I tend to agree to the limited effectivness of cold approaches

[In2theGame]

Wow, thanks man. Helped a lot !

I remember one time I said to a girl " Well, first time I met you I thought you're some crazy *****, I hope I'm wrong..." and she made that YouSonOfA***** look and walked away. So I say "you're some crazy girl who would break my heart" instead...
It depends on the girl and you shouldnt say that right away lol because it will turn her off. A better move would be "nice at first" you know something like, "hey.. I dont mean to bother you but i thought you were really cute or you looked really nice or I think your sexy... DEPENDING on the initial vibe you get from her. once you have her kind of laughing and having a convo with you then you can throw in a little neg in there

Anyway I wondered how did you talk with that girl in group.


You know , you go in a group of girls, tell that girl that she's beautiful, and you continue with convo. But the **** you do with the group?

Especially on the street? Talk with them etc...
If your going to approach the girl in the group, you have to at least initiate the whole group. Lets say you want to talk to one of them. Go up to her first and say your intro "Hey i thought you were very cute, Attractive,Sexy, beautiful..etc See her reaction first.. If she smiles, laughs, smiles and says thank you, Immediately pull the line out "i didnt mean to bother you with your friends" But its HOW you say it.. meaning put your hand up slightly and back up just a tad bit, kind of like your ready to leave her, If she says "oh no, its okay" with a smile... keep it going with convo, for example... "ohh okay, you sure?" make her double confirm.. then say something like "so what are you up to tonight? just a girls night out?" etc... keep it going and escalate .. .


I once approached a girl in a group, chatted, took her number , she had weird look. And her girlfriends had shocked faces when I said "Give me your number I wanna hang out with you "

-Hang out?

"What part didn't you understand ? I wanna meet you better."

-Okay...

...

That number was fake and her gf's were kind of amazed. Girl was 6 years older than me... Bad luck I guess..
LOL that didnt sound to smooth but you;; run into that when you start engaging in convos with girls. Just keep it light and try to get the girl to smile by complimenting her a bit and introduce yourself to the crew of girls. Remember, when your talking to a girl in a group, your basically talking to all of them until you get her detached from them. Girls always play the "protect my girlfriend" role.

Also, learn to dance and move. One of my "moves" is when the music is playing and bumping... i see a girl and grab her hand lightly and start movin as she follows my lead, Many many times it has lead to make outs or sexual escalations. Learn to move to music like this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQaK5FsGKHI They play things like that when i head out. Ive picked up all types of girls too. Corporate types, Shy types, Slutty types, Strippers..etc Every type you need to adjust your game, like Baseball... cant approach every pitcher the same way as some throw fastballs, Curveballs, Changeups Etc... Adapt and learn as you go.

 

[ScottMustaine]

Also, learn to dance and move. One of my "moves" is when the music is playing and bumping... i see a girl and grab her hand lightly and start movin as she follows my lead, Many many times it has lead to make outs or sexual escalations. Learn to move to music like this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQaK5FsGKHI They play things like that when i head out. Ive picked up all types of girls too. Corporate types, Shy types, Slutty types, Strippers..etc Every type you need to adjust your game, like Baseball... cant approach every pitcher the same way as some throw fastballs, Curveballs, Changeups Etc... Adapt and learn as you go.

Well I approached them (first time in my life) it was a concert and I asked her to borrow me her phone, during the waiting for my friend to answer, I started convo. I was smiling and making jokes " So what part of hang out you didn't understand" was in a playful way. It's just that the girls can't stand to be with a guy who's younger than them. I was 18 and she 22. Her IL went bang down when she figured out I'm younger than she is. I bet her gf's were " Are you really go out with that kid ? " . Anyway I look pretty much older. But seem not to change. I looked like this with 14 years as well.



Hell, so they say " We are going to party bla bla"

And what next ?


-Wow, seems cool, too bad I can't join you guys, would be fun... though if you give me your number we can hang out some other time.



Or if they say " we are going to x place to hang out "


-Cool, mind if I join in the fun ?


or if you can't

-use the same line with the party?



I can talk for hours when meeting. But with approach it seems so weird and pretty much awkward.


I picked my gf's number like this


-Heeey what's up.

-In shock, making up her hair- Nothing, going to meet my friends

-Cool , where?

-Some music festival

- That's nice, I was yesterday at Ozzy osbourne, were you there?

-No

-You missed a lot of fun, anyway what school you're in ?

- :schoolname:

- Heard it's hard as fck

- well it's not that much

- Well I'm from :schoolname: , pretty much the same **** you encounter there. So far so good. Anyway my name is Mustaine.

- :name:

- Well that's a nice name, I'd like to meet you so give me your number and we can hang out sometime

- Yeah sure

-Cya around


Done that in less than 2 minutes. I felt like a winner. THat was the second approach. Second succesful number take.



Nowadays I feel like I lost that power to approach, maybe because im relationship now...