I think Im getting mixed signals

[qboy122]

So me and this girl are good friends, we've known each other for about 3 years now. I've always found her attractive cuz she is but never really "liked" her until now. When she broke up with her boyfriend we started hanging out alot more. She actually a bunch of times brought up to me and her friends that I hooked up with her sister and her best friend. At her bday in May she actually drunkenly said to me "I would hook up with you but you hooked up with my sister and best friend." I actually had no response cuz I was in shock because I never knew or thought that she had the idea of hooking up with me (she said this while she was going out with this guy btw). So, like I said we have been hanging out a lot now and she constantly texts me which of course could mean that she just likes being friends. So I pulled the whole scarcity principle and would take long to answer her. Last friday I had planned to go to my friends house and chill and thursday night she wanted me to go out to the city with her friends friday. So I told her no cuz i would be at my friends house. She got drunnk and kept texting me to go to the city and meet her there. But I didnt cuz I was too far away. The next day we went to a concert with her friends from home and I noticed that she started teasing and making fun of me, ex: my friend said i kinda looked like one of the artists and then the girl said "that artist def looks better than dave" as she was smiling so I told her jokingly i would knock her out and then she gave me that poking motion on my stomach and said "ohhh look at those abs". So this happened a bunch of times. But then later at night she acted a lil distant. I slept over her house cuz I was far from home and I slept in her bed while she slept in her sister's bed (sister wasnt home). I went to the bathroom at 10 am and she heard me so she opened the door and thought it was cuz i couldnt sleep so i told her i had to use the bathroom. She left the door open and said come in and watch tv. We laid next to each other and she actually flicked her hair in my direction. But like a dumbass this whole weekend I didnt make a move cuz at times she would be distant. I dunno if she does that to make me chase her or not. Then at 11:45pm her and her best friend (that i hooked up with) called me because we were trying to figure what to do for halloween. Her friend had to go to sleep at 12:10am and said bye and I figured we were all done talking but then the girl I like called me back. So we were on the phone for about 48 minutes just talking about nuthin and making each other laugh and kinda making fun of one another while she was in bed waiting to go to sleep. Btw I am leaving for Miami friday and she wanted to go to a concert the night before i leave but I said 4get because we both had to wake up early. So she said "aw but i wanted to see you before you lose all those brain cells in Miami." Now I dunno about you guys but I have had really close friends that are girls before and we have never acted the way me and her are. Some of you may think I am oblivious but like I said sometimes it just feels like she only wants to be friends. But I do feel and many of my friends feel that she likes me too. Now here is my big question what do you guys suggest I do? My close friend that she got married recently said that I should just tell her that Im attracted to her and if she doesnt feel the same we could be mature enough to just stay friends and I'll get over her (which I have done one other time).

 

[ARrocket]

We laid next to each other and she actually flicked her hair in my direction. But like a dumbass this whole weekend I didnt make a move cuz at times she would be distant. I dunno if she does that to make me chase her or not.

How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

The part I quoted? I used to make that mistake ALL THE TIME (of being scared to make a move because they got distant). Just do it. You won't regret it. You WILL regret not making a move. You don't need any further advice.

"I'm worried about losing the friendship" blah blah blah save it. Just do it.

 

[VladPatton]

Lesson taught. If you wait, you masturbate.

 

[Purefilth]

My close friend that she got married recently said that I should just tell her that Im attracted to her and if she doesnt feel the same we could be mature enough to just stay friends and I'll get over her (which I have done one other time).

Do NOT do this. If you want to see if she is really attracted to you, Make a move! Girls talk, Men act!
If you try to talk about this, you will kill any attraction that is there.

Personally, i believe that youre in the friendzone from the amount of time youve known her, but Hell, Ive fvcked several of my friends, and still have them as friends.

Most people here will say 'Mixed signals = low/no interest' and mostly I agree, But AlwaysAlwaysAlways make a move and find out for sure.

I Repeat - Talking is for girls, Men Make A Move.


Bottom line, Make a move.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I say fvck telling her how you feel, just grab her, look at her, kiss her, fvck her.
Don't bring up the "friendship".
If she rebuffs your advances and brings up the sister and friend, don't try to defend yourself, just find a way to deflect it. Don't get bogged down in justifying ancient history.
And when you say "hooked up", does that mean you fvcked her sister? If so, you'll be behind the eight ball.