i NEED SOME OPINIONS

[NATHINNICE]

NOW I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT POST HERE ARE ANTI-PIMP, AND I AINT MAD AT YA FOR THAT, BUT MAYBE YALL CAN HELP ME OUT.

MY RULE FOR ANY WOMAN IS "SEE WHAT ELSE SHE'LL DO", THATS MY PHILOSPHY AND IM STICKING TO IT. I RARELY PAY FOR DATES, AND I ALWAYS RECIVE B-DAY GIFTS FROM EVERYONE ONE MY TEAM( MY LADY FRIENDS), AND PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE GOTTEN IN THE LAST THREE MONTHS( BE IT FOOD, TRAVEL, OR ORGASM), HAS BEEN PROVIDED FOR ME BY A WOMAN, NOW ITS NOT THAT I ASK THESE WOMEN TO TREAT ME SO WELL, THEY DO IT CAUSE THEY THINK BY DOING MORE THAN THE NEXT CHICK, THEY'LL MAGICALLY MAKE ME WANT TO MAKE THEM MY GIRLFRIEND.

I HAVE THIS ONE WHO WHEN WE FIRST STARTED "CHILLIN(AKA SEXIN)", WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME DUDE SHE WAS WITH FOR THREE YEARS. NOW IM MAN ENOUGH TO LET ANY WOMAN KNOW BEFORE WE DO ANYTHING SEXUAL THAT IM NOT GOING TO BE A BOYFRIEND, AND SINCE SHE WAS ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP ANYWAY, I LET HER KNOW THAT I WASNT GOIN TO TRY TO TAKE HIS PLACE. AT FIRST ALL SHE WAS TO ME WAS A NUT ONCE A MONTH( I KEEP A FULL CALANDER), BUT IN JUNE MY WATER GOT CUT OFF AND SHE LIVED IN WALKIN DISTANCE , SO NOW INSTEAD OF BEING JUST MONTHLY NUT, SHE BECAME SHOWER AND MORNING BLOW JOB. NOW BEIN THE SMOOTH INDIVIDUAL THAT I AM, I MADE SURE THAT BEFORE I SHOWERED AT HER HOUSE THAT I'D MAKE SMALL TALK WITH HER AND EVERYDAY IT WAS SOMETHING THAT THE BOYFREIND WAS DOING WRONG. NOW INSTEAD OF HATING AND AGREEING WITH THE NEGATIVE THINGS SHE SAID ABOUT HIM, I OPENED HER EYE'S TO HIS POINT OF VIEW AND WOULD ONLY TELL HER WHAT SHE WAS DOING WRONG.

FOR THREE WEEKS I WAS HER PERSONAL DR. PHIL, AND I GUESS THAT THAT SMALL AMOUNT OF TIME WAS ENOUGH FOR HER TO FALL IN LOVE( I BROKE MY OWN PERSONAL RULE ON THAT BECAUSE THE FIRST RULE OF BEING NATHIN NICE IS TO DEAL WITH EVERY FEMALE IN MODERATION TO PREVENT THIS SORT OF THING FROM HAPPENING),BECAUSE SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFREIND.

AS SOON AS THEY BROKE UP SHE STARTED CATERING TO MY EVERY NEEDS, BY ASKING ME WHAT I LIKED AND THEN GETTING IT FOR ME, JUST BECAUSE I SAID I LIKED IT ( ONE TIME I TOLD HER I LIKED SPONGE BOB, AND WITHIN WEEKS I HAD ANY AND EVERY KIND OF SPONGE BOB ITEM FROM SILK BOXERS TO PAJAMAS). I SAW THAT SHE WAS WILLING TO DO ANYTHING FOR ME AND INSTEAD OF BEING A LEECH AND TAKING HER MONEY, I CUT HER OFF COMPLETLY FOR ABOUT A MONTH JUST TO SHOW HER THAT I STILL WASNT HER BOYFREIND.

RECENTLY I NEEDED A RIDE BACK TO ATLANTA , SO I WENT TO HER APARTMENT AND ASKED HER COULD SHE GIVE ME A RIDE SINCE SHE WAS HEADED THAT WAY ANY WAY, OFF COURSE SHE WAS A LITTLE MAD THAT I DIDNT KEEP IN TOUCH, AND I KNOW TO HER IT SEEMED THAT THE ONLY TIME THAT I COME AROUND IS WHEN I WANT SOMETHING, AND SHE EVEN BROUGHT IT UP, I SIMPLY REFERED HER TO WHAT I TOLD HER WHEN WE FIRST MET,"IM NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND, NOR DO I PLAN TO BE", BUT SHE STILL AGREED TO TAKE ME HOME.

