I put penis in woman for the first time and do not ejaculate!!

drak_ool

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blueline said:
give her joint
Are you saying you smoked weed with her? This can def be a problem if you're not used to having sex while high, it can cause you to not get a hard on.

And if you think vaginas are not tighter than fists, stop masturbating so much and start fvcking asian chicks!
 

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blueline said:
You shouldn't even have to work at attracting girls beyond being the first to approach. It's so god damned easy, bro. Before this chick, I had at least 6-7 girls I could've ****ed in the last 5 months, but didn't because I kept focusing on attracting them like PU theory tells you to or straight up got intimidated by their sexuality.
So... you coulda picked up girls, but you decided to follow the textbook rules instead and didn't?

I think you have your priorities wrong. PU theory is there to get you laid, not for you to follow it like a bible of sorts. If PU theory STOPS you from getting laid, I think you're doing it wrong :crackup:
 

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happens to almost all of us the first time. i couldnt ejaculate for about 3 hours with my first. my first feww girls i had sex with i kept having problems keeping it up. especially when they were on top of me.. went soft straight away.. its all about feeling comfortable. its the nerves man. you just need a girl to fuk around with, practice. i have a girl i see every now n then and im very relaxed with her. always hard. just be calm and confident and it'll stay up for you.
 

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DOnt worry man,

My first time I couldnt get it up at all, then when I could hours later I came in literally 5 seconds, then the next time I got hard and couldnt *** AT ALL, next time was ok.
Then the next girl.. same issue first time, its nerves mate, sex is awesome once you get the hang of it.

Cure.
 

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It happens to everyone now and again. First time having sex with a woman can be enough to have trouble comming because it is easy to be self conscious and it is a change from watching porno as well. First time having sex with any woman is a huge pressure man, pretty much everyones first time was ****ty in some way or another.

**** her a few times and it will be a lot better. Anxiety and sex doesn't work well together, especially if you're high on drugs or if you're drunk.
 

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blueline said:
I do everything like a pro, take her out for walk, give her joint...I'm gonna go drink myself to sleep now.
Weed will make you limp. So will loadsof booze.
 

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drak_ool said:
Are you saying you smoked weed with her? This can def be a problem if you're not used to having sex while high, it can cause you to not get a hard on.

And if you think vaginas are not tighter than fists, stop masturbating so much and start fvcking asian chicks!
I fvcking love asian chicks.

I laughed at the fist/vagina comment as well. Good stuff.
 

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update: after some persistent thrusting, i ejaculated this time :D. i ****ing hate condoms, though.

also, getting laid has helped my game so god damned much. as soon as i finished ****ing this chick, i had to go to class and some chick straight up gave me her number after i chatted her up a bit after class. the mojo is strong atm.
 

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
I fvcking love asian chicks.
the funniest thing about it is when white girls try to attack you for hooking up with Asians. Either they claim that asians having tight pvssies is a myth (ya, right!) or when they can't convince you otherwise they'll try to DHV you by calling you a creep/pervert/etc for your asian addiction.

When deep down they all wish their pvssy was as tight as their ass.hole. Oh well, Western women!
 

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blueline said:
FML. This is how I lose v-card at 22. I am done with pickup and women, worst experience ever. My **** hates me.

Lessons learned:

1. Virgins should not plow through on first dates.
2. Vaginas are not that tight compared to fist.
3. Ideally, virgins should lose vcard through completely random pickup, not social groups.
4. I could've ****ed SO MANY ****ING women in my life before this. <-WORST LESSON

I'm gonna go drink myself to sleep now.
Do not worry, man.

First, you should be sober(THC free too) and in a horny state of mind to perform. Weed users giggle like little girls, they dont f!ck properly.

Second, Performance anxiety is common thing...relax more next time. Loosing vcard is not alpha and omega, man. It may seem important to you now but really it is not.

Third, unless you are a rapist some emotional connection is necessary. 1st date f!cking is not always a good thing.

Fourth, Let yourself be horny....build up the tension. Dont concentrate on her sexual build up.

Fifth, I bet she was the kind who doesnt do sucky sucky and is overall inattentive to her sexual partners or very mechanical about things. (Wait till you come accross a sadistic dominant wannabe biatch...it is even worse. Barf.)

Conclusion. Be in the right state of mind....Orny as hell. Then you will have opposite worries ;-)
 

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You know alot of guys feel only supreme disappoint when they enter a vagina for the first. Like long questing after a treasure chest, only to dust off its its, slow open it and find its 4 walls totally bare.

Until the net, alot of focus was on women dont enjoy their first time. Now through men documenting their first time on forums. The net reveals to us that a great many men secretly werent that impressed either. This needs greater exposure to the world.



I remember thinking, ' wtf, I cant feel anything. Is that all there is'. When fully inside a vagina for the first time. i was 24, cut - so the glans penis(penishead) feels has as much sensation as rubbing on my fingernail. im well above length and girth, wasnt using a condom as was in a commited relationship. She was very tight, I had to ease myself in slowly. I felt her around me but it just felt smooth - like a greased banana on ice. Not at all like how my Mother's Midwifery books said the vaginal walls were rough.
Well after 2hrs of rubbing her smooth walls, I came finally dribbled out a meagre orgasm thinking, ' that was shiit' as I came.


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Hetro women have the mistaken belief that because of the thirst of our libido, which we share with gay men, gay WOMEN, bi people (let hetro women know the charge they level against us can also be levelled at the previously listed equally). That their pssuy is a most pwwecious pleasure palace, that is the most valued item in the world.

It is quite the opposite.
It think an absence of feeling, of sensation.. of pleasure.


I tell women that to me, that fcuking their vagina with my penis feels like rubbing the inside of my lip with my tongue tip. They always express great surprise at the dull smoothness of the sensation, when they do the same with their lip.
Puts them in their place too, about the true sexual worth of their pssuy.

We need to bring greater exposure to the myth of the wondrousness of this most pwwecious pleasure pssuy palace.
Tell women the truth. They can handle the truth, cant they :)
 
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