I plan on going to Amsterdam, can anyone tell me...

[edger]

Can anyone tell me if the prostitutes there are playboy material? I asked a co-worker, and he said they weren't. Str8up, I know you've been there, wanna give me the scoop?

 

[Treetz]

Hey, Im from Amsterdam myself but the hookers I saw are more like the slutty kind of type. Not really playboy just the standard hooker type of girls.. There is a variaty of girls; asians, polish/russian, dutch, african etc...

You have to go to the more expensive/exclusive clubs where you pay more..

But why pay.. hit the clubs and get it for free...

 

[edger]

But why pay.. hit the clubs and get it for free...

Doesn't always work that way kid. Even with good game. Believe me. Trust me, if I didn't have to pay, I wouldn't. If chix came so easy to me, I wouldn't be having this conversation right now. Lol. Every guy out there know's it's hard..one of the hardest things about life(if not, the hardest). I've said before, it's easier to get a doctorate degree or pass the bar exam. They don't consider prostitution the oldest profession in the world for nothing. Sure, I can easily bang chix for free, but ya know what they'd look like? They'd be FAT and ugly. And I'm sorry, but I don't settle. It's the attractive women that are hard to pull...and to top it off, most of these attractive broads put out no vibes(IOI's), even when you're good-looking. The least thing a woman can do is put out vibes and give me some kind of cue that she's interested. That's why I'm such a proponent of cold-appproaching..because if you sit and wait for vibes, you'll never get them from chix most of the time. So you might as well cold-approach..you have a better chance of snagging one.

 

[Bible_Belt]

it's easier to get a doctorate degree or pass the bar exam

fwiw, I have had plenty of women, but am yet to pass the bar exam.

Why do you think you can only get ugly chicks? You've made up your mind that you can only fail beforehand, so in that case you're right, there is no point in trying.

 

[Magma]

Was there last June. I found the prostitutes to be quite unattractive. There was this huge one with saggy titties down to her waist. But really, whatever you want, you can find. There's a chick for every fetish.

Overall, I agree with what Treetz said about their quality. They're just...slutty looking. Fvck it though man. Amsterdam is sweet. I really enjoyed Barney's coffee shop.

 

[speakeasy]

F-ck that dude. I was in Amsterdam checking out the red light district. I was pretty grossed out by the thought that men from every corner of the world were flying in to bang these women like a sex assembly line. I couldn't even enjoy having sex with one of them knowing the sheer number of dudes that were in it before me. But it is the world's oldest profession so it obviously it don't bother everyone. There are lots of hot chics in Amsterdam, and excellent nightlife, I'd just work that angle. If you are staying at a hostel by any chance, there's pretty good chance of hooking up with a chic that's traveling.

 

[edger]

it's easier to get a doctorate degree or pass the bar exam

fwiw, I have had plenty of women, but am yet to pass the bar exam.

Why do you think you can only get ugly chicks? You've made up your mind that you can only fail beforehand, so in that case you're right, there is no point in trying.

I CAN get hot chix, problem is, it only happens every once in a while. Not with the frequency that I'd like. That seems to be the trend with me. A good-looking guy with good game(not 100%, but definitely up there), and that's where it gets him. If I act AFC, I won't get 'em, and if I don't act AFC, it'll still be a pain in the ass. So it's a "damned if I do, damned if I don't" situation. What can I say man. I'll admit, it's annoying when you know for a fact you're not acting like an AFC, yet you're still yielding poor results. And the even more f*cked up part about it is, there are guys who actually ARE AFC's out there, who are getting more women than me, lol. Also, most of the time that I DO come across a hottie, she ends up being an attention wh*re, and I end up having to write her off. That's all that seems to cross my path, attention wh*res. Bible, look what happened to me with that "So you wanna f*ck me?" chick. I think I played it up fairly well. I'm not gonna say my game was 100%(nobody's game is ever that high) on with her that night, but it was defintely up there, enough to spark interest on her end. I should've been able to nail her. She was hot. But was she interested? No, she walked away. Even you agreed her walking away was an indication that she wasn't interested. I never got a chance to get your take on it, but what did you think did me in that night? Only thing I can think of was the way I responded to her "so you wanna f*ck me?" line. But of course like I said, she most probably misinterpreted my response as "being ashamed of my sexuality", which wasn't the case at all.

