I spit in a HB9 face.

[learningtopimp]

Man don't get mad for saying this but you gotta maintain your calm player....don't do stuff like this.

 

[icepick]

Oh please, you have to admit that you were a p*ssy. Forget all of this AFC, DJ, Alpha, mumbo jumbo.

You spit in the face of a guy, and you got a fight on your hands.

You spit in the face of a girl...and what? What is so great about that?

Listen bud, everyone loses thier cool sometimes, but to still stand by it? Because it is "alpha"?

Sh*t man, if you want to talk "alpha", what you should have done was just picked her up, walked out your front door, set her down, walk back in your house, slam the door, and lock it.

I have had to do that a couple of times before. Believe me, some girls have gotten me so angry that I couldn't take it. They realize it too when after I deposit them outside my door they hear me punching the sh*t out of my walls.

Problem solved.

 

[Click Here]

Originally posted by icepick

Sh*t man, if you want to talk "alpha", what you should have done was just picked her up, walked out your front door, set her down, walk back in your house, slam the door, and lock it.

I have had to do that a couple of times before. Believe me, some girls have gotten me so angry that I couldn't take it. They realize it too when after I deposit them outside my door they hear me punching the sh*t out of my walls.

Problem solved.

heh im likin that.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Click Here
i really can't think of any other way to handle this while keeping my pride. if you know of any i'd like to hear them?

walking away is not a option. sorry but thats just not something I consider possible.

First of all, kudos to you for looking for another way to handle this.

Of course, my first choice in a situation like this would be to walk away, even though you said that's not an option you'd consider. A girl like this isn't worth your time or energy, and I guarantee you if you're worrying about the respect of other people, walking away will get you more respect than spitting in a girl's face.

Seriously, you should be above all that. But if you really feel you have to do something, just sink to her level, insult her back and call it even. That's not the path I would go down, but...

The point is, when you spat on this girl, you not only sank to her level, you took the submarine to the ocean's floor.

 

[Capi Crimini]

I got into a racila argument once cause one kid was being a jackass and said I was a KKK and the black chick took him seriously and started *****ing me out. I tries to stay calm and explain it. But she wouldn't let it go. she was so pissed at me that she ended up slapping me. I rasied my hand like I was gonna slap her and said

"*****, If you ever slap me like that agian I'll slap you ****in back twice as hard. Believe whatever the **** you want."lookin her straigh in the eyes. Like I was pissed(and I was)

And walked off. that night I was ****ins scared some black dudes was gona come and beat my ass. AS it turns out she found out that I had a ton of Black and Spnish friends and was far from being a KKK member. So in the morning she appologized.

The best thing you can do when a chick or anyones disrespectings is to just walk off. Tell them **** it and walk off. If you spit in thier face you come off as the jackass. Jus leave it thas all you can do. But yeah no matter how *****y a women is never hit her. Don't take respect but never hit spit or whateve, You come off as some abusing *******.

Whoop that was alil' longer than I meant

Microphone friend. Naw I wouldn't of hit here.(she had four black huys wit her and two more chicks. Hey I could have taken on maybe two but...) The threats all that counts. Plus I didn't want a racila fight

 

[Click Here]

grr.. maybe so gio, but i think i'd loose more respect if i let a girl joke me and just walked away from it. i dunno what it is about me... maybe just.. i have sort of a rep in my town of being someone who stands up to anyone.. it didnt make a difference she was a girl. to me she was someone, who disrespected me and by her saying "do something about it" or what not i had to do something and spitting was the first white trash thing that came to mind...

wow this is really similar to me and my ex breaking up, maybe you read the post about me pouring a drink in her face... i've got some issues, i know that, but getting **** from ****ers on this board about my actions being AFC? doesnt help it.

thx gio but im still unclear about what i can do. when a girl says "do something about it" its like you have to...

and just for the record... i see the nice afc walking away from it... and that doesnt sit to well with me.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Wtf, In that story, you were about to hit the chick if she hit you again. Anyways, what is with the double standard that women can hit you but you cant lay a finger on them. I understand that we are naturally more powerful, but you gotta draw the line somewhere. Isn't sosuave about treating men and women equally?

Your parents failed you. Sue them.

 

[Click Here]

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
Your parents failed you. Sue them.

in no way did my parents fail me, and i never said id hit her. that was made up by that poster. i think your parents failed you. your a woman who comes to a male board on how to get women. attractive women need websites... not.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Click Here, did it occur to you that when she said, "Do something about it," that perhaps she was HOPING that you would act like a complete ass in front of everyone (like you did)? Did it occur to you that when you had your little hissy fit you were giving her EXACTLY what she wanted?

