hellfire45
Don Juan
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So I am 20. I have this GF and we waited a month before having sex. I think this was the right thing to do because we formed the necessary bond, but thats not the issue here.
The issue is that this girl tells me that shes never had an orgasm. I dont know why this is but after a month of dating, I lost my virginity to this girl. She tells me she likes it as deep as it'll go, hard and as fast as possible. Apparently the deep aspect is good cause she tells me that I'm the biggest guy shes ever had sex with. I'd say im slightly above average. Now I want to give her an orgasm, I mean this is a caring relationship and if I am going to enjoy myself trying to give her one so she can enjoy herself, then I think I should concentrate on that. However, having only had sex 4 times to date....its pretty freaking hard to go for honestly a max of 2 minutes as hard, deep and fast as possible. Not to mention the girl is pretty tight. I finger her with 1 finger when I'm warming her up. Maybe that is or is not reasonable but for somebody who is basically a virgin or a 1st timer, I think it's probably normal.
Some of you might recommend oral sex but 1) she thinks oral sex is disgusting. Shes a bisexual and she tells me that shes never given or recieved it from a girl and that its really gross. I went down on her the other night just cause again, I'd never done it and I must say that I agree. It's not pleasant, and we had just showered. I dont see myself doing that. 2) I'm not sure how deep and fast I can get with my tongue.
So any tips on how I can "jackhammer" her for longer periods of time, since it seems thats what she likes.
The issue is that this girl tells me that shes never had an orgasm. I dont know why this is but after a month of dating, I lost my virginity to this girl. She tells me she likes it as deep as it'll go, hard and as fast as possible. Apparently the deep aspect is good cause she tells me that I'm the biggest guy shes ever had sex with. I'd say im slightly above average. Now I want to give her an orgasm, I mean this is a caring relationship and if I am going to enjoy myself trying to give her one so she can enjoy herself, then I think I should concentrate on that. However, having only had sex 4 times to date....its pretty freaking hard to go for honestly a max of 2 minutes as hard, deep and fast as possible. Not to mention the girl is pretty tight. I finger her with 1 finger when I'm warming her up. Maybe that is or is not reasonable but for somebody who is basically a virgin or a 1st timer, I think it's probably normal.
Some of you might recommend oral sex but 1) she thinks oral sex is disgusting. Shes a bisexual and she tells me that shes never given or recieved it from a girl and that its really gross. I went down on her the other night just cause again, I'd never done it and I must say that I agree. It's not pleasant, and we had just showered. I dont see myself doing that. 2) I'm not sure how deep and fast I can get with my tongue.
So any tips on how I can "jackhammer" her for longer periods of time, since it seems thats what she likes.