Bible, you've said you don't cold-approach, you rely on vibes and you get a lot of vibes from women. I don't know how you're getting the tons of vibes you're claiming, when I myself, a good-looking guy, most of the time gets no vibes when I'm out in the bar/club scene. Lol. That's another thing that's made it that much more difficult on my end.

It's just funny, there's plenty of guys f*cking up and acting AFC who are pulling hot tail, and getting into relationships with them...but then you got a guy like me(who's the opposite of an AFC and good-looking on top of it), who in all actuality, should be doing MUCH better than these guys, yet, I'm coming out with less women on my plate...lol. I'm stupified bro. You figure that one out.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Honestly, bar and club game is not my thing, although it works for plenty of other guys here. Talk to Lookyoung; he's good at it. I would guess that you might be too results-oriented and not actually enjoying the process. If you're not having fun, then you're not fun to a girl.

I say that I don't "cold approach." But by that I mean that I don't stand in one place at the mall and bother every cute girl that goes by. It seems like loser behavior to me; I know women find it creepy. If that tactic works for some guys, then I am happy for them, but it is not my idea of "cold approaching." To me, that skill is being able to chat up the hot girls that you just happen to look up and see next to you, or the one who does give off a "vibe" like eye contact, smiling, initiating physical contact, laughing too much at your jokes, or acting fascinated with your interests.

Women want to feel special. They want to be feel like you are not just another horny guy, and they are not just another piece of ass. Of course, those things are probably true, but you have to work the fantasy. The idea of a guy "sarging" the mall up and down creeps out a woman because it does the opposite of make her feel special. What you want to portray is the opposite of that with a cold approach, like you would never just talk to a strange girl like that, but you felt a connection that was, of course, special. Make her laugh, share a joke, stare into her eyes and not her t!ts, talk about her feelings, and then just happen to get her number, email, or myspace. You can repeat this process over and over. Try not to do it right in front of the girl you just got a number from.

There are lonely women everywhere. Every woman who does not have a guy would love to be swept off her feet by a charming stranger. You just have to make her feel special.

 

[STR8UP]

You will find women there that range from absolutely ROUND 350lb 5 foot nothing black chicks, to the most amazing specimens of eastern european flesh you will ever lay eyes on, and everything in between.

I would recommend staying close to the RLD even if you don't plan on partaking of any of the "adult" activities, as the nightlife of that town is centered around that area. I ran into Mike Tyson in a little bar in a little alley there when I was in town. Pretty cool experience.

There's a name for it and I don't remember what it is called, but there's an alley that varies in width from about the span of your arms to barely passble by one person (it's really close to the CHURCH that's in the middle of the RLD, go figure!).

Anyway, it's lined with hookers on both sides hanging out with their doors open trying to pull you in. Don't be surprised if you get one of them putting her leg out to stop you and try to smack your ass with a riding crop. It's a lot of fun just to hear the girls sales pitches and watch them make flirty eyes through the glass at you.

If you like good beer make sure you check out a little place called Gollem. It's about the size of my bedroom and kinda feels like the galley of a pirate ship. Not too many places I've been on earth that have that much character.

the plaza are hopping on the weekends too if you are into checking out the local women, BTW. The local chicks are very sweet and friendly but not as nice to look at as the women in other parts of europe.

It's a blast though. Have fun and take lots of pics. Just make sure your camera isn't out when you are in the RLD, unless you like swimming in the canal.

