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I think I will always get flaked on! (not a rant by any means)

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I've been flaked on too and I discovered the main reason for it is because I "SET UP DATES". Skip, instead of setting up dates, just call her out of the blue and tell her to be ready because there's this big fvckin party about to start and she needs to call her girls and get ready.

I usually always do this instead of dates. Dates are for girls you've already fvcked and are close with, not for girls that you just grabbed her number two days ago.

DJF
 

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lurker said:
no body is above flaking, i would bet anyguy who really dates women has been flaked on. i have been flaked on twice this year but never took it personall the first girl that flaked on me saw me few days later and kept looking at me to see if io was hurt i just ignored her like we never met. we should learn to move on i think, because life is short.
I just said I haven't been flaked on....... If you are a highly valued guy women will chase you to the end of the earth for one more min of your time.
 

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AngelusPUA - I actually agree with you however I do doubt your quite the stud you appear to be.

I think the problem is AFCs get flaked on because they're the only girls that give them any attention and the only reason they are doing it is to **** with them. It says alot about the guy and the girl.
 

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AngelusPUA - I actually agree with you however I do doubt your quite the stud you appear to be.

I think the problem is AFCs get flaked on because they're the only girls that give them any attention and the only reason they are doing it is to **** with them. It says alot about the guy and the girl.
In the effort to turn a new leaf and not be so argumentative which is a major flaw in my personality I will say one thing....

What you believe is your business and yours alone and I respect it.
 

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AngelusPUA - I didn't say I believe you're not the stud you make out to be.

Just I doubt it - I doubt everything. It's the best way so you don't get taken for a fool.

At the end of the day - It's not like you should give a **** about what I think anyway.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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AngelusPUA said:
I'm not bragging but in the past year or so I have NEVER got a flake and I meet a lot of women, most of the times they will ask me for my number and they always call. I honestly can't remember the last time I asked a girls number, I will give out my number to a new girl a minimum of two times a week but I'm picky so I next a lot of them.

Point is it must be something you are doing wrong to get all these flakes; you should really examine your game and analyze what you do wrong. A lot of people blame flakes on the girl but the reality is if you build a high enough IIL (Initial interest level) the girl will not flake.

I mean I met a girl in Spain when I went there as part of my Euro trip and she chased me all across Europe. It really has to do with how much interest you build up initially, if you send a girl away with a smile on her face and her body tingling with glee she has no choice but to call you back.

So you only have yourself to blame (ok westernized society can take part of the blame), IF A GIRL FLAKES ALL IT MEANS IS YOU HAVEN'T GOT HER INTERESTED ENOUGH.

hey i meet ALOT of girls myself, and id say in the last year prob 20-30 have flaked, but i also ****ed about 20 as well, so i like i said b4 and ill say it again ITS ALL A NUMBERS GAME

but STILL, its just so discouraging to see a girl who was RIDICULOUSLY interested to just flake like that
 

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AngelusPUA said:
I just said I haven't been flaked on....... If you are a highly valued guy women will chase you to the end of the earth for one more min of your time.

women cant kno ur a highly valued guy if they never even been out with u and flake on ur first date LOL,

by the way, this wasnt a date i had set up, i asked her if she wanted me to come over her place and bring alcohol and a movie, she said sure and gave me her address

see, that wasnt gonna b a date, it was gonna b some good drunk ****ing
 

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d9930380 I don't hahaha I thought I made that clear, you have very good point doubt everything so you dont get taken for a fool, I like you you make good points and good posts.

Skip didn't you say you slept with 55 girls?

PLEASE read a little closer - i said i ****ed about 20 girls IN THE PAST YEAR, overall total in the last 3 years has been around 55
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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AngelusPUA said:
I just said I haven't been flaked on.......

If you are a highly valued guy women will chase you to the end of the earth for one more min of your time.
not really , i got a friend who did a show called jerry halls made, his name is austin he's a fitness model, women dont chase him to the end off the world. google his nae up and see him.

you guys act like because you got money or looks women will chase the guy all over the place stoping being silly, women play games too. somtimes i think you guys brag alot
 

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when i was 18....i wrote in an earlier thread how before the age of 18, i was basically a total beta male afc who never ever got ANY azz
 

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Its not just me this has affected. All the other guys I've known over here have experienced flakes from girls who were interested. We can talk all night about getting a high IL but there just are some girls who will play this bull**** with most guys they meet. If my game was better, I'm sure I'd reduce it but its happened too often for me to believe that girls are just flaking on me and no one else.

AngelusPUA the girl you mentioned was Spanish, see what I said about irish chicks. The same can be said about the spanish, if they like you they actually want to see you!
 

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vorbis said:
Its not just me this has affected. All the other guys I've known over here have experienced flakes from girls who were interested. We can talk all night about getting a high IL but there just are some girls who will play this bull**** with most guys they meet. If my game was better, I'm sure I'd reduce it but its happened too often for me to believe that girls are just flaking on me and no one else.

AngelusPUA the girl you mentioned was Spanish, see what I said about irish chicks. The same can be said about the spanish, if they like you they actually want to see you!
European women are so different but I am talking about American/Australian women to. I haven't had a flake in years with Australian women, if you are talking about European women it is a different story you are right.
 

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not really , i got a friend who did a show called jerry halls made, his name is austin he's a fitness model, women dont chase him to the end off the world. google his nae up and see him.

you guys act like because you got money or looks women will chase the guy all over the place stoping being silly, women play games too. somtimes i think you guys brag alot
Were you not saying the other night that your boss is rich and he has a lot of women? (Because he is rich)

I say women chase me because I am highly valued to them (not because of money and looks only), I am what they want. Not gold diggers because I never tell women I am well of financially. It's not bragging, I don’t always say that I get a lot of women but if the topic arises I will say it.
 

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