I think i have a problem need help

[acekilla]

i have been rejected by 534 women since last friday
i saw that i should just take the rejections and eventually one for every 10 girls would say yes
well 534 out of 534 women either ignored me, sayed they didnt want to talk to me, tried to embarressed me in public, and once actually said no respectfully

what should i do now
i feel like i wanna beat down every couple i see walking past me in the day time

 

[WaterTiger]

First let me applaud you for approaching 534 women! Most guys have trouble approaching one!

Why don't you give us some specifics about what you're doing?

What are you wearing?
What, exactly, do you say as an opening?
Are you relaxed and smiling or tense and eager?
Where do you do your approaches? Club? Coffeeshop?

 

[Chip]

Maybe your approach needs to be changed.
534, that's a pretty big number and do you remember each and every one?
Out of every rejection, did you learn something from each 534 women?
Were you nervous, made a lame joke, smelled bad, poor body posture?
Try to pick out a fault in every single one of your rejection-encounters, that way you can correct yourself and improve your chances for that 1 in every 10.

 

[Starman]

Ill tell you what you should stop doing..stop BULLSH1TTING

The fvcking elephant man could score after 100 attempts, next time you want to b.s. about a figure, try not to have sequential #'s like 534, 432, 312

doofus

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

"what should i do now
i feel like i wanna beat down every couple i see walking past me in the day time"


relax people he is just playing with u - i like his sense of humor - i actually laughed.

 

[acekilla]

im not jokin

i remember most of the girls ranging from 3's - 10's
most of the time im wearing my usual
a dewrag
jersey or t-shirt
loosefitting jeans
and sneakers
all matching most of the time (blue black or silver)
once in a while
a wear a nice dress shirt and khakis
i keep myself clean and smell good

90% of the time i would approach the girl and just say "hi how are you doing" or something like that
and they would almost never even give me any feedback
im relaxed when i do it or else i wouldnt even go up to them
i go to the mall, school, church, department stores, fast food places, clubs, markets, music shops, or just walk around the streets with my friends or solo.

the only thing is i don't just stay in one area and just talk to all the girls there i go town to town in jersey philly and new york (i live in jersey)

 

[Starman]

so you are saying you average 75 approaches a day?? WTF has time for this many approaches?? and who the hell keeps count up to 534??

c'mon lets have the real dillio..you approached like 2 chicks right?

 

[acekilla]

naw i never approach the same amount of girls everyday
like if im at a club or party i would approach about 100+
depending how long the party is and how many people are there

 

[Starman]

well I give you big pat on the back for trying then..most guys would never even imagine approaching that many women

but if you really are flying through so many women so fast..it sounds like you are really not building rapport with them, letting them feel the real you

there are alot of good threads on building rapport..do a search..I think Fingers has a good one

 

[Player_Supreme]

WOW!!! 75 women a day!

Ok now you gotta slow your roll.

Only approach those women who return eye contact with a favorable look.

 

[Golden Arms]

They all rejected you cause you're obviously unemployed - who else has time to approach this many women in a week ?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

ok doo-rag homey - that doo-reg may b a hinderance - some girls like it some dont

if u r serious about an approach i cant tun a brother down that needs help --- do and say this ...

"excuse me but i couldnt let u walk by me without acknowledging your presence - i probably wont see u around again so would it b terribly improper if i ask for your name and phone number."

if she says yes then b smooth and say here let me accomodate u - pull out pen and a receipt or something - dont make it look like it was planned - take a few seconds to lookk for pen and dont have her write in a little black book - write it on some paper that u keep in your pocket

if she say no - then b cordial and say "i understand i didnt mean to take u by surprise but u know God programmed us guys to do these crazy things" "have a good day"

and then as a good bye gesture tip your doo-rag and smile

if u say this 534 times i guarantee you'll get at least 20 numbers.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

obviously if she is not walking dont refer to her doing so...

if at department store or bar or restaurant

say i couldnt leave this place without acknowledging your presence...

 

[THA REALNESS]

534 ? Really?(Takes off glasses and squints )
Reeeeeeeeeeeaaaalllyy???


Who keeps count of approaches ? lol.
If that is not the definition of afc then what is?