Did it occur to you that walking away, or just insulting her, or basically anything short of shooting bodily fluids at this girl would have actually been a VICTORY for you?

 

[Ronin I]

Sorry dude but spitting in somebody's face is a classless thing to do irregardless of the circumstances.

You need to learn to not be bothered by what some dumb little b!tch says to you. If she's a dumb little b!tch why should ANYTHING she has to say matter to you?

 

[icepick]

Originally posted by Click Here
thx gio but im still unclear about what i can do. when a girl says "do something about it" its like you have to...

and just for the record... i see the nice afc walking away from it... and that doesnt sit to well with me.

I know what you mean.

Think of it like this.

You have REFLEXES that tell you that you just want to smash the b*tches head in. Teach her a lesson.

Then you have LOGICAL THOUGHT that tells you that you can't do that, because it is not fair.

The key is NOT in stifiling the reflexes (like AFC's do by trying to seem "nice" and have a smiley-smile face with flowers coming out of thier ass)...NO, that is for repressed fools.

The key is in making your CONTROL and COMPOSURE to be STRONG enough to be able to do something that won't escalate into the 3rd world war.

Sure, there will be steam coming out of your eyes, and your veins will be popping out of your head, you will be shaking and fuming...BUT, you still have control over yourself enough to solve the problem (by saying "Get out." or "I don't want to do something that I will regret later." or something of that nature, by doing something LESS SPAZTIC.)

You are the king of the f*ckin' jungle man! How is some girl gonna make ya lose your cool?

See what I am getting at? You don't have to be WEAK, people can already see that you are PISSED by your body language, but in thier they respect you more because you know your boundaries, and how to pick your fights.

And there is always that fear in the back of thier minds that you might snap, and they will be at the brunt of all your obvious anger.

 

[Silquee Smoove]

Now that this thread is open again?

Anyhow...I agree with what you're saying Click..and I'm not hating on ya' most girls tend to act like spoiled brats (esp. if they are in a pack with a bunch of gang-banger wannabes/punk social maladjusts) you name it.

 

[ShortyBrown]

OH great, another TheEdge.

Originally posted by Click Here
in no way did my parents fail me, and i never said id hit her. that was made up by that poster. i think your parents failed you. your a woman who comes to a male board on how to get women. attractive women need websites... not.

I was not directing my remarks at you, they were at the person who said there was a double standard in men raising their hand to a woman.

attractive women need websites... not.

I hope her boyfriend finds you.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Ronin I
Sorry dude but spitting in somebody's face is a classless thing to do irregardless of the circumstances.

You need to learn to not be bothered by what some dumb little b!tch says to you. If she's a dumb little b!tch why should ANYTHING she has to say matter to you?

Sorry man, you fvcked that one up. The MOST I would have done was walk right up to her, stand face to face and tell her not to push me any further. Then I would've given her a dirty look and spat on her shoe or something as I walked away, while maintaining eye contact. That in your face shiat was over the top, even for a really messed up biatch.

 

[Donjuanpablo]

If you cant command respect from someone, look within yourself to find out why, dont take it out on them. You've got some serious self esteem issues man, and the fact that you cant see the wrong in this is disturbing.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
Then I would've given her a dirty look and spat on her shoe or something as I walked away

What's with the spitting AT ALL?

Is it possible for us, as reasonably civilized human beings, to be pissed off AND keep our saliva in our mouths AT THE SAME TIME?

Is that too much to ask?

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
What's with the spitting AT ALL?

Is it possible for us, as reasonably civilized human beings, to be pissed off AND keep our saliva in our mouths AT THE SAME TIME?

Is that too much to ask?

No Giovanni, I have done that before. I did it on purpose to start some shiat. I don't condone it, but sometimes it happens when you're out of your mind with anger. I would still have enough control over my emotions to not spit in someone's FACE, though. That's all I'm saying.

 

[mosaic]

Sounds to me like you need to stop being so sensitive.

 

[Krassus]

Anger is a sign of weakness. Weakness is an AFC trait. Bend these two statements any way you like, but they will still remain true. Whatever "alpha" bull**** you've got stuck in your head is irrelevant. You should never allow a woman to get you angry. No matter what she does. Period. Like someone above said, carry her outside and lock the door if you have to, but don't lose your temper, don't lose CONTROL. Seriously, i know alcohol played a part here, but you went too far. Spitting in a girl's face for something she SAID? Are you really insecure enough to let that get to you?

 

[BobbDobbs]

Rage and uncontrolled anger are the hallmarks of the low status male.