I posted this in an earlier thread about being short and received no reply..go figure

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For the record, I'm just copying and pasting my original post text for text. I would really like some opinions on the matter since after all, I am shorter than average and yes, I probably do have a chip on my shoulder. But can you really blame me? Read on....




Wow OP. You think you're short? Try being 5'1. Fvcking genetics. I'm going off to college this year and I gave yet to even kiss a girl. ****ing sad, I know. But when you're a minority (Bengali) and short, it's a very unfortunate and deadly combination.

Will my life be portrayed just like The 40 Year Old Virgin? Yes, but without the happy ending. Thus, I dont give a **** anymore. At least I'm trying not to give a **** anymore. I know I never will, thus I have another aspect of my life to focus on and that's my financial situation. Going off to college for 6 years to study pharmacy and inherit my fathers small pharmaceutical business.

I guess it sucks that most guys can only have one or the other. The typical jerks in high school always get the hottest woman, but 40 years later end up working as a janitor in the same high school. Or the typical intelligent kid, who makes bills but can only spend it on material bull**** rather than spending it with someone else. Unfortunately my life will fall under the latter. Very difficult to have the best of both worlds. And I blame my physical height. I'm not bad looking in anyway, whatsoever. Girls call me cute all the time, and I'm fit. I'm in the middle of all the social groups but with a core group of friends. Not like it matters now though since everyone is going to college.

But it's just as someone in So Suave said in a thread about physical height just like this one: "If you are 5'3 or shorter, I don't care how much game you have or how good your seduction skills are, you are SOL unless a miracle appears."

And its true. When you pass a girl on the street, by natural instinct she disqualifies you if you dont meet her height requirements. Height is the first thing women look at to see how much of a "man" you are. Unfortunately for me, I'm disqualified by 99.9% of women. Hell my dad probably would never have been able to marry my mom if it hadn't been for an arranged marriage hahaha. I'm not being pessimistic, I'm just stating a fact.

I'm sorry OP for ranting in your thread, but I just don't think you should take for granted of what you have. Sorry for any grammatical errors. The iPad is a ***** to type on.
 

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Fortunately for you there are many cute girls who are under 5 foot.
 

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Curl up and die then. You can't do sh!t about your height.

So improve other aspects of your life and don't focus on women.
 

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Voice said:
Fortunately for you there are many cute girls who are under 5 foot.
I'm not sure where you live, but at least in NY..no. There aren't that many, and even if they're are, 99.9% of them are superficial so the odds are against me.

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Curl up and die then. You can't do sh!t about your height.

So improve other aspects of your life and don't focus on women.
Thank you for your kind words of wisdom. Clearly, this is what I have to do.
 

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When you stop caring about your height, it stops being a problem for girls. The don't zone in on your height, they're zoning in on your INSECURITY.

Yes that includes taller girls. When they see that you have the balls to go for it carelessly regardless of your height, you will achieve.
 

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In order for a short guy to get girls, he must have killer game. Without it, having a lot of money may help.
 

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sA x sKy said:
I'm not sure where you live, but at least in NY..no. There aren't that many, and even if they're are, 99.9% of them are superficial so the odds are against me.



Thank you for your kind words of wisdom. Clearly, this is what I have to do.
Clearly you don't watch the Jersey Shore. Snooki is 3'10". There are plenty of girls around the five foot level out there.
 

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Maxtro said:
In order for a short guy to get girls, he must have killer game. Without it, having a lot of money may help.
Having game can help only so much. Most girls today are self conscious about how they are perceived, and when her girl friends see that the guy she's with is..well you get the picture.

Money? In 6 years, money for me will be nothing. Not bragging, but I'll be financially set for the rest of my life once I'm done with pharmacy school. But I refuse, absolutely refuse, to give any attention to a girl, if all they care about is money. That's shallow as fvck and if it comes to that, then, I guess having a significant other in my life just isn't for me.
 

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Voice said:
Clearly you don't watch the Jersey Shore. Snooki is 3'10". There are plenty of girls around the five foot level out there.
I have better things to do than waste my time watching a show full of the same guys/girls go tanning, drinking, and wasting their life away.
 

