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First of all let me introduce my self, the name is Joe. I am a NEWBIE to the game have only been at if for a few months and it has changed my life already. I was always the guy that settled for the 5s and 6s never any chick higher than that. But let me tell you all that has changed within the last few months. I am now only talking to HOT chicks and I am planning to nail the first 8 pretty soon but she is giving mixed signals.

I have been talking to this girl for a few weeks now. I saw all these signs of interests and I still see them. The usual hair tossing and twirling when we speak, the eye contact, head tilt etc…And by the way she GAVE me her Number before I had time to ask her for hers. So just the other day we were in class and we flirted a lot, I teased and acted disinterested in what she had to say, she would turn around in her chair and less than 5 seconds she would turn back and try to talk with me. I was playing hard to get and she could not resist. So then out of nowhere she asked me to touch her hand to feel how soft it was she recently bought a new hand lotion. I did and she smiled. I have noticed that we have been getting more physical with the touching. So later on she was telling how hungry she was and how she wanted to grab a bite to eat. So I made my move a suggested we go eat. She did not hesitate one bit and said yes. We decided to meet at her favorite burger joint. So we talked about a lot of things from school to politics and then eventually to sex. She told me that she was not a virgin. Well anyway I don’t know what made her tell me this, I guess she was just thinking about sex, LOL. During our time together I noticed all the signs of interest, the hair thing, eye contact, she accidentally brush her legs against mine under the table. We were really comfortable with each other. And then she mentions a guy that she has been talking to, this was random. She says she has been talking to him for a six months but she is getting tired cause he has not made a move yet. I flat out tell her to not waste her time on someone that is not returning feelings. She agrees and says that she is not going to chase. That she is waiting for the right guy to find her. She then asks me about my relationships and I tell her that I am talking to few girls here and there. We chit chat and then I tell her that we should get going. I walk her to her car and I grab her hand gently I am expecting a hug, instead she leans into me with her right cheek expecting a kiss. I give her a soft kiss on cheek, still holding her hand in mine. I say good bye and she says “see you in class next week”. I just walk away and do not look back. What is up with girl? IS she testing me? Is she really interested or just a big flirt.

This all happened on Thursday night. I have not called her since. The next time I will see her will be tomorrow night in class. I am going to act like a total ass. Please share your wisdom.
 

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Uhh, nothing indicates her as testing you. Is that all you're asking?

What's up with her? Uhh, she's becoming emotionally attached to you. You should've played it more sexual, unless you are trying to hurt her feelings.
 

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sounds to me she is very interested but dont act like an ass next time you see her.
 

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Bringing a guy into the conversation that she has been talking to for six months?
That kinda threw me off.
 

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joe95 said:
Bringing a guy into the conversation that she has been talking to for six months?
That kinda threw me off.
i think she brought that up to covertly let you know where she stood in her dating world.
 

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Well anyways she also mentioned how she is not going to quickly jump into a relationship cause she has been hurt before. So I guess she is letting me know to take slow but I want to bang her already.

Another thing she mentioned a while back that she wanted me to teacher her how to play guitar. Okay so we have not had an official first date yet so I was thinking about taking her to the park this weekend maybe a little picnic and teach her a few things. By teaching her guitar am I giving in and letting her gain control?
 
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i think thats a wonderful date idea. maybe fling off a couple of chunes that you have been working on.

my suggestioin is to take her to the park but dont mention you are bringing your guitar. that way it will be a suprise lesson and it proves that you have been listening to her all this time.
 

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PokerStar said:
i think thats a wonderful date idea. maybe fling off a couple of chunes that you have been working on.

my suggestioin is to take her to the park but dont mention you are bringing your guitar. that way it will be a suprise lesson and it proves that you have been listening to her all this time.
The problem with that is I play electric and she plays a little acoustic. I can play both but I don't have an acoustic at the moment she has one. No way I can take my electric to the park.
 

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do you have a friend with an acoustic that will let you borrow it for a couple of hours?
 

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K.Pez said:
do you have a friend with an acoustic that will let you borrow it for a couple of hours?
Nope I am the only musician out of all of us.
 

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Iamnotacrook said:
Uhh, nothing indicates her as testing you. Is that all you're asking?

What's up with her? Uhh, she's becoming emotionally attached to you. You should've played it more sexual, unless you are trying to hurt her feelings.
That is what I am going for. I am not trying to hurt her feelings I am trying to seduce her. (I am currently reading Art of Seduction) by the way. Good Read
 

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ok how about this.

arrange the date for the park. tell her to bring her guitar and have her play some tunes for you.
 