A COUPLE OF NIGHTS AGO SHE EMAILED ME SAYING THAT SHE'S CUT OFF ALL OF HER OTHER MALE FREINDS AND THAT SHE REALLY WANTED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME.

MY QUESTION IS FELLOW DJ'S HOW DO I LET HER KNOW THAT I WONT BE HER MAN, I MEAN I'VE TOLD HER , BUT SHE DOESNT SEEM TO GET THE PICTURE, AND I'M NOT A DISRESPECTFUL DUDE, I DONT WANT TO JUST DAWG HER OUT, WHAT DO I DO?

 

[iqqi]

first of all, don't ever make another post with the cap lock on, boy.

secondly, you are using her and that is dogging her out. but she keeps coming back for more, so it is up to her to grow up and move on. one day she will wise up and leave your ass in the dust.

until then, just keep your stance. what is so hard about that?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

She is a psycho if she still wants to be with you - she is probably setting you up for a fall and is suicidal.

 

[NATHINNICE]

THANX FOR THE ADVICE

I REALLY HOPE SHE AINT SUICIDAL, BECAUSE I DONT NEED ANOTHER INCIDENT LIKE THAT.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. iggy was right about the caps playboi. it's hard on my eyes to read. I read most of your post and you sound just like me homie.

I sent you a email.

2. Your talking about being Pimp-tight. You don't pay for dates, and recieve ton's of gifts...and shyt like that. There is another forum where this is the way of life....I need to watch you before I lace you up...too many perptrators have found their way in to the pimp forum.

peace

 

[Runna13=)]

4 words- let's just be friends

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Getting girls to pay and never pay yourself is not hard. It's just a matter of playing on their goodside, emotions and making them feel horny and also taking ontrol.

 

[HuuBinh]

She probably did not take you seriously about you not wanting to be her bf. Maybe you should have a serious conversation with her emphazising what ever your intentions are with her. If you just want to have fun without any strings, let her know. What school in Atlanta do you attend Nathin?

 

[NATHINNICE]

Thanks for ur opinions

I thought we were freinds (with benifits), I already decided that i'm gonna cut her off for good though, although she still gotta little cake in her( willingness to give), My pimp-s ense is telling me that if i keep messin with this chick, im askin for drama that i really dont need, i mean i put it like this she's obvioulsy not understanding the rules to this ****, and i dont have time to teach her, i dont have room for a JV caliber player on my team anyway, she just gonna have to respect the game and understand that when a snake tell you he venomous, its best not to mess wit him if u dont know what ur doing, cause ya lialble to get bit,



Thats just my opinon though. Do you.

 

[NATHINNICE]

I went to North Clayton, and i did tell her what the deal was, in fact i was brutelly honest( i even brought up the fact that how could she think that i could wife up( make her my girlfreind), with someone who cheated on someone to be with me, its the principle of the situation.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Damn - a pimp with principles, I heard it all!

 

[justheretohelp]

Originally posted by NATHINNICE
NOW I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT POST HERE ARE ANTI-PIMP, AND I AINT MAD AT YA FOR THAT, BUT MAYBE YALL CAN HELP ME OUT.

MY RULE FOR ANY WOMAN IS "SEE WHAT ELSE SHE'LL DO", THATS MY PHILOSPHY AND IM STICKING TO IT. I RARELY PAY FOR DATES, AND I ALWAYS RECIVE B-DAY GIFTS FROM EVERYONE ONE MY TEAM( MY LADY FRIENDS), AND PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE GOTTEN IN THE LAST THREE MONTHS( BE IT FOOD, TRAVEL, OR ORGASM), HAS BEEN PROVIDED FOR ME BY A WOMAN, NOW ITS NOT THAT I ASK THESE WOMEN TO TREAT ME SO WELL, THEY DO IT CAUSE THEY THINK BY DOING MORE THAN THE NEXT CHICK, THEY'LL MAGICALLY MAKE ME WANT TO MAKE THEM MY GIRLFRIEND.