 

[edger]

Women want to feel special. They want to be feel like you are not just another horny guy, and they are not just another piece of ass. Of course, those things are probably true, but you have to work the fantasy. The idea of a guy "sarging" the mall up and down creeps out a woman because it does the opposite of make her feel special. What you want to portray is the opposite of that with a cold approach, like you would never just talk to a strange girl like that, but you felt a connection that was, of course, special. Make her laugh, share a joke, stare into her eyes and not her t!ts, talk about her feelings, and then just happen to get her number, email, or myspace. You can repeat this process over and over. Try not to do it right in front of the girl you just got a number from.

But isn't it constantly reiterated around here that women like it when you treat them like sex objects? Even though they may complain about it, they really enjoy it..you know, the typical chick talk, she says one thing but acts another way. It's always said around here to let them know you see them in a sexual way. I agree with what you're saying about aiming to make her feel like you have a connection with her that is special, that's something I always try to do as well. But it seems like in your post, you're saying to ONLY do just that, and not let her know you see her as a sex object too.

 

[edger]

Also Bible, lots of hot women dress provacitvely...it's obvious they do it for the guys, or even other women to show other women who's hotter. But David DeAngelo has a rather interesting take on it, where he claims, that women dress provacitvely ONLY to compete with other women and show them who's hotter. He claims they don't do it for guys.

 

[edger]

You will find women there that range from absolutely ROUND 350lb 5 foot nothing black chicks, to the most amazing specimens of eastern european flesh you will ever lay eyes on, and everything in between.

I would recommend staying close to the RLD even if you don't plan on partaking of any of the "adult" activities, as the nightlife of that town is centered around that area. I ran into Mike Tyson in a little bar in a little alley there when I was in town. Pretty cool experience.

There's a name for it and I don't remember what it is called, but there's an alley that varies in width from about the span of your arms to barely passble by one person (it's really close to the CHURCH that's in the middle of the RLD, go figure!).

Anyway, it's lined with hookers on both sides hanging out with their doors open trying to pull you in. Don't be surprised if you get one of them putting her leg out to stop you and try to smack your ass with a riding crop. It's a lot of fun just to hear the girls sales pitches and watch them make flirty eyes through the glass at you.

If you like good beer make sure you check out a little place called Gollem. It's about the size of my bedroom and kinda feels like the galley of a pirate ship. Not too many places I've been on earth that have that much character.

the plaza are hopping on the weekends too if you are into checking out the local women, BTW. The local chicks are very sweet and friendly but not as nice to look at as the women in other parts of europe.

It's a blast though. Have fun and take lots of pics. Just make sure your camera isn't out when you are in the RLD, unless you like swimming in the canal.

Good info, thanks Str8up. I think I'll take a flight out either next week or the week after. Yeah I've heard about taking pictures there, heard it's illegal. That place Gollem sounds cool..sounds like it's right out of a 'Lord of the Rings' trilogy..right up my alley. I also hear Amsterdam has a good Metal scene. It should be fun.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Now I want to go to Amsterdam.

But isn't it constantly reiterated around here that women like it when you treat them like sex objects? Even though they may complain about it, they really enjoy it..you know, the typical chick talk, she says one thing but acts another way. It's always said around here to let them know you see them in a sexual way. I agree with what you're saying about aiming to make her feel like you have a connection with her that is special, that's something I always try to do as well. But it seems like in your post, you're saying to ONLY do just that, and not let her know you see her as a sex object too.

Also Bible, lots of hot women dress provacitvely...it's obvious they do it for the guys, or even other women to show other women who's hotter. But David DeAngelo has a rather interesting take on it, where he claims, that women dress provacitvely ONLY to compete with other women and show them who's hotter. He claims they don't do it for guys.

Obviously if it is a drunken club slvt, then you can be more direct. A hb9 ex of mine once "met" a boyfriend because when she was dancing on a bar, he grabbed her and threw her over his shoulder, carried her out of the bar, threw her on his Harley, then rode home and fvcked her. He also caught her kissing his best friend the next day and beat the hell out of her. They were together for months and she still thinks of him in a fond and nostalgic way.

