I still struggle with the abundance mindset

Guy69JackBlue

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It sounds to me like you have no interest in seduction. Just purely transactional sex... Which begs the question why are you on this site? The name of this site isn't sotransactional.
Idk. To see how things are done by other people, I guess. To see if there's anything I'm missing by just doing transactional. I spend probably $40k/year on sex so if there's a better way to do it, I'm all ears. It's hard to know which posts on this forum are legit vs. false male ego bragging.
 

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Idk. To see how things are done by other people, I guess. To see if there's anything I'm missing by just doing transactional. I spend probably $40k/year on sex so if there's a better way to do it, I'm all ears. It's hard to know which posts on this forum are legit vs. false male ego bragging.
Dude 40k a year? With that money you could afford HOT hookers. Why not go that route? If you looking for free sex, it's gonna be more chaotic. Maybe that's not for you
 

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Dude 40k a year? With that money you could afford HOT hookers. Why not go that route? If you looking for free sex, it's gonna be more chaotic. Maybe that's not for you
I do get hot hookers. That's the only kind I get. Often for very cheap if I'm traveling.
 

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Yeah if you can burn that much, might as well stick to hookers. Seeing that time is money, and you don't want to invest that much time to improve seduction skills it makes the most sense for you to do transactional.
Are seduction skills really a thing? I hate to just seem like I'm running or quitting.
 

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$40000 per year. This is tempting me to break nofap on escorts.
 

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Abundance mindset is a mindset. It’s not actually having tons and tons of girls. It’s about having the mentality of “if this doesn’t work out, no issue, move on to the next one.”
 

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Man, would you knock it off with the constant fap talk. You over played your hand on it. We get it... You have a serious problem with self control... The thing is since you overplayed it, no one cares....
No problem. Ignoring you too.
 

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Abundance mindset is a mindset. It’s not actually having tons and tons of girls. It’s about having the mentality of “if this doesn’t work out, no issue, move on to the next one.”
Right then I have an abundance mindset since nothing has worked out.
 
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