I screwed up, plz help me fix my situation!!!

[Rampag35]

So there's this girl that I really like and have been getting to know pretty well these past couple of months. We get along great..we talk, we're friends, we text, talk on the phone, help out with schoolwork, etc.

Well, I finally decided to man up and start sitting next to her in class because we usually only hung around during break.

Monday, I moved seats and finally sat next to her.

Ever since then, we haven't talked! We're in class 3 hours a day, sit 6 inches apart from each other, and I haven't said one word to her. WTF...from the introduction I gave above, you'd think everything was going well correct?

Well, it was...till I f*cked it all up. Ever since I moved seats next to her, it's like my balls f*cking dropped. I haven't tried making eye contact, talking, etc. Basically I've just been ignoring her these past 5 days.

So we go from talking and being buds, to not talking at all. It's so awkward and it's all my fault. Now she either thinks I'm some weirdo, or is mad at me for ignoring her. I tried maintaining my status, by conversating with everyone around me in class, to show confidence in my peers...I talked to everyone BUT her.

WTF am I supposed to do...I had 5 days of screwing it up not saying a word to her and get myself in this mess, now it's going to be tough getting out.

Is there any way I can fix this?

Starting off a regular convo like nothing happened would be obvious...she'd still wonder why I didn't talk to her at all last week, and probably thinks I'm some two faced chump.

I've seriously been thinking about Apologizing. I'm going to be up front, and be like..."Hey, I know you're not stupid and neither am I, I just wanted to be honest and apologize for not speaking to you at all last week...." and I'll take it from there.

What does everyone think? What would you do if you were in my situation?

I really like this girl too, used to have a crush on her. She was always friendly to me...and it just saddens me and makes me feel like **** realizing what bull**** I've done to her and myself. All because I was too shy.

Please help me guys, it's Saturday and I plan on texting her sometime tonight to see what's up.

 

[Strongsauce]

If things were going as well as you said, then she ought to start up conversations with you on her own accord every now and then. These things shouldn't be one sided with you doing ALL of the work to make chit chat.

I've seriously been thinking about Apologizing. I'm going to be up front, and be like..."Hey, I know you're not stupid and neither am I, I just wanted to be honest and apologize for not speaking to you at all last week...." and I'll take it from there.

Don't apologize for anything. Based on what you said already, you're either blowing something way out of proportion, or you did something to this chick that you forgot to mention. But it sounds like you didn't outright insult her. So, the next time you decide to speak with her again, act like nothing happened and see how she reacts. If she makes a big deal out of it, tease her for being a little girl.

Oh and don't text her before you talk to her in person again. It won't look any better on your part.

 

[Black suit]

Also, looks like you took a step too big for you to handle. It is possible that your tolerance towards drastic change is limited. Could happen, take care not to beat yourself up about that. Stop sitting beside her, and resume from there. Take your time. Try other ways. Whatever your comfort levels are if you push yourself too far from it, it's possible to freeze up. And strongsauce has good advice. Follow.

 

[jayhood]

I see so many mistake on your post. You seriously need to improve your inner game. Here are the mistakes

1- lack of confidence
2- the girl sees you as a friend. However you're letting the way you feel about her to create a reality that might not even exist ( you think she is mad at you)
3- you are not making her feeling sexually attracted to you. You are just being friendly with her. You need to flirt with her, tease her. Make her feel that you are hitting on her. Stop being shy and man up!!!

If you want the girl to be INTERESTED in you, talking to her in a FRIENDLY way will make her see you a a FRIEND. IF she is INTERESTED in you but your action shows her that you are FRIENDLY, she will assume that you only see her as a FRIEND. Your lack of self confidence to HIT ( flirting and teasing) on her will seriously hurt your chance. Furthermore, do not make the mistake of APOLOGIZING to her nor all of a sudden one day you tell her how much of a big crush you have on her. Just flirt with her. By flirting with her, you'll make her know that you might be interested.