I Seriously Fvcked Up! Vodka<embarasment<cops!

[Ken785]

oh, and since the girl hit you first (that's what I've gathered from your original story), I don't see the problem in reciprocating.

There's a saying in french:
"Celui qui sème le vent, récolte la tempête" (The one who sows the wind, cultivates the storm).

Basically, if she can't pay the consequences of her actions, she shouldn't play the risk in the first place. Women crave for equality, but then when equality comes in unfavorable ways, they whine and complain.

She was in the wrong, not you. Your mistake was trying to explain yourself to her, showing your guilt. Through this, you gave her your power, and she bent you over and PIITB

i know, its retarded man...she slaps me and then i turn around and slap her and all of a sudden everyone is shocked like a assaulted her or something....hes talking about 'dont ever hit my girl!' PsSh...i did it jokingly...

but the guy that punched me, i seen him put his hands on his girl a couple times too during their fights!

...what a hipocrite!

 

[KarmaSutra]

Let the past remain the past youngblood. You already know that this was a horrible situation for you to be in and in that acknowledgment you understand that you need to fix yourself not your family.

I'm proud of you for walking away from it all and starting over. You deserve it. You need to realize that men don't bicker over women, women bicker over women. Men must be occupied with self attainment and glory of thier own energies. To become the vehicle for change in his own life.

You're on your way my brother.

 

[Gaucho]

Welcome to my world bro!

A few weeks back, I went to my work Christmas party, abused a few people, smashed a glass, swore at them, told them Im quitting, and walked out!

Next day, I just brushed it off and laughed. Nobody cared.

Everybody understands when your mute, as long as you dont do it week in and week out! But every now and then, if you make a fool of yourself, nobody cares! And if they do, FUKC them! You live your life and enjoy doing what you do, as long as your not beating someone down, drink driving or something other really hurtful to someone, then who cares!

Your cousin probably didnt answer cause he was also scattered, paranoid and embarassed, as most people feel the day after a HUGE night on the turps!

You will soon realise after many more nights drinking, that when you wake up and feel paranoid the next day, its a WHOLE LOT BIGGER situation in your head, than it is to anyone else!

In a month, it will be a distant memory that you laugh about!

Just remember, if you dont kill someone or seriously injure someone, then who cares! Enjoy it and laugh about it! If someone is so uptight about something that small, then they are the one who is sheltered!

Enjoy your next moment of glory!

Oh and as for crying when your drunk, ha ha ha, who cares! I have done this multiple times as have most guys who have gone out and partied on numerous occassions. Even one of my best friends, who is a HUGE, professional athlete and who knocks guys out (not a good thing) nearly every single week, has cried numerous times when his on the turps.

The main thing is, dont do anything to really hurt someone (this little slap on the back incident is nothing) and the next day, walk with your head up, chest out, shoulders back, and dont let anyone talk down to you. IF they give you advice and you dont want it, just dont respond and dont look at them, just pretend your thinking of something else, they will soon stop talking! If someone gets angry, tell them to lighten up and that their too uptight! There are plenty of people like this out there, plenty who HATE when others get drunk, and they are all usually the real uptight people, who dont enjoy their lives themselves!

If you can enjoy your time not drinking, then dont, but if you have fun out on the turps, then drink! Simple as that! I know its cliche when you hear "life is not long, enjoy it", but it is the honest truth!

 

[iqqi]

Like everyone else said, you live and you learn.

You were drunk, they were drunk. Sh!t happens.

You should've apologized profusely to her when you hit her and realized you did it too hard. You should have done the whole supplicating AFC thing "I'm so sorry Lisa! (Or whatever). I'm really sorry!!! I thought you were Bob! (Or whatever). I'm drunk, I'm really sorry! Can I get you something? Do you forgive me? Do you want to hit me back in the face really hard!? HERE, hit me!"

You probably didn't come across as sincere, and I can tell you right now, by letting her hit you back, it would have hurt LESS than her BF/your cuz socking you, AND an added benefit of her laughter and forgiveness once you showed you REALLY WERE SORRY, and also besides that A Good Guy, and a silly funny person. (Not a wife beater drunk!)

After that, if they STILL were on your case, you should've just left to save face, by going to sleep somewhere.

And I am on the fence about whether or not you should've hit your cuz back. It could've made you look worse. I mean, he was drunk and defending his girl, but.... I don't know.

I can see why you got so upset. You need to work in the Diffusing Situations area.