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Don Juan
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Hi all, I'm new in this forum. Well, about a year ago I used to be a complete loser - I'd never go out on dates, I was very shy, etc. Now I'm at college - the situation seems to have changed for the better. I had a short relationship with one gal, but later I lost my interest and ignored her, so everything ended. Also made out with one girl at a club - this is quite an achievement for me lol. However, this didn't lead to anything more serious. The problem is that I suck with most of the girls. At first they seem to be interested but I start acting like an AFC guy and then their IL drops.
I'm now in a depression because of my last crush. Everything seemed to be perfect in the beginning. We went a few times for a walk, had goodbye kiss. She was really interested, would text me a lot, would even talk about having kids, marriage, lol. She would tell me she had a crush on me - I told it to her either and quite a lot of times(I know I did wrong). I also had a forthcoming date with her in a few days. Yet I managed to mess up everything somehow. I think I've shown too much interest, was too clingy, needy. Maybe it's because she's a 10 or at least a 9 - really very popular girl and attracts MUCH attention from others. Yesterday she texted me of fb, but didn't seem very interested and the convo wasn't really exciting at all. I suggested having some time apart, without texting, etc - I thought it would help. And she said sth similarly to this(well, neither of us is from an English speaking country): "why? we're not a couple, just friends". And later she also told that she has a crush on another guy, she doesn't know what she wants and similar bullsh1t.
So, I'm on my own right now. Deleted her from fb, deleted her number and trying to get over her. I had a similar situation a few moths ago with another girl. I know I have some self esteem issues - I don't feel too confident about my looks, girls don't usually chase me.
How do I change my behavior and become more successful? Thanks.
I'm now in a depression because of my last crush. Everything seemed to be perfect in the beginning. We went a few times for a walk, had goodbye kiss. She was really interested, would text me a lot, would even talk about having kids, marriage, lol. She would tell me she had a crush on me - I told it to her either and quite a lot of times(I know I did wrong). I also had a forthcoming date with her in a few days. Yet I managed to mess up everything somehow. I think I've shown too much interest, was too clingy, needy. Maybe it's because she's a 10 or at least a 9 - really very popular girl and attracts MUCH attention from others. Yesterday she texted me of fb, but didn't seem very interested and the convo wasn't really exciting at all. I suggested having some time apart, without texting, etc - I thought it would help. And she said sth similarly to this(well, neither of us is from an English speaking country): "why? we're not a couple, just friends". And later she also told that she has a crush on another guy, she doesn't know what she wants and similar bullsh1t.
So, I'm on my own right now. Deleted her from fb, deleted her number and trying to get over her. I had a similar situation a few moths ago with another girl. I know I have some self esteem issues - I don't feel too confident about my looks, girls don't usually chase me.
How do I change my behavior and become more successful? Thanks.