I HAVE THIS ONE WHO WHEN WE FIRST STARTED "CHILLIN(AKA SEXIN)", WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME DUDE SHE WAS WITH FOR THREE YEARS. NOW IM MAN ENOUGH TO LET ANY WOMAN KNOW BEFORE WE DO ANYTHING SEXUAL THAT IM NOT GOING TO BE A BOYFRIEND, AND SINCE SHE WAS ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP ANYWAY, I LET HER KNOW THAT I WASNT GOIN TO TRY TO TAKE HIS PLACE. AT FIRST ALL SHE WAS TO ME WAS A NUT ONCE A MONTH( I KEEP A FULL CALANDER), BUT IN JUNE MY WATER GOT CUT OFF AND SHE LIVED IN WALKIN DISTANCE , SO NOW INSTEAD OF BEING JUST MONTHLY NUT, SHE BECAME SHOWER AND MORNING BLOW JOB. NOW BEIN THE SMOOTH INDIVIDUAL THAT I AM, I MADE SURE THAT BEFORE I SHOWERED AT HER HOUSE THAT I'D MAKE SMALL TALK WITH HER AND EVERYDAY IT WAS SOMETHING THAT THE BOYFREIND WAS DOING WRONG. NOW INSTEAD OF HATING AND AGREEING WITH THE NEGATIVE THINGS SHE SAID ABOUT HIM, I OPENED HER EYE'S TO HIS POINT OF VIEW AND WOULD ONLY TELL HER WHAT SHE WAS DOING WRONG.

FOR THREE WEEKS I WAS HER PERSONAL DR. PHIL, AND I GUESS THAT THAT SMALL AMOUNT OF TIME WAS ENOUGH FOR HER TO FALL IN LOVE( I BROKE MY OWN PERSONAL RULE ON THAT BECAUSE THE FIRST RULE OF BEING NATHIN NICE IS TO DEAL WITH EVERY FEMALE IN MODERATION TO PREVENT THIS SORT OF THING FROM HAPPENING),BECAUSE SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFREIND.

AS SOON AS THEY BROKE UP SHE STARTED CATERING TO MY EVERY NEEDS, BY ASKING ME WHAT I LIKED AND THEN GETTING IT FOR ME, JUST BECAUSE I SAID I LIKED IT ( ONE TIME I TOLD HER I LIKED SPONGE BOB, AND WITHIN WEEKS I HAD ANY AND EVERY KIND OF SPONGE BOB ITEM FROM SILK BOXERS TO PAJAMAS). I SAW THAT SHE WAS WILLING TO DO ANYTHING FOR ME AND INSTEAD OF BEING A LEECH AND TAKING HER MONEY, I CUT HER OFF COMPLETLY FOR ABOUT A MONTH JUST TO SHOW HER THAT I STILL WASNT HER BOYFREIND.

RECENTLY I NEEDED A RIDE BACK TO ATLANTA , SO I WENT TO HER APARTMENT AND ASKED HER COULD SHE GIVE ME A RIDE SINCE SHE WAS HEADED THAT WAY ANY WAY, OFF COURSE SHE WAS A LITTLE MAD THAT I DIDNT KEEP IN TOUCH, AND I KNOW TO HER IT SEEMED THAT THE ONLY TIME THAT I COME AROUND IS WHEN I WANT SOMETHING, AND SHE EVEN BROUGHT IT UP, I SIMPLY REFERED HER TO WHAT I TOLD HER WHEN WE FIRST MET,"IM NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND, NOR DO I PLAN TO BE", BUT SHE STILL AGREED TO TAKE ME HOME.

A COUPLE OF NIGHTS AGO SHE EMAILED ME SAYING THAT SHE'S CUT OFF ALL OF HER OTHER MALE FREINDS AND THAT SHE REALLY WANTED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME.

MY QUESTION IS FELLOW DJ'S HOW DO I LET HER KNOW THAT I WONT BE HER MAN, I MEAN I'VE TOLD HER , BUT SHE DOESNT SEEM TO GET THE PICTURE, AND I'M NOT A DISRESPECTFUL DUDE, I DONT WANT TO JUST DAWG HER OUT, WHAT DO I DO?

She seems to want what she can't have. Well, there's nothing you can do but cut off all ties and communication with her again until she gets it that you don't want to be her man. Or you can call her everyday, not give her space, be clingy, be jealous, be possessive and turns things around to her by driving her away. It looks like she likes the thrill of the chase. Maybe when you start chasing her she'll start running away.