lol i was about 2 paragraphs through this long post i had made when i realized my wife is british lol
my wife is very much a woman. I think that's what I like about her more than antyhing. She appreciates me for being who I am, she doesn't belittle me because I am a man, and she knows what I expect of her. and that accent still turns me on
I want to say something, that I feel is important, but the only way it can make sense if i tell this story that is going to see 110% unrelated, but i assure you it is so bear with me, I promise i'm going to get to it.
I make my living at the horse track. have for a few years now, and i'm quite good at what I do. I doubt there are very many people in the country that are better at what I do than I am. I'm sure there are some, but there aren't many. With that said, about what.. a year ago. almost a year ago to the day actually give or take... I was playing santa anita's card. I remember it like it was yesterday. Race 7 on a friday, a turf allowance race. There was a horse I loved, Diamond something. horse was 11 to 1 and there was abosutly no doubt in my mind hte horse was going to win the race. And he did. me picking an 11 to 1 winner, which I'm not going to say I do it 5 times a day or antyhing, but ti's not uncommon. But something later that day, It's like i had an eurka moment and all the races i have ever wagered came together in my mind, and it jumped out to me that all my successful or at least the vast majority of my successful wagers, came on turf races. I ran to the computer and spent the night laying out numbers and what not, like any smart business person would do, i came to the conclusion that if i wanted to maximize my profits, i needed to focus solely on turf races. It seems 100% logical. I was quite proud of myself.
lol, by the middle of december i had decided to take the rest of the year off. it wasn't that i was losing. I had about broke even. It was that it was so ****ing boring i didn't see the point. I am not the guy who s its back and cherry picks 6 races to play on a freaking Saturday with 25 tracks running but that is what i had turned into.
so I learned a very important lesson. And that important lesson was that, you have to play all parts of the game.
What I mean by that is, yes, My wife is british. I would even go so far as to agree with the OP in principle. Hell how can I not I marired the first non us woman I dated. and she is heads and smolders better than any woman I have ever met. we are very much in love, while she is a woman and has her petty **** she does from time to time, she isn't on the level that most women i have dated, but more than antyhing, she actually does things with a purpose.
But that does not mean, i can't NOT date US women.
for a few reasons. going back to the horse racing anaology.
it's not like I NEVER hit non turf races. I just felt more comortable with turf races than dirt/synethic races. In other words, I tried to turn an observation utnil a mandate. so I tooks ome money out of my pocket.
Now, i'm just more catious when it comes to dirt and synethic races. But I still wager on them.
IF you toss all American women to the wayside, you are going to be missing out on some great women in there. There are a few gems out there. some good times to be had. A few women out there that have their **** together.
The other reason, something I realized... lol, i actually LIKE horse racing.. by cutting down the races that wagered on or watched to focus on a handful of races, I took the fun out of the game.
why do you want to take the fun out of dating by eliminating 90% of the american population. Just screen the women and have fun in the meantime.
if i were to go single again, i'd still date american women without a doubt. If I happened to end up with a non us woman again, so be it, but i'm not going to go out of my way to look for it
