I think I got rejected cause I said I liked Andrew tate

[Thebestthereeveris]

Took this Latina out for a date in my car. Eberyrhing going fine until she said what I thought about Andrew tate. I said he was a great guy and I liked him and is what young men needed as a role model. She obviously hated him like most women do. The rest of the night went smoothly and I went in for a kiss which she happily reciprocated and fingered her and sucked her tirs right there. I said let’s get a hotel she said she’s going to work so she can’t. We proceeded to make our more and I made her so horny she said she wanted to go to the hotel. I got the hotel which cost 400 dollars then after I got the room I proceed to eat hee out and then finally stick my **** in hee mouth. She then leaves and says I felt like I was forcing myself onto her but I know that was just an excuse for her to go. Wtf

 

[European-DJ]

Andrew Tate is the lowest common denominator… but with that being said, it clearly wasn’t the reason, unless you mentioned him again while she was sucking your djck..

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Why are you even talking about Andrew Tate on a fricking date?!!

 

[Macadellic]

On your date,
Her: What do you think of Andrew Tate?
You: I don’t know who that is.

 

[RickTheToad]

Took this Latina out for a date in my car. Eberyrhing going fine until she said what I thought about Andrew tate. I said he was a great guy and I liked him and is what young men needed as a role model. She obviously hated him like most women do. The rest of the night went smoothly and I went in for a kiss which she happily reciprocated and fingered her and sucked her tirs right there. I said let’s get a hotel she said she’s going to work so she can’t. We proceeded to make our more and I made her so horny she said she wanted to go to the hotel. I got the hotel which cost 400 dollars then after I got the room I proceed to eat hee out and then finally stick my **** in hee mouth. She then leaves and says I felt like I was forcing myself onto her but I know that was just an excuse for her to go. Wtf

Doubtful it was just that.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

On your date,
Her: What do you think of Andrew Tate?
You: I don’t know who that is.

Yeah should’ve said that

 

[RangerMIke]

Why are you even talking about Andrew Tate on a fricking date?!!

THIS! Really guys, leave out anything controversial... religion... politics... none of this is any fun. If some chick asks you about something controversial, just change the subject... tell her you are there to have fun... then be fun.

I date hard core conservative women, I date over the top wiccan progressives... I do fine with both, HOW... I don't talk about anything controversial. It's all about having fun.

 

[Machine10033]

I had a girl slap me... because I didn’t know who Andrew Tate was..... seriously tho... I legit had no clue who he was but in the last two weeks he’s everywhere I look.

That being said I don’t think mentioning Andrew Tate did you in. Something else did... if a chick is into you she will overlook or rationalize it.. even if you punt babies for sport.

 

[espanish]

as far as they're concerned, you have no independent political or cultural values whatsoever. Keep in mind, "fitting in" is attractive to women.

THIS! Really guys, leave out anything controversial... religion... politics... none of this is any fun. If some chick asks you about something controversial, just change the subject... tell her you are there to have fun... then be fun.

I date hard core conservative women, I date over the top wiccan progressives... I do fine with both, HOW... I don't talk about anything controversial. It's all about having fun.

disagree. any woman with a brain loves it when you stand up for your beliefs even if your beliefs are unpopular. in fact you don't want to fit in. that makes you the nonpolar nice guy that women pretend to like but in fact hate.
politics, religion, anything controversial is fair game. I told this religious girl I hate religion. can't care less what she thinks.
if women you date go crazy if you stand up for yourself then clearly you are dating women that are superficial and stupid.
op - clearly the andrew tate thing wasn't an issue here. when a woman is turned off she is turned off immediately not 2 hours later.
by the way I genuinely don't know who that is, can't care less.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Took this Latina out for a date in my car. Eberyrhing going fine until she said what I thought about Andrew tate. I said he was a great guy and I liked him and is what young men needed as a role model. She obviously hated him like most women do. The rest of the night went smoothly and I went in for a kiss which she happily reciprocated and fingered her and sucked her tirs right there. I said let’s get a hotel she said she’s going to work so she can’t. We proceeded to make our more and I made her so horny she said she wanted to go to the hotel. I got the hotel which cost 400 dollars then after I got the room I proceed to eat hee out and then finally stick my **** in hee mouth. She then leaves and says I felt like I was forcing myself onto her but I know that was just an excuse for her to go. Wtf

Haha I dunno why I found this funny. No offense to you OP, I mean you got some action so kudos.

It's more because:

1) Who brings up Andrew Tate on a first date? And why would you respond to that question knowing most women hate him? I like the honesty, but if your plan was to bang her you ignore and change the convo to something lighter. As others have suggested, avoid any divisive topics: Covid, abortion, politics, religion, etc, etc. Those conversations are fine o have with someone you really want to get to know and like on the 6th date when you have created a solid rapport.
2) Stop watching porn. Sticking your d**k in a girl's mouth might be a bit of a strong move. Usually, women want to submit to you and allow you to have your way with them if you have a rapport and there is an emotional and physical connection. Or if the girl is just straight-up rachet and used to being treated like trash.