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joe95 said:
Nope I am the only musician out of all of us.
you might be able to find a rental store through google or something. i did a search of "guitar rental" real quick and found a few sites. i've never rented a guitar though, so i don't know how that all works.

http://www.fretsforrent.com/



by the way, this is a good idea for a date. i've found that ladies love the acoustic guitar.
 

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PokerStar said:
ok how about this.

arrange the date for the park. tell her to bring her guitar and have her play some tunes for you.
Poker, that's a good idea. How about this, I'll tell her that in order for me to teach her she has to show me what she can do first (qualifying herself to me).
Thanks man.
 

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Poker, that's a good idea. How about this, I'll tell her that in order for me to teach her she has to show me what she can do first (qualifying herself to me).
Thanks man.

there you go!!!

im excited to hear what transpires.

let us know.
 

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I forgot to ask. I see this girl twice a week on Tuesday and Thursday evening, so when would be the best time to tell about the park date on Saturday. I want to ask her in person not like an AFC over the phone.
 

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Well anyways she also mentioned how she is not going to quickly jump into a relationship cause she has been hurt before. So I guess she is letting me know to take slow but I want to bang her already.
^^Are you dense?? She wants to take it slow IN A RELATIONSHIP. You're not going for a relationship, you're going for **** buddies. What you are going to do is cause her emotional pain if you make her fall for you in anything but a sexual way. All this sentimental **** should not be a part of it.

In other words, you're not going to **** her unless you step it up. Stop acting like you want to bond.

God I hate fake people.
 

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joe95 said:
So later on she was telling how hungry she was and how she wanted to grab a bite to eat. So I made my move a suggested we go eat. She did not hesitate one bit and said yes. We decided to meet at her favorite burger joint. So we talked about a lot of things from school to politics and then eventually to sex. She told me that she was not a virgin. Well anyway I don’t know what made her tell me this, I guess she was just thinking about sex, LOL. During our time together I noticed all the signs of interest, the hair thing, eye contact, she accidentally brush her legs against mine under the table. We were really comfortable with each other. And then she mentions a guy that she has been talking to, this was random. She says she has been talking to him for a six months but she is getting tired cause he has not made a move yet. I flat out tell her to not waste her time on someone that is not returning feelings. She agrees and says that she is not going to chase. That she is waiting for the right guy to find her. She then asks me about my relationships and I tell her that I am talking to few girls here and there. We chit chat and then I tell her that we should get going. I walk her to her car and I grab her hand gently I am expecting a hug, instead she leans into me with her right cheek expecting a kiss. I give her a soft kiss on cheek, still holding her hand in mine. I say good bye and she says “see you in class next week”. I just walk away and do not look back. What is up with girl? IS she testing me? Is she really interested or just a big flirt.

What were you expecting her to do? Rip off her clothes and have sex with you in parking lot right there?

This all happened on Thursday night. I have not called her since. The next time I will see her will be tomorrow night in class. I am going to act like a total ass. Please share your wisdom.
Your going to act like a total ass next time you see her because you had a good time with her and she kissed on the cheek? Sounds like a smart thing to do.

Knock down your ego a few pegs. She did everything right and you should be glad she's showing some signs of interest in you.
 
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joe95 said:
First of all let me introduce my self, the name is Joe. I am a NEWBIE to the game have only been at if for a few months and it has changed my life already. I was always the guy that settled for the 5s and 6s never any chick higher than that. But let me tell you all that has changed within the last few months. I am now only talking to HOT chicks and I am planning to nail the first 8 pretty soon but she is giving mixed signals.
So, what have you been doing during the past few months that has changed your life that you are only talking to HOT chicks? You had problems approaching HOT chicks to talk to them before?
 

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Well anyways she also mentioned how she is not going to quickly jump into a relationship cause she has been hurt before. So I guess she is letting me know to take slow but I want to bang her already.
First of all, dont ever listen to a chick when they say crap like this.

Secondly, I wouldn't do the guitar lesson as a date. There's too much frustration involved. Personally, I've found that guitar lessons and game dont go very well together. Besides, if she wants a lesson, that's your excuse to invite her into your room, get it? wink, wink. Think of it as a 'study' date. Do you really want to study? Noooooo. Take her for a different kind of fun date, and use the guitar as an excuse to go back to your house. With any luck, the only g string you'll be fingering will be inside of her miniskirt.

Actually, you might want to scrap the whole date idea, and invite her to your house to umm, 'play guitar.' This time though, grab your sack, and make a freakin move. Get the kiss on the cheek out of the way as soon as you see her. Oh, and dont actually give her a lesson, just make your move.
 
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