Honestly the first night I stay over at a girls house I sandbag it ie. just kiss and don't push for sex. You should have made a move and not pushed for sex in anyway. But I would have started to make out with her at lest. When you sandbag it she'll notice and it makes you come off as you know its gonna happen eventually and she won't feel like a slut the next time you see and fvck her.
