I NEED THE SUPERIOR INSIGHT OF MY FELLOW DJ'S

[Suaveman]

I'm in a little quandry here...

Maybe I just need a good boot in the ass...

But, whatever you can advise, it would be greatly appreciated.

So, here is my situation...
I've been in college for over a week now. College is a great place with many quality women, and many not so quality women in it. I'm attending the University of Connecticut, so Holla if your on my campus!!! Now, I've been with this girl for about 9 months currently. She is still in high school, and I'm moving on to bigger and better things. I truely do care for her, BUT, I want to keep my options open and date/kiss/**** all of the plentiful women on campus. I feel she's holding me back from doing all of those things. My girlfriend is the women for me (I think), and I definately don't wana screw up this fabulous relationship! We get along better than great, but now that she isn't around as much I need some female affection to keep me going, so I've been conservately gathering up a list of dating prospects at UCONN. Should I...A. stay faithful to my girlfriend and keep these other girls at school as just friends...B. "date" my girlfriend, and screw around with girls from college...or C. dump my girlfriend, and start anew... Keep in mind me and my girlfriend have a strong "romantic friendship".

All of my DJ brothers please shed some of your superior insight on this problem, and please offer me suggestions on what you would do if stuck in the same position!

Your fellow DJ,
Suaveman

 

[Santos]

This is all a question of dating ethics and you'll get varied responses. Personally, I don't think it's right to **** other women behind your GF's back. But I don't think there's anything wrong with dating other women to see what's out there, just as long as she doesn't find out

Santos

 

[SamePendo]

My insight is NOT superior.

I hope youve read the DJ Bible.


I go for A, always keeping your options open. If she's up to it, why deny all this oportunity?

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Originally posted by Suaveman
I'm in a little quandry here...

Maybe I just need a good boot in the ass...

But, whatever you can advise, it would be greatly appreciated.

So, here is my situation...
I've been in college for over a week now. College is a great place with many quality women, and many not so quality women in it. I'm attending the University of Connecticut, so Holla if your on my campus!!! Now, I've been with this girl for about 9 months currently. She is still in high school, and I'm moving on to bigger and better things. I truely do care for her, BUT, I want to keep my options open and date/kiss/**** all of the plentiful women on campus. I feel she's holding me back from doing all of those things. My girlfriend is the women for me (I think), and I definately don't wana screw up this fabulous relationship! We get along better than great, but now that she isn't around as much I need some female affection to keep me going, so I've been conservately gathering up a list of dating prospects at UCONN. Should I...A. stay faithful to my girlfriend and keep these other girls at school as just friends...B. "date" my girlfriend, and screw around with girls from college...or C. dump my girlfriend, and start anew... Keep in mind me and my girlfriend have a strong "romantic friendship".

All of my DJ brothers please shed some of your superior insight on this problem, and please offer me suggestions on what you would do if stuck in the same position!

Your fellow DJ,
Suaveman

I would enjoy your young years at school! You have a slight case of oneitis, so cut the $hit. Keep your girl in the friend zone and sow your seeds!

M.A.C.

 

[Suaveman]

Originally posted by SamePendo


I go for A, always keeping your options open. If she's up to it, why deny all this oportunity?

I don't follow? Keeping my options open would mean I would have to get rid of her, or else I would be cheating on her.

 

[Unregistered]

A or C

 

[SamePendo]

Yes, if you have a girlfriend, it doesnt mean you will be together until the apocalypse.
Always keep your OPTIONS open. Dont fool around-have sex etc with other women. Just, dont close yourself from women.

 

[princelydeeds]

I say get your ass in gear. Quit wasting time. Life is short. You're young you can only be a freshman once. Stop wasting time. What you do at school is your business. You don't know what your favorite flavor is until you've sampled all the flavors. You will be surprised at how much your tastes change over the next few years. While you think the one you had in HS is perfect, you will quickly learn that you will change and so will she. What you liked then probably won't be what you will like in the future.

There is nothing worse than wasted time. If you don't break up this year you will almost definitely break up when she goes away to school. Im not saying end what you have, but I am saying Date and fvck all the women you can in the mean time. You will probably find something you like more at college anyway. REad the bible fvck all the women you can if its meant to be with the girl from HS then it will be if not oh well you will find something better.