I think im attracted to mellow, smiley, friendly chicks...strange?

solo1

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Anyway this just hit me today but i guess it explains everything about myself that i never understood. Generally, most girls i come across im not attracted to, which i've found weird.

I mean generally if i see or meet a hb8/9 i will keep eyeing her, i will find her hot and cannot pull my eyes away. But other than that, there's nothing else i care about.

But if i came across a 7 perhaps like the one in class who always has a mellowy, smiley personality when she talks to me it seems i cant help myself but like her. In the past it's always been like that i suppose. Chicks that show genuine interest in me by asking me questions, i can reciprocate and treat her the same.
Chicks that dont ask anything about me on the other hand, i will feel nothing for...

Can anyone relate?
 

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I am in the same boat as you are in. I love the chic that is cute without makeup, but you can imagine her dressed up and she will automatically turn into a HB9. All my friends and family think I am weird because I bring home 5 or 6, but they always say that we have great chemistry.
 

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I relate very much so. Although, I'll still chat up the Hb9 to see what kind of personality she has because you never know...

Although, I think it's because society has bombarded us so much with the same idea of beauty, that the everyday blonde bombshell is nothing special. I see the same-looking supposed hotties all the time. It gets old, so I love the women who have a cute face without makeup and great personality to match. The cute cuddly ones, I seem to have the best chemistry with, I know what you mean... although, they usually do look like 8-9s with makeup and dressed up as ^ says he imagines them. They just don't dress up often, and don't wear the type of revealing, sexy clothes as often as the typical mtv-brainwashed, laguna-beach or oc-wannabe girl does.
 

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Originally posted by h2o
The cute cuddly ones, I seem to have the best chemistry with, I know what you mean... although, they usually do look like 8-9s with makeup and dressed up as ^ says he imagines them. They just don't dress up often, and don't wear the type of revealing, sexy clothes as often as the typical mtv-brainwashed, laguna-beach or oc-wannabe girl does.
yea i know, it was a rainy day today and that girl in my class wore some crappy jeans and jacket...her ass disappeared somewhere, she sure wasnt dressed to kill but i find i actually can admire a girl for just being herself w/o superficialness.

Honestly a lot of times i just feel like an object, girls i walk pass theyll be glancing or looking at me. I guess in my situation when i come across a girl that likes me for me (ask questions about me), something inside me lights up.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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