Even if you have to take some viagra, go get some pu$$y and you'll feel worlds better. Trust me.

One more thing... when I spend time with 'Mary Jane' my heart rate goes way up. I also get really horny. ;)

tj said:
Watch some Hentia.
What is that?
 
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