i really like this girl and need advice

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Ok heres the deal. I am a junior in highschool and am having a little trouble. There is this girl, Heather for convenience, that is one of my Link Crew Freshmen. For those of you who dont know what link crew is (im assuming everyone :) ) it is a program of 100 or so upper classmen that get 18-20 freshmen assigned to them to help get acclamated to high school. Heather is one of those freshmen assigned to me. The second day of school i was on the bus (sad seeing as how im a junior lol) and saw her riding it. My friend that normally sits by me, Brandon, has been forced to sit in front of me instead of next to me so MAYBE she would sit by me because im a someone she would feel comfortable sitting next to. So the day comes when she gets on the bus and my seat is open but she sits one over from me. While riding the bus i was kinda loud, making jokes, having an all around good time, i kept seeing her out of the corner of my eye looking at me really quick. I had my sun glasses on so she didnt see me checking her out. But anyways, im wondering how i can get this girl to spend a little time with me so i can ask her out or even just get to know her (hopefully ask her out). Any of you DJ's have a suggestion? I have access to every freshmens information from a book i have but should i ask her for her number instead of just calling her since she knows i know her number? or should i just call her? Help me please!
 

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1. Buy her something really expensive.

2. Read the bible.

3. Don't ride the bus, it's the king of dorketry (at least around here).

4. Take her out. Have some fun.

5. Buy her another expensive gift.

Tell me when you complete the 5th step.
 

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I'm just kidding with you. Don't buy her any gifts. And when I said "read the bible" I was talking about the DJ Bible not the Holy Bible.

She's a freshman, which means she's new and probably insecure with her new environment. This is your chance to show her how things are done in highschool. Show her that you're confident and that you have the balls to ask her out by... asking her out. Have fun!
 

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well just ask her out. Talk to her. i think you should just ask for the number even though you already have it. It'll give ya practice and plus it'll be less creepy for her. well anyway, just grab your balls and get out there. Oh and reading the bible wouldn't hurt either.
 

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OK first off if your a junior you know your going to get ridiculed for dating a fressman?

Sencond. I would highly reject the idea of you to going out because of grade difference. I personally hate guys like you. But if your still secure my tips.

1. As long as you don't look like ****. She's gonna like you. Its pride for girls at that age. They want to go out with older men. It makes them feel more attractive and older.

2. Show confidence. No matter what this is a must. Your two years older I assume so you should have control of the situation, She's gonna be turned off if you act like a *****.

3. DOn't call her unless you have to. Yes it is convinent but ask her in person. That way you can see her and do stuff after her answer.

Jus ask her out. Unless you look like **** she'll say yes.

Oh and Report Back
 

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How did you end up liking her anyway? She's gotta be hot, but I think you're too stuck onto one person. Read the bible first. Look at all the posts in the forum for tips. You're a junior, she's a freshman, why are you acting like it's a big deal? In years, you've had more experience than she has in life. If you don't feel like that's true, at least act like it.
 

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wow good to hear some people wanna give workable advice! well i think im just gonna go up to her on tuesday (monday is labor day) ask her how her weekend went, etc. if she asks about mine, i race motocross so ill say i raced (which i did). heres what im gonna say. gimme a rating on a scale of one to ten. Hey 'heather' hows it goin? yeah i saw you down the hall and thought that you looked great....................... now that im up here i can see i was right. i think you know i was already attracted to you so why dont we take this to a higher level and you go out with me? end cliche asking out thingy. 1-10 plz lol
 

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Well I am a junior and went out with a freshman.. well school starts in 4 days so im technicly a junior.. anyway I had this hot girl at school call me a cradle robber and 2 of my friends but if you really like her you can ignore that kind of stuff I did I was happy I was fine with the situation..

Just dont do somthing stupid like me and quit your job to be able to spend time with her. I am the biggest dumbass to do somthing like that and now we arent going out anymore so im ****ed..

Some warnings though freshman girls... well they like to kind of take it SLOW if your up for that.. Once again if you like her for her you shouldnt have to worry.

Also the just calling her would be kind of stalker creepy-ish...

AND last but not least, like somone said since you are older and if you dont look like ****, it should be hella easy i didnt even do much and she liked me probly for my age.. and she thought i was hot supposedly.. anyway later,, ------the unknown dumbass
 
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Don't be a C U N T. The wh0re ain't good for ya.


And plus I think you might of developed some f*cking oneitis on us, bro. what the hell?
 

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yeah i may have some oneitis but this girl is HOT and can cause that. oh and about the age thing... im only 15 b/c my b-day is in Nov. and so were like a year and a half apart so i dont sound like a little child molester
 

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I just turned 16 a month or so ago and my ex the freshman is just turning 14.... are you calling me a child molester? heh.. well i know some people whos parents are 5 years apart.. but anyway good luck man...
 

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bumping 1 more time. plz gimme a good line to ask her out?
 

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yo man your doing what im doing.

dont plan anything man, your going to be foced on what to say rather than everything that is going on.

everything is all in your court anyway
 

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but if your like me your probley not going to listen to this and your going to think its better to plan out what your going to say , i dunno , do it and see what results you get but yo just let it come to you and be relaxed thats when i get the best results?
 

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I agree if you like her alot you're not going to listen to anyone your going to do what you want to do even if its stupid. I ignored what everyone was telling me and lost a girl heh.. so yeah maybe you should listen to peoples advice..
 
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