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Ciel said:
When you stop caring about your height, it stops being a problem for girls. The don't zone in on your height, they're zoning in on your INSECURITY.

Yes that includes taller girls. When they see that you have the balls to go for it carelessly regardless of your height, you will achieve.
My height hasn't been a problem for me until recently. I went through crap about it in elementary school, but in high school I didn't have to deal with it all that much at all. It wasn't until I visited a different country (which was where I wrote my original post) last month, that I realized no matter where you go, all women are psychologically the same. Thus, I came to my conclusion, that my height is a factor.
 

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sA x sKy said:
Money? In 6 years, money for me will be nothing.
LMAO. You have a lot of life to live in six years. You have got to be joking me that you can guarantee your financial success when you can't even afford your own place at this point (or maybe you can...then touche.) Maybe school will be too hard. Maybe your dad's business will fail. What then? I'm not saying I hope it happens or that it will happen all I am trying to get across is that you can not guarantee anything in your life...let alone financial success in such a long time period. I like the optimism though.

You're fine if you don't go for chicks who play basketball. Would you rather be short and bulked up or tall and skinny? Who do you think gets more chicks in that situation?
 

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Upside said:
LMAO. You have a lot of life to live in six years. You have got to be joking me that you can guarantee your financial success when you can't even afford your own place at this point (or maybe you can...then touche.) Maybe school will be too hard. Maybe your dad's business will fail. What then? I'm not saying I hope it happens or that it will happen all I am trying to get across is that you can not guarantee anything in your life...let alone financial success in such a long time period. I like the optimism though.

You're fine if you don't go for chicks who play basketball. Would you rather be short and bulked up or tall and skinny? Who do you think gets more chicks in that situation?
Sorry, let me rephrase that. If things go smoothly, I will be financially set. Anything can happen, I know..knock on wood. And yes, I try to stay optimistic in everything except when it comes to women. :)

I go to the gym, and have been going since September. I weigh 130..give or take, and can bench 185..2 reps. Haven't gone more than that, but regardless, I am physically fit.

I think of myself as an outlier. You know..the exception to the rule.
 

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I'll say it again. Its not your height that makes you an outlier, its your attitude.

Don't wish the game was easier, wish you were better at it.

Its not height they disqualify you on, its stature. These are not one and the same.

Yes, you may not be tall, but the problem is that you don't stand tall. Be a man inside your head, and it will show outside of you.
 

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Ciel said:
I'll say it again. Its not your height that makes you an outlier, its your attitude.

Don't wish the game was easier, wish you were better at it.

Its not height they disqualify you on, its stature. These are not one and the same.

Yes, you may not be tall, but the problem is that you don't stand tall. Be a man inside your head, and it will show outside of you.
Let me ask you a question..if I can't even hook up with a drunk girl (from the numerous high school parties I've attended) how can I ever except myself to hook up with a sober girl?

Granted, I don't drink, which may or may not help my game to a certain extent, but still. Believe me, I've tried to improve my game. I've read the bible, and I've pretty much read everything on this site. I haven't been a 3 year member for nothing. I don't know what to do, and my friends who pity me (who all have girlfriends btw) can't even give me a straight up answer as well. They just say, "college will change everything".

Seriously? I doubt that.If I don't have the experience now, how the hell will I ever gain the experience later on when most people, guys and girls, have at least some experience in this matter? Whether this be a few months, or years from now.
 

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there are many features including hight that make many women disqualify a dude..

weight , height, color, hair, teeth, fitness/. muscles, money , clothes

some things are more important to some women. you need to compensate for what you lack be have more of something else..
 

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Height is a killer.

Dude.. i completyl understand your frustration! .. I am not tall either, and have had major confidens issues about it .. all of my friends are at least 6" Taller than me, and i fell like a dwarf next to them!

But you know what? Since i started not giving a fvck about my height, i managed to N-Close, Kiss and Lay girls - Not 200, but some! .. I am 5 feet 5, my friends are all +6 Feet.

- Anyway, if you stop going after the +6 Feet girls, you will do just well!

Work on you game, and show thoose towers that a small guy can be fun too ;) !
 
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