Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I think what many of you are missing is that a man who pays attention to style will stand out way above the masses. Most men don't know how to dress and don't care, and women know it.Falfa said:Gonna have to disagree with you here. I'd say that a man's genetics and fitness trump "fashion."
I go out to clubs in a $10 shirt I got from Zara and see the same results I'd get if I were wearing an overpriced, $80 Ralph Lauren shirt. So long as you're not going out of your way to look chitty, you should be fine.
Genetics and fitness mitigate physical unattractiveness. Clothing might hide it. At the end of the day, I'd say that it's a better long-term investment to dedicate yourself to fitness than to drop an obscene amount of money buying designer brands.
Maybe if you want to do that stuff after you've built a nice physique, I could judge it as appropriate.
Women respond to subtle displays of power. A man who dresses well (just a little better than his peers) causes him to stand out big-time. Nobody mentioned "dropping an obscene amount of money buying designer brands". There is no need for that. All a man has to do to stand out is to dress just a little better than those around him. It conveys power and social awareness.
I'm surprised that more of you haven't noticed this in your own experiences. I'm not a bad looking guy, but even still it seems that nice clothing (again, just a little better than average) turns lots of heads. Some of them are even women!!
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