WhatchaOnaDo said:
Ok this is our second official date. I'm leaving in 2 hours. Any advice/tips for a movie date are SUPER appreciated.
I need to step up the kino, but this girl is a little on the shy side,
Her being shy means NOTHING.
Whether she's shy or outgoing,it doesn't matter,she's
still HUMAN,which means she still has sexual desire just like everyone else.
All you need to do is simply escalate. Why do you think she went out with you in the first place,to have a new "buddy"/"girlfriend" to hang out with?
If you don't be careful,you're going to let "trying to go slow" or "trying not to to over do it" TURN HER OFF.
WhatchaOnado said:
I didn't do a whole lot of kino on the first date (bowling date) and I didnt really do anyuthing sexual with her.
You didn't do anything sexual with her on the first date. Hmm.
If you keep on NOT BEING SEXUAL with her,she's going to wonder what's the point of even going out with you is. You HAVE TO BE sexual with her.
She's not going to do it,I mean you said she's shy,but she'll most likely follow YOUR lead,you have to have a "lead" for her to follow.
Don't misunderstand what we mean when we say "SEXUAL"
We don't mean....
to grab her boobs...or
to make vulgar or profane comments...or
to try to get her to grab your c*ck
That's not what we mean. We mean to ESCALATE up to those things,i.e;hold her hand,try to kiss her,compliment her on her appearance when you first see her,(and DON'T SAY "YOU'RE HOT). Do those things.
Don't let your "fear" of screwing up cause you to screw up.
You seem like you're so paranoid of making a mistake that you're letting that fear make you freeze up.
Don't fool yourself. You don't have to DO SOMETHING WRONG to loose a girl. You can loose a girl simply by NOT DOING anything at all.
but I still suck at kino!