Overall, I think the Andrew Tate convo was only a small fraction. Your problem was being too pushy and not escalating properly. You literally went 0-100, real quick.


Modern Man Advice

 

[member160292]

OP's ballin' - a 26 year old able to drop $400 on a room. He better be getting a BJ

 

[espanish]

you're wrong. They like stability. Thinking outside the box is a sign of restlessness and instability, especially in modern culture where free thought is demonized.

that's why I said any woman with a brain, aka any woman who realizes free thought should not be demonized.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Haha I dunno why I found this funny. No offense to you OP, I mean you got some action so kudos.

It's more because:

1) Who brings up Andrew Tate on a first date? And why would you respond to that question knowing most women hate him? I like the honesty, but if your plan was to bang her you ignore and change the convo to something lighter. As others have suggested, avoid any divisive topics: Covid, abortion, politics, religion, etc, etc. Those conversations are fine o have with someone you really want to get to know and like on the 6th date when you have created a solid rapport.
2) Stop watching porn. Sticking your d**k in a girl's mouth might be a bit of a strong move. Usually, women want to submit to you and allow you to have your way with them if you have a rapport and there is an emotional and physical connection. Or if the girl is just straight-up rachet and used to being treated like trash.

Overall, I think the Andrew Tate convo was only a small fraction. Your problem was being too pushy and not escalating properly. You literally went 0-100, real quick.


Modern Man Advice

Yeah looking back I know what I did wrong. Tbh I thought me agreeing with her that Andrew was bad would’ve made me look weak. But I gave her my honest views and while I was talking she was staring at my face like the deer I. The headlight look just ready to duck me. There were a couple things I could’ve done. When I was eating her out I was like she’s so tight omg. 20 year old Latina lol

 

[espanish]

we deal with majorities here, sir. There are women that prefer that your life is a trainwreck so that they can mommy you. We don't advise people to attempt to attract those women.

ok well I guess for most men is about quantity, for me it's about quality. If I have to be fake with a woman to get in her pants then I would not waste my time with her. I would rather just watch porn.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

OP's ballin' - a 26 year old able to drop $400 on a room. He better be getting a BJ

I’m not lmao but she was so ****ing hot I booked it right there. I got a blow job but I mostly ate her out so she won ****

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

disagree. any woman with a brain loves it when you stand up for your beliefs even if your beliefs are unpopular. in fact you don't want to fit in. that makes you the nonpolar nice guy that women pretend to like but in fact hate.
politics, religion, anything controversial is fair game. I told this religious girl I hate religion. can't care less what she thinks.
if women you date go crazy if you stand up for yourself then clearly you are dating women that are superficial and stupid.
op - clearly the andrew tate thing wasn't an issue here. when a woman is turned off she is turned off immediately not 2 hours later.
by the way I genuinely don't know who that is, can't care less.

That was my thought as well. But she was one of those super conformist girls. Most girls in America are. I find girls from Eastern Europe tend to like men who stand up for their beliefs while women in America like beta males

 

[The Duke]

OP.....I think you made her feel like a wh0re.

 

[devilkingx2]

Took this Latina out for a date in my car. Eberyrhing going fine until she said what I thought about Andrew tate. I said he was a great guy and I liked him and is what young men needed as a role model. She obviously hated him like most women do.

I've never seen an Andrew Tate video so I would just say that I don't believe what they say about him.

You should've said you watch him for entertainment and don't take it too seriously.

The rest of the night went smoothly and I went in for a kiss which she happily reciprocated and fingered her and sucked her tirs right there. I said let’s get a hotel she said she’s going to work so she can’t. We proceeded to make our more and I made her so horny she said she wanted to go to the hotel. I got the hotel which cost 400 dollars then after I got the room I proceed to eat hee out and then finally stick my **** in hee mouth. She then leaves and says I felt like I was forcing myself onto her but I know that was just an excuse for her to go. Wtf

1. Clearly she doesn't care about the Andrew Tate thing that much after she goes to a hotel with you and does oral.

2. Stay away from a woman who thinks regret = rape or that she'll just throw you under the bus for her reputation.

3. Damn dropping $400 on a date, no wonder you don't seem happy about getting a BJ a hotel room lol.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I got the hotel which cost 400 dollars

dude wtf...

 

[Bokanovsky]

you're wrong. They like stability. Thinking outside the box is a sign of restlessness and instability, especially in modern culture where free thought is demonized.

Neither of you are completely wrong (or right). Some women do like men who express controversial opinions. If she is already attracted to you physically, you “standing up” for yourself may be a further turn on. However, if her level of attraction is not very high, she will use your “controversial” opinions as an excuse to disqualify you.

Having controversial opinions is kind of like being a jerk or making sexually suggestive comments. If you are a good looking/popular guy, you will probably get away with it and to some women may even find that attractive. If you are an average guy, you will be penalized.