I Retire From "DJing" My Girl Left ME For Good, I feel like ish.

[CraigMack]

Originally posted by bfl
Dang people i gotta thanx yall from the bottom of my heart, i feel way better now that ive read your advice , she is the one losing here not me, i know for a fact that she will never find a man like me that treats loves her, and as good as me, she just making my life easier and happier by breaking up with me, thanx yall.

I just called my friend up to celebrate the break up as a matterfact, we going out to eat.


Oh and about the skydiving i would love to join you all for that exciting experience.


Man life is good!!!!!!! I love this forum man i feel like nothing ever happened!!!:cheer:

There you go. Now this is the way you should be! Now you sound like a man!

 

[bfl]

as the hrs past by the better i feel its like whatever, lol.

hey wyldire something wrong with ur email activation message , i havent received it yet and its been over 10 minutes.

And please dont make us all have to register again.

 

[Climax]

...

bfl: That forum was sh!t... here is the new one, its up and running

Click here


Laterz...

 

[TheRelic]

Tis' pretty clear to me you have confused DJing with something else!

Regardless, glad youve pulled it all together...

 

[MetalFortress]

The pain is gonna come back every so often (believe me I know it from experience), but beating it becomes all the more satisfying

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by bfl
as the hrs past by the better i feel its like whatever, lol.

hey wyldire something wrong with ur email activation message , i havent received it yet and its been over 10 minutes.

And please dont make us all have to register again.

I think you signed up just as I was changing the sign up procedure. You're going to have to re-register. You didn't get your activation email. We were still tweaking things a little when we gave out the new link. When you sign up now you will see a code to type into a form field. Sorry for the inconvenience.

 

[bfl]

damng you right though, today right before i woke up a was stressing myself over it, then as the day went on i was over it then now again while i was taking a shower, again i was thinking about her...

dang....

But im sure that shes going thru the same.

ITs like little periods of the day that i get kind of "stressed" over it and feel like calling her (i havent though)

 

[00Kevin]

Re: My 2c...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
00Kevin: I agree with what u say, except for these things:



and


You are giving the impression that you think that you can act as you please, do what you want, and if the girl likes you, she will put up with it... That is NOT true at all. Swap the situation around, if you like a girl a lot, even LOVE the girl, and she gives you a lot of sh!t, are you telling me that you are going to put up with it? NO! You will do something about it. In a relationship both partners need to work on making each other HAPPY, NOT having to put up with "sh!t" that you put each other through. And if she does something wrong etc, then u wont always see it in a "good way", because after all, YOU are just human, as she is too. If she does something wrong, then u WONT see it as right, and visa versa.

well I didn't want to give the impression that you can act and do as you please. I don;t agree with anything like that at all. I do however think that a man should put value on the love that he shows for his girl. If she doesn't respect that love then fu-ck her. next her ass because in a relationship such a statement is the bigest insult ever.

on the other hand it is totally true that a girl who likes you will put up with your ****. she will always try to see past the moment and look at who you really are inside. a girl who really liked you would never just flake out and say that she just wanted to be friends. A good girl would be happy that you told her you loved her.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by Mortukai
Erm, I don't think you've actually been DJing. You've just been imitating DJ behaviours. A DJ would never let themselves fall so hard for one girl. I think it's called oneitis. It's a one way trip to AFCville. You may have been acting like a DJ around her, but you weren't actually a DJ because your attitude wasn't that you were the prize, and that she had to earn you, or you would walk.

"Oneitis" is focusing in a single woman too much before any commitment. Putting all of your eggs in one basket and developing feelings before you are certain she has feelings for you.

This is not a "Oneitis" situation, this is a relationship. Everybody gets "Oneitis" in relationshipsm, otherwise they wouldn't be an a bloody relationship!

-CLBJ