I respect all you guys but know i know...

[NeedToImprove]

i've been lied to about my looks.

this is what what posted about myself in sluthate:

i asked for help in a jawsurgery forum and a guy that's also in sluthate saw my photos there, i was hummiliated:

bybanana

i'm an italian incel and i'm a member in this incel/plastic surgery board http://chirurgiaestetica.forumcommunity.net/

the admin PB told me via mail i'm the worst case he has ever seen.

Even needtoimprove posted there and even if he has mild treacher collins PB's advice was much more "conservative" to him than to me.

PB told me i would need something like monobloc distraction that they use for deformed people.

I'm literally a 0/10.

what can i do? i won't post pictures, i'm too ugly.

sephon wrote:
banana wrote:

i don't care about girls, i can't look at myself in the mirror and know i look like a deformed ugly bird


let's be friends


my eyes are too big, my nose isn't big PER SE, but my recessed WHOLE FACE makes it appear HUGE: my forehead is recessed, my midface, my jaws.

I have literally NO HOPE. if i had 200 k to invest in surgery, i would still look ugly.

This is what PB TOLD ME!!!

i thought he was a brutal son of a ***** but then i saw what he said to that ugly mofo of needtoimprove and he basiclly said he could be ok with just a ****ing CHIN WING!!! A ****IN CHIN WING TO THAT DEFORMEDCEL!!!!!!

it's like...needtoimprove is a MALE MODEL compared to me.


this is how people see me right? im basically what a 2 out of 10?

 

[guru1000]

You are not deformed. I've seen your pics and you are slightly above average in the looks dept. I have no reason to lie to you, and would tell you straight if I thought otherwise.

You need professional help. Stop posting on this board, and seek a board-certified psychotherapist for your body dysmorphic disorder. Seek professional help ASAP.

Body dysmorphic disorder (also known as BDD, body dysmorphia, dysmorphic syndrome, or dysmorphophobia), is a disorder that involves belief that one's own appearance is unusually defective and is worthy of being hidden or fixed.[1] This belief manifests in thoughts that many times are pervasive and intrusive.

About half of those diagnosed with BDD spend over three hours a day attempting to conceal or correct flaws that are perceived but often not reality.[1][2] If the perceived flaw has any foundation in reality, it is typically minor, though severely exaggerated.[2] The distress that accompanies BDD can affect quality of life by impairing social, occupational, and academic functioning, and yielding social isolation, though it is important to note that this is not found in all cases.[2] Causal factors seem to be grounded in many different aspects including: genetic, developmental, personality, and social engagement.[2] BDD is relatively common, as it is found in about 1% to 2% of the population, and is generally thought to be equally prevalent in women and men.[2] That being said there are discrepancies about the prevalence in relation to sex. These discrepancies predominantly come from an inconsistent view of BDD by researchers who, before the creation of a standardized questionnaire, had trouble with its diagnosis.[1] BDD can occur in adults or in children, yet usually begins during adolescence where large amounts of change is happening within the body.[2][3] That being said the causes of BDD are not fully understood. There are many indicators that BDD may have strong link to social aspects, such as bullying and abuse at a young age.[3]

The social aspect of the manifestation of BDD is also seen when looking at the expectation of attractiveness that is prevalent in society.[1] It is also important to note that there are suggestions that genetics may be crucial to determining who is more susceptible to BDD.[3] Studies have shown that 8% of people with BDD have a close relative who have also had the disorder and about 7% of people with BDD have a close relative who had OCD.[3] That being said, BDD is in fact an obsessive-compulsive related disorder (OCRD).[2][4] Similarly, BDD and anxiety disorders, such as OCD, social phobia, and panic disorder have a 7% comorbidity rate.[5] This correlation is particularly exemplified when looking at the methods used to assist people to recover from BDD in comparison with methods used to assist people to recover from OCD, which very much parallel each other.[1] BDD also shares many treatment rituals with OCD as well as many symptoms.[1] Eating disorders as well share many similarities in symptoms, including a heightened sense of perfectionism and a particularly negative body image [6]

 

[NeedToImprove]

guru those weren't my words, if you read closely, it was a guy from sluthate that saw my pics in the italian jaw surgery forum and called my deformedcell, i was totally hummiliated.

and no, i dont have BDD

see what PatrickB a max fac surgeon has to say about my case

http://chirurgiaestetica.forumcommunity.net/?t=57547407

 

[guru1000]

99.9% of people do not have a perfect face. I don't have a perfect face. Matter of fact, I have a slightly-recessed jaw, but, nonetheless, I have yet to meet one HB9 that I could not attract at 40 yos.

You do have BDD. (1) Stop focusing on your deficiencies; focus on your strengths, (2) seek professional help, and (3) work on your inner game.

 

[Pogba]

100k a year , problem solved.
Learn to love yourself , problem solved for LIFE.

 

[Thefakeslimshady]

Okay, lets say you do get this surgery. Then What?! Do you think its going to magically change the way women perceive you. That your going to be happy and end up in this fairytale relationship. Once women get close to you and start talking to you they will pick up on the how you are on the INSIDE. All of your threads scream self pity and make it seem like your giving up. It seems like you want us to tell you that your ugly. When your not. Why are you trying so hard to reinforce this delusion that clearly does not exist? There all these different aspects that make up an attractive man and you are fixated on only one part of it. The looks department. What about your personality? What about your career? What about your goals? What steps have you taken to become a true DJ? A Women should not be your number one priority or dictate your happiness, but you want to alter your face and go through a painful, irreversible, expensive procedure for them.

Look brother, you can spend the rest of your life looking for advice and answers over the internet, but why do that when you have access to professional help. If your set on getting this surgery how about talking to a professional psychotherapist first. Its not gonna hurt. Real ugly mofos dont even stress about their looks as much as you do. If anything the therapist will help you overcome whatever internal struggles are holding you back. This should be something you undergo BEFORE you do anything physically permanent to you yourself.