But remember, bars and clubs are not my thing, and especially in the non-club environment, not being a horny, creepy weirdo when talking to a strange girl is very important. Showing her that you think of her sexually comes later, not during a cold approach. Or at least during the cold approach, you show her the sexual vibe by looking into her eyes, making her laugh, doing things like not staring at her t!ts and ass or letting her know how horny you are. The hotter a girl is, the more powerful it is to keep her guessing about how you feel about her. If she is obviously hot, and you are not drooling over her, that is intriguing. Pretend she's not hot, try to connect in a way other than you ogling her, and then later as she tries to validate herself by getting that guy who is lukewarm towards her, let, as women say, one thing thing just lead to another. The next thing you know, she'll be doing the walk-of-shame out of your house in the unforgiving morning light and looking a lot less hot than the night before.

 

[j0n024]

Doesn't always work that way kid. Even with good game. Believe me. Trust me, if I didn't have to pay, I wouldn't. If chix came so easy to me, I wouldn't be having this conversation right now. Lol. Every guy out there know's it's hard..one of the hardest things about life(if not, the hardest). I've said before, it's easier to get a doctorate degree or pass the bar exam. They don't consider prostitution the oldest profession in the world for nothing. Sure, I can easily bang chix for free, but ya know what they'd look like? They'd be FAT and ugly. And I'm sorry, but I don't settle. It's the attractive women that are hard to pull...and to top it off, most of these attractive broads put out no vibes(IOI's), even when you're good-looking. The least thing a woman can do is put out vibes and give me some kind of cue that she's interested. That's why I'm such a proponent of cold-appproaching..because if you sit and wait for vibes, you'll never get them from chix most of the time. So you might as well cold-approach..you have a better chance of snagging one.

....THIS is actually the saddest thing I have every seen post on here and that's INCLUDING Luke. Plus I love the fact that you say you have game your words not mine that your game is "UP," There yet the girls you lay are and these are still YOUR words "Fat and Ugly." Keep up the good work .

 

[edger]

....THIS is actually the saddest thing I have every seen post on here and that's INCLUDING Luke. Plus I love the fact that you say you have game your words not mine that your game is "UP," There yet the girls you lay are and these are still YOUR words "Fat and Ugly." Keep up the good work .

I was trying to say that most "free" lays would be from FAT/ugly chix. Like I told Bible, and as I've stated numerous times before, I CAN f*ck hot women, I have f*cked a good handful of them, BUT I only get to f*ck them every once in a blue moon...they're a hell of a lot harder to pull than the avg. looking/unnattractive chick. I never mentioned anything about having ever f*cked fat or ugly chix...focus on reading a little better next time. I have never went near a fat or unnattractive chick. I can honestly say, every chick I've ever f*cked or ever been in a relationship with, was HOT. Problem I'm facing, is that I don't get to f*ck hot chix that often like I said. A lot of that also has to do with so many of these women being with their f*ck buddies, boyfriends, or male platonic friends when I'm out in the field. Very tough out there to meet women when it's like this. This is how it mostly is when I'm out there in the field. I had a hottie vibe me hardcore 2 weeks ago, but she was with a guy who was either her f*ck buddy or boyfriend. And all I know is, I don't start conversations with chix who are with their f*ck buddies or boyfriends, out of respect for the other guy and also to avoid a possible confrontation.

 

[Treetz]

Str8up mentioned to stay around the area of the RLD but there is a lot more to see! Near the central station is the subway, with a bus ticket you can travel through the whole city and see other parts of the town. By train you can go to Haarlem (not Harlem), a 20 minute ride where you can see a little bit of the landscape during the ride. Haarlem is a sorta like amsterdam but smaller with a lot of bars and restaurants. If you really want to go check out other places I would recommend the beach parties at Bloemendaal wich is a 45 min ride from amsterdam. In the summer they have great beach parties with alot of hb8 to hb9's !

Alot of guys go for the weed, the cheapest is to find one outside the centre. You will pay 3,50 euro for one joint. I heard that the weed is stronger then the weed sold in the US so maybe start off easy

Near the RDL is a bar called Teasers, there are show girls but a beer cost 8 euro!

