I met this girl 'she's 29' through friends of mine. I would have to say that she's a hottie and she knows this. Anyway, my friend was trying to hit it for almost 6months and never even came close. After awhile she caught on to his lies and his games. To make it a short story, she put an end to their friendship.
She started calling me to hang out once a week. The times we got together we've always had a good time. after maybe 3 weeks she started to tell me things about her childhood, which she made me promise not to tell anyone else. I guess I can tell you guys/gals. Her father was an alcoholic. Her dad would come home from work drunk and he would be abusive 'not pyshically', he would be loud and throw things around. She remembers once that her dad hit her mom. She said that she remembers him being load one night and that her 2 brothers had to calm her dad down and in the morning when she walked out to the living room she saw her mom sitting on the sofa and that a bloody rag was on the coffee table 'that's when she started crying on me'. That's when I wrapped my arms around her and told her that it was ok for her cry. She also said that she would always try to get her mom to leave her dad, but that never happened. I then shared some emotional things that I have been through. What it comes to is that she had a bad childhood with her father.
I know that she has metioned that she had never been in love before, although she left her boyfriend of 6 years less than a year ago.
We have been hang out going to movies and dinners.... On one Saturday night around 1:15 am, she called me to say that she couldn't sleep and she wanted to go get something to eat. I showed up and we went out to eat. When I was dropping her off at her front door, she exited the car and she looked me in the eye until the car door shut. I knew that she wanted something to happen, but I didn't. Anyways, the next couple of times when I left her apartment she gave me the same stare. On one Saturday night we went to dinner and afterwards we went to a near by bar and had some drinks 'we ended up closing the bar'. When dropping her off I asked if she wanted me to walk her to her door and she said yes. Once in her apartment we went to give each other a hug good bye. We ended up embracing for awhile. One thing led to another and we ended up in bed.
You guys are going to be disappointed with this, but mr.wee wee couldn't perform. It was going good for the first maybe 10 minutes. The first time she told me to lay back and relax. After lying there for a few minutes I tried again and there was no problem for afew minutes and then it went soft again. After that I laid there. She again told me to relax and close my eyes. I then asked her if she wanted me to go home and she replied with a no 'I guess that's a good thing'. I then asked her a stupid question. The question is 'so where does this leave us with our relationship'. She first had this blank look on her face and then she said Friends. That's when she said that I should go home. I went home and the next morning she called to make sure that I got home that night ok. I spoke about what had happened and she said it could have been the alcohol, because it wasn't the first time it's happened to her. I'm guessing that it happend to her previous boyfriend.
The following weekend she called and left a message saying that she wanted to hangout that night 'Friday'. I didn't get the message until I got back from CA. I called her we went out to dinner that week and as usual it was a fun time. I dropped her off at the front door and she said that she would invite me up but she had to get up early for work in the morning. We just hugged and off she went.
We had plans to go out dancing on Saturday night and when she called we spoke for afew minutes and I asked if we were still on for dancing. She said that she wasn't felling to good and she wanted to stay in that night. She also said that her friend said that her sister wanted to know if we're dating each other. She said that we're not dating. It's weird because her friends sister is one of my ex-girlfriends. They had an apartment together that didn't work out to good. So, I just told her to call me if she wanted to hang out.
I know that she doesn't get close to guys, that's why she's never been in love before and I know it was a stupid question to ask, but something inside made me say it. With my past girlfriend we went from being a couple to me being her booty call and back and fourth several times 'so I just had to know where i stand with her'.
So, what do you guys think. Do I still have a chance for being a couple, booty call or should I ditch her?
She started calling me to hang out once a week. The times we got together we've always had a good time. after maybe 3 weeks she started to tell me things about her childhood, which she made me promise not to tell anyone else. I guess I can tell you guys/gals. Her father was an alcoholic. Her dad would come home from work drunk and he would be abusive 'not pyshically', he would be loud and throw things around. She remembers once that her dad hit her mom. She said that she remembers him being load one night and that her 2 brothers had to calm her dad down and in the morning when she walked out to the living room she saw her mom sitting on the sofa and that a bloody rag was on the coffee table 'that's when she started crying on me'. That's when I wrapped my arms around her and told her that it was ok for her cry. She also said that she would always try to get her mom to leave her dad, but that never happened. I then shared some emotional things that I have been through. What it comes to is that she had a bad childhood with her father.
I know that she has metioned that she had never been in love before, although she left her boyfriend of 6 years less than a year ago.
We have been hang out going to movies and dinners.... On one Saturday night around 1:15 am, she called me to say that she couldn't sleep and she wanted to go get something to eat. I showed up and we went out to eat. When I was dropping her off at her front door, she exited the car and she looked me in the eye until the car door shut. I knew that she wanted something to happen, but I didn't. Anyways, the next couple of times when I left her apartment she gave me the same stare. On one Saturday night we went to dinner and afterwards we went to a near by bar and had some drinks 'we ended up closing the bar'. When dropping her off I asked if she wanted me to walk her to her door and she said yes. Once in her apartment we went to give each other a hug good bye. We ended up embracing for awhile. One thing led to another and we ended up in bed.
You guys are going to be disappointed with this, but mr.wee wee couldn't perform. It was going good for the first maybe 10 minutes. The first time she told me to lay back and relax. After lying there for a few minutes I tried again and there was no problem for afew minutes and then it went soft again. After that I laid there. She again told me to relax and close my eyes. I then asked her if she wanted me to go home and she replied with a no 'I guess that's a good thing'. I then asked her a stupid question. The question is 'so where does this leave us with our relationship'. She first had this blank look on her face and then she said Friends. That's when she said that I should go home. I went home and the next morning she called to make sure that I got home that night ok. I spoke about what had happened and she said it could have been the alcohol, because it wasn't the first time it's happened to her. I'm guessing that it happend to her previous boyfriend.
The following weekend she called and left a message saying that she wanted to hangout that night 'Friday'. I didn't get the message until I got back from CA. I called her we went out to dinner that week and as usual it was a fun time. I dropped her off at the front door and she said that she would invite me up but she had to get up early for work in the morning. We just hugged and off she went.
We had plans to go out dancing on Saturday night and when she called we spoke for afew minutes and I asked if we were still on for dancing. She said that she wasn't felling to good and she wanted to stay in that night. She also said that her friend said that her sister wanted to know if we're dating each other. She said that we're not dating. It's weird because her friends sister is one of my ex-girlfriends. They had an apartment together that didn't work out to good. So, I just told her to call me if she wanted to hang out.
I know that she doesn't get close to guys, that's why she's never been in love before and I know it was a stupid question to ask, but something inside made me say it. With my past girlfriend we went from being a couple to me being her booty call and back and fourth several times 'so I just had to know where i stand with her'.
So, what do you guys think. Do I still have a chance for being a couple, booty call or should I ditch her?