Of the numbers game alone you should be bagging 1 in 5 .Your on quantity ****. To pull that off you can't be all like :



" Hi my name is Afcjobber4life,wanna phuck? ....No ...ok thank you for your time"

I guarentee you at least 20 people here do that.

That is just approaching and talking not approaching and putting down game.




Get your mind correct.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Originally posted by Starman
Ill tell you what you should stop doing..stop BULLSH1TTING

The fvcking elephant man could score after 100 attempts, next time you want to b.s. about a figure, try not to have sequential #'s like 534, 432, 312

doofus

:


D

 

[THA REALNESS]

Originally posted by acekilla
im not jokin "



All together now ! "RiGGHHHTT"!"



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"i 90% of the time i would approach the girl and just say "hi how are you doing" or something like that"
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That's called the "Sam Malone" approach.HE DID THE SAM MALONE APPROACH YA"LL.


reeddada bye-bell

 

[acekilla]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
WOW!!! 75 women a day!

Ok now you gotta slow your roll.

Only approach those women who return eye contact with a favorable look.

they almost never return eye contact except for two girls i knew in high school (which were the only girls i every chilled with or was friends with in my whole life) and only reason they actually chilled with me was because they had boyfriends already

 

[acekilla]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
ok doo-rag homey - that doo-reg may b a hinderance - some girls like it some dont

if u r serious about an approach i cant tun a brother down that needs help --- do and say this ...

"excuse me but i couldnt let u walk by me without acknowledging your presence - i probably wont see u around again so would it b terribly improper if i ask for your name and phone number."

if she says yes then b smooth and say here let me accomodate u - pull out pen and a receipt or something - dont make it look like it was planned - take a few seconds to lookk for pen and dont have her write in a little black book - write it on some paper that u keep in your pocket

if she say no - then b cordial and say "i understand i didnt mean to take u by surprise but u know God programmed us guys to do these crazy things" "have a good day"

and then as a good bye gesture tip your doo-rag and smile

if u say this 534 times i guarantee you'll get at least 20 numbers.

i wear a doo rag cause my braids are starting to get mess up
and some of those sayings would sound corny as **** coming from a guy like me
i don't ask for a name and number because they ignore me after hi
but i'll try it

 

[acekilla]

Originally posted by THA REALNESS
534 ? Really?(Takes off glasses and squints )
Reeeeeeeeeeeaaaalllyy???


Who keeps count of approaches ? lol.
If that is not the definition of afc then what is?


Of the numbers game alone you should be bagging 1 in 5 .Your on quantity ****. To pull that off you can't be all like :



" Hi my name is Afcjobber4life,wanna phuck? ....No ...ok thank you for your time"

I guarentee you at least 20 people here do that.

That is just approaching and talking not approaching and putting down game.




Get your mind correct.

i don't have the spine to just go up to a girl i don't know and ask to ****
not even a prostitute

 

[THA REALNESS]

Babysteps

You have to approach man ,effort and resiliency is half the fukking game .You have to be in the game to win .Try figuring out what you want to say to a girl in advance sort of like a script ,cuz going with the flow won't help you if you are shy or are nervous wreck .

Remember that you will not fukk a girl if you can't even talk to her ,let me ask you a question you have problems talking to strangers in general most likley(a lot of people do) but i'm guessing you just suck it up and do it right ??? You communicate with a human being and a woman (supposedly,j/k) is a human being.

Trust me,ace just figure what you want to say ,approach her and close ,even if you mumble through it and fukk up and stutter and you get blown off ....it's an improvement over "Hi" By Sam Malone.

Focus on your opening line and your subject matter and how you will close.And make sure your are not giving off an androgenus "I'm just a man" type of vanilla vibe .Go with your instinct.

An for the record that was not a cold approach saying "hey how you doing " is not an approach.It's an approach similar to one you use on a total stranger ....How would you start a conversation with your mail man?

A cold approach is just that ... a cold approach ,getting her attention and firing up a conversation by asking a general question or making a comment it even easier than "HI..."
after the conversation commences you go from there.

Take your time and remember that it's supposed to be fun not a science experiment.Go for girls that you wanna phukk not just random women on the street.