I never got dissed so bad before in my life.

[Tai]

I was feeling awsome today, i talked to 4 hot girls in one day! my confidence was sky high then at the end of the day--I went to the pub to play pool and there was this guy that think hes betters then everyone so i told him so but the way i said it wasnt nagative toward him. I guess if i dint say anything he would still put me down cause thats his nature.

This is our conversation.

Me "you know what, you think your better then everyone"

Him "I think am avarage but am 2 times better then you". have you look at yourself in the mirror? look at your cheek, look at your teeth, you are ugly guy, thats why you dont have a girlfriend"

The conversion was long but this is a summary... i cant believe my day went from great to a whole weekend ruin.

The thing about this is that, its not because he was pissed at me to put me down and tell me something that isnt true. I feel like he just telling the truth and to back it up... my friend that was their dint support me. I feeling beating this guy up sooo bad, am just sooo mad! i was always nice to him so why is he putting me down? is it because he is insecure so he makes me feel bad so he can feel better?

This weekend gonna suck.

 

[DJ_Dork]

He's not your friend.

 

[Oxide]

my oh my, dont u wanna say good bye.

Listen, who cares what he said? Who cares what he thinks of you!

You are on top becuase u talked to hot girls, so be confident, dont worry what some chump thought of u.

He said himself, he is AVERAGE. well let him be average for all he wants.

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by Tai
Today i was in tears talking to my friend and am a guy (not really about that guy) i was emotional because my friend is always there for me so i was in tears about that, anyway this is what happen... i was feeling awsome today, i talked to 4 hot girls in one day! my confidence was sky high then at the end of the day--I went to the pub to play pool and there was this guy that think hes betters then everyone so i told him so but the way i said it wasnt nagative toward him. I guess if i dint say anything he would still put me down cause thats his nature.

This is our conversation.

Me "you know what, you think your better then everyone"

Him "I think am avarage but am 2 times better then you". have you look at yourself in the mirror? look at your cheek, look at your teeth, you are ugly guy, thats why you dont have a girlfriend"

The conversion was long but this is a summary... i cant believe my day went from great to a whole weekend ruin.

The thing about this is that, its not because he was pissed at me to put me down and tell me something that isnt true. I feel like he just telling the truth and to back it up... my friend that was their dint support me. I feeling beating this guy up sooo bad, am just sooo mad! i was always nice to him so why is he putting me down? is it because he is insecure so he makes me feel bad so he can feel better?

This weekend gonna suck.

Maybe you look as disgusting as he said but its your problem to force him to respect you.

 

[MetalFortress]

Uhhh

Are you a chick in disguise?

Seriously, if some guy just up and said that to me I would have given a similar response, albeit not in as much detail. Just leave well enough alone next time, and stop falling apart over what someone who doesn't even know you thinks of you.

 

[b's nuts]

I don't get it, why the fvck do you care what this guy thinks? Your friend didn't step in and back you up, probably because you didn't stand up for yourself at all. Don't put up with peoples sh!t, don't let people walk over you, because if you do it once, they will do it again and again. Don't let someother guys being and ass ruin your weekend. Just forget about it, next time you see him, don't say a damn thing, if he looks at you - flip him off. Just don't take his ****, if he wants to get in your face, put that mother fvcker in his place. (if you are going to get your ass kicked, just walk away, or maybe kick him in his nuts, whatever - it doesn't matter- just don't take sh!t.)

 

[Black Bahindian]

First of all, lemme get this straight, maybe I didn't read right, but you said,

"I went to the pub to play pool and there was this guy that think hes betters then everyone so i told him so..."

Seems to me that the guy wasn't bothering youuntil you approached him. If he wasn't really bothering you, you really didn't have much business tell him anything. From looking at your post, you were asking for trouble.

Second, you said that he was telling the truth, about you being ugly? Do you gap in your teeth wide enough to still a golf ball in? Do you have a Quasimodo-like hump that sticks out when you walk? Do you have such a apalling appearance that it makes anyone near you screen bloody murder and run away? If this is no where near the truth about you, than you are probably not ugly, your probably an average looking guy (might even be a bit of a pretty boy, ionno) and this "ugliness" of you is only in your perspective.

Third, in the words of so many others, who gives a f**k about what he thinks? Once you give attention to someone who you could care less about, it not only makes you look small, as the bickering progresses, the more superior the person becomes. If he starts talking sh!t to you, or if anyone for that matter, ignore what they say. If he wanted to take it to another level, just follow the ideas of the post before mine.

 

[Walden]

Even if you were ugly as f***man so what. I'm a four on most people's scales and I get more game than I know what to do with. It's attitude. Go downtown and count the number of hot beotches you see walking round with f*** ugly guys.

Here endeth the lesson.

 

[seulaxplaya]

hey man attitude is everything and looks last only for a short time.

 

[Golden Arms]

I can't believe how many people post on here who are utterly clueless.
Some people seriously need to stop posting less and reading more, especially the Bible.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. you posted that you were almost in tears? are you a chick? No man would be almost in tears cause of something another guy said...are you gay?

2. it doesn't matter what you look like. I've seen ugly as f*cuk mack (guys who get paid) pull women. It's based on how YOU feel about YOU. You gotta convince a ho that your better than she is and she must prove herself worthy of your time...get it

3. I don't know what country you live in but I hope the men there are more masculine than this. You shoulda said some smart assed shyt back to the bully dude. Even if he woulda kicked your ass at least you stood up as a MAN.

4. Work out. Work on your confidence. Work on growing some nutz.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by Tai
Me "you know what, you think your better then everyone"

Umm, that's known as picking a fight. It doesn't matter what tone of voice you said it in.

When you pick a fight, you better be ready for the response.

You can immediately discount what he said though, since he was trying to hit back.

Now realize you were shamed -- I mean in psychological terms. You feel shame when you are unprepared for embarassment.

If you think you are going to walk through a gauntlet of insults, you usually aren't shamed because you're mentally prepared ahead of time.

Shame hits you when your guard is down and are surprised, even stunned by some embarrasing thing -- that's why friends and family can sometimes shame you the most -- you are off your guard when around them.

As for handling that guy in the future, I'd let it pass this time because your time to react was right then in his face. But if he mouths off to you again unprovoked, you're going to have to do something -- either hit back verbally, or challenge him physically.

 

[Tai]

IMO anybody would get pissed or hurt if someone dissed them, we are not made of stone but a DJ will forget about it in a few days. Monday i will forget this ever happen and if i see that guy again i will put him in his place for sure.

About me started the whole thing... maybe i did and i wasnt prepare for the put down so i couldn come up with a good comback but i did call him short and a bad dresser, i would say i put him to shame just as much as he did to me.

Ahh well... ill tell you guys what happen on tuesday cause monday is thanksgiving.