I added a few links you can check out.. dont know if they come in other langueges but you can get a good impression about the clubs!

www.melkweg.nl (read: milkyway)
www.paradiso.nl
www.sneakerz.nl
www.hotelarena.nl (near the soccer station of ajax)
www.heineken-music-hall.nl/
www.escape.nl
www.cooldowncafe.nl/
www.jimmywoo.com/ (gold diggers club, dress nice)

These are the meanstream clubs and bars you can go.. Get your game on and you won't have to pay for sex!

 

[STR8UP]

Another must see is the local brewery that is housed in a real windmill. It's a long walk from where I was staying (not too far from the RLD) but the beer was delicious and cheap. And drinking it in a windmill....that's some cool sh!t there!

 

[Mr.Positive]

There's a name for it and I don't remember what it is called, but there's an alley that varies in width from about the span of your arms to barely passble by one person (it's really close to the CHURCH that's in the middle of the RLD, go figure!).

Anyway, it's lined with hookers on both sides hanging out with their doors open trying to pull you in. Don't be surprised if you get one of them putting her leg out to stop you and try to smack your ass with a riding crop. It's a lot of fun just to hear the girls sales pitches and watch them make flirty eyes through the glass at you.

I remember that alley, from when I was there 10 years ago. I also remember that a lot of the women were very hot. The alley was lined with smokin' tall blondes..

They will take their tops off, be aggressive, I had one grab my arm and try to physically pull me inside her room. They will try anything..to get your attention.

Yeah, Edger you've got to check out that all and the rest of the RLD. Even if you just window shop, like I did, it's still a great time.

There's good clubs in that area too, but I can't remember their names. Lot's of great nightlife. I remember one bar that sounds similar to the Gollum one Str8up recommended.

During the day, if you are into arts..check out the Van Gogh museum if it's still there. I heard it was burglarized several years back, after I was there, so not sure how good that is now. But worth a look.

Also, the Reiksmuseum is great for history.

Just keep an eye on your wallet. There's a lot of thieves there too. People will harrass you to buy drugs, and you may have to threaten them to get them to stop. That was the downside, from what I remember.

You will have a blast A-Dam, wish I was able to go back.

 

[edger]

Str8up mentioned to stay around the area of the RLD but there is a lot more to see! Near the central station is the subway, with a bus ticket you can travel through the whole city and see other parts of the town. By train you can go to Haarlem (not Harlem), a 20 minute ride where you can see a little bit of the landscape during the ride. Haarlem is a sorta like amsterdam but smaller with a lot of bars and restaurants. If you really want to go check out other places I would recommend the beach parties at Bloemendaal wich is a 45 min ride from amsterdam. In the summer they have great beach parties with alot of hb8 to hb9's !

Alot of guys go for the weed, the cheapest is to find one outside the centre. You will pay 3,50 euro for one joint. I heard that the weed is stronger then the weed sold in the US so maybe start off easy

Near the RDL is a bar called Teasers, there are show girls but a beer cost 8 euro!

I added a few links you can check out.. dont know if they come in other langueges but you can get a good impression about the clubs!

www.melkweg.nl (read: milkyway)
www.paradiso.nl
www.sneakerz.nl
www.hotelarena.nl (near the soccer station of ajax)
www.heineken-music-hall.nl/
www.escape.nl
www.cooldowncafe.nl/
www.jimmywoo.com/ (gold diggers club, dress nice)

These are the meanstream clubs and bars you can go.. Get your game on and you won't have to pay for sex!

Thanks for all the helpful info., I appreciate it. I'll defintely be sure to check out all those places.

 

[shaunuk]

is it just me, or does anyone else get the feeling that ****ing "sm0king hawt playboy prozzies!^&*(*^%^&@~@:" will not give you the satisfaction that you desire from fvcking hot girls?

And how the FVCK is it easier to get a doctorate than get a hot chick, I hope you were joking

You need to start getting some game, rather than working on asking us where to get prozzies and how ugly the chicks you'd get would be