I think females are more 'advanced' than men

[kavi]

Something I realised lately, the difference between the genders has become clearer and it seems to me now women are more advanced in their personal development and understanding. This has some major consequences for the socio-political landscape and can affect all things going forward in society.

The video below kinda makes it clearer what I mean. You see, most guys are all about keeping their income and making more, and other than that trying to get laid, put on muscle, diet, and sports and other hobbies. But, the women, they are really thinking about self-development and growth, and tbh these things are important. Its like the men only care about external material things but the women care more about their internal state and growth and development. They take their emotional and mental state more clearly, take a lot of time for themselves like retreats and feeling good, and also training and development stuff.

This has major implications for romantic interactions as that work and time women are putting into self-care/self-growth etc directly correlates with Game and Internal Game and this 'non-material' ie non-economic/professional, monetary aspect of life has more relevance to Game and attraction and emotional skills.

Because of this, females imo are now becoming more 'smarter' and relevant than men. Its like the men have been too beta and too 'manipulated' for too long and still cant see the real reality in front of them which is Game but work and money stuff and then getting/keeping women is keeping them fully occupied that they cannot seethe other side of freedom and self.

I think women are past that life of being married to a guy who wants to come home and sit in front of the tv.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

men evolved to go out into the world and kill sh*t so everybody could eat.

women evolved to create and maintain relationships and to "manipulate" men so they and their kids would get fed.

different roles different skills

 

[Plinco]

Its like the men only care about external material things but the women care more about their internal state and growth and development. They take their emotional and mental state more clearly, take a lot of time for themselves like retreats and feeling good, and also training and development stuff.

Is this what you call personal development?

Because of this, females imo are now becoming more 'smarter' and relevant than men. Its like the men have been too beta and too 'manipulated' for too long and still cant see the real reality in front of them which is Game but work and money stuff and then getting/keeping women is keeping them fully occupied that they cannot seethe other side of freedom and self.

Most women I've seen don't develop themselves in any meaningful way, besides gaining experience with their and other's emotional states.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

100% fundamentally disagree with pretty much everything you said.

 

[The Duke]

Men have ruled the world in pretty much every segment since the beginning of time and still do. They've dominated politics, engineering, law, medicine, and business.

lol, "more advanced".....and "smarter"

Now I do agree that women think about themselves a lot! They love being catered to and are good at that.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

men evolved to go out into the world and kill sh*t so everybody could eat.

women evolved to create and maintain relationships and to "manipulate" men so they and their kids would get fed.

different roles different skills

Lolz humans evolved so both sexes have these traits. Genders don't evolve separately, which is what this comment comically implies.

Posting in a Kavi thread 11/11/2024.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

They take their emotional and mental state more clearly,

Found the fundamental flaw - they make take their emotional and mental states more seriously, but certainly not more clearly.

Delusion leads to devolution, not evolution.

C'mon man.

 

[plumber]

The flaw with this topic is thinking about men and women as the same and then try to rationalize the different behavior.

They are different, the way the brain works at a low level is different.

Try soaking your brain in estrogen and it will also start working different.

In some ways a dog is more advanced than a man. Running speed, hearing, smell, and some instincts. Somehow we usually learn to manage the dog, and the dog will love us. Some never learn how to manage the dog, and get bit. Does this sound familiar....

If you let the dog manage you, you get bit. It is the way.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Women have historically faced a different battlefield than men. Throughout ancient times, power was largely gained through physical strength and brute force, a domain predominantly ruled by men. This left women without the means to wield power in the same way, politically, socially, or within the home. However, women understood that men’s primary desire often centers on sex. By controlling the dynamics of giving or withholding it, women found a long-lasting and effective means of turning the power balance in their favor.

In modern times, brute force and strength are less relevant, and women’s power over men has become more psychological. Women understand the emotional bonds that form when men fall in love—how men can become emotionally vulnerable, gullible, and easily manipulated. Through emotional play, women can create pleasure, stir confusion, and influence desire, shaping men's emotions and decisions.

In this context, there’s little incentive for a woman to invest time or energy into persuading someone who is powerless or lacks any value to offer.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Genders don't evolve separately,

Actually they do.

Amazon.com

Easy read but tons of academic references showing many differences in evolution between the genders.

Humans (or rather proto humans) are the only animals that split along gender lines way back in the day as far as food acquisition.

Different skills, different roles, different traits.

 

[kavi]

My post is related fundemantally to the idea of 'What is the end game' and my major point is the 'End game' for men looking to relate to high quality ie middle class educated women isnt going to sitting on the couch watching tv into middle age.

In saying men are still living life and strategizing with the end goal of sitting on a couch watching tv in house they paid for with kids grown up etc but young women today as they progress in life will get bored of that and surely will leave such men.

So as men to be successful in life esp middle class men will probably need to learn how to 'entertain' by doing more emotional and social stuff like parties travel? Wellness basically all other higher stuff other than just making money and paying bills and sitting on the couch butni dont see men doing anything in that direction.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

My post is related fundemantally to the idea of 'What is the end game' and my major point is the 'End game' for men looking to relate to high quality ie middle class educated women isnt going to sitting on the couch watching tv into middle age.

In saying men are still living life and strategizing with the end goal of sitting on a couch watching tv in house they paid for with kids grown up etc but young women today as they progress in life will get bored of that and surely will leave such men.

So as men to be successful in life esp middle class men will probably need to learn how to 'entertain' by doing more emotional and social stuff like parties travel? Wellness basically all other higher stuff other than just making money and paying bills and sitting on the couch butni dont see men doing anything in that direction.

If you think you win the endgame by "entertaining" her, you lost already.

You will be her fvcking clown for the day, until she finds someone that"entertains" her "more".