I sent her a mess and she responded with her #

aron77

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So I sent this girl a message from a dating site and she took several days to respond, I had already said f her, but all of the sudden thursday she responds, I seem nice... sense of humor... she is "very interested" but she doesn't spend much time on that site so here is her number and she'd like to talk a little before we meet. I responded back with my number but told her I was pretty busy this weekend but I'd probably have some time to talk towards the end of the weekend or the begining of the week. I'd be more tempted to call sooner but I really am busy with work and the ufc tonight, that worked out well so I dont look too eager.

I don't want to spend too much time on the phone without meeting her nor am I much of a phone person so how much do I talk to her before I push to meet up? I'm thinking a couple of calls that I try to not let drag on too long and then try to pin her down but she seems suspicious and is a single mom so I don't want to be too pushy. However, I'm already a bit perplexed by her since I am relatively sure that she got my message the next morning when the site showed her logging in and then she doesn't respond for several days which would seem to indicate a lack of interest and now all of the sudden she says she is very interested and gives me her number.
 

Alle_Gory

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It's probably code for: Quit being a woman and talk on the phone. Phone, not text.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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It only takes 3 minutes to call her and set something up. Quit being a little b*tch.
 

PDubb75

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aron77 said:
and is a single mom so I don't want to be too pushy.
The fact that she is a single mom should be why you ARE pushy. Do you think single moms have all the time in the world? They are raising a kid, that depending on age, might need babysitters for her to do anything. Make a date on your first call. She's not gonna drop everything to sit on the phone with you 5 times before you ask her on a date.

Stop worrying about her interest level based on when she responded to you. She gave you her number. Actions speak louder than words.
 
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r0cky

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If you had the time to come into this forum and write a post, you have time for a 5 minute phone call bud. Take action and leave the excuses behind.
 

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Be ****y and fun, if it works well, she will ask you when your going to hang out.
 

LoneWolf

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gotta love when people say they are too busy to make a 5 minute phone call. that is just utter bs.
 
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