I need some advice fellas.

[dnscache]

I'll make this as short as possible, and I know there is probably some advice on this already but I'd appreciate some help.

The Outline:
-With a chick 2 and a half months, not terribly long.
-She breaks up with me. Reason? "I deserve better" (WTF?)
-Myspace blog about me and how she wishes she hadn't done that etc. goes up the same day (Once again, WTF?)
-She's been texting/calling more than she ever did when we were together.

Well, I am almost certain I want her back and I feel like I'm in a good position to do that. From what I see on the site, would it be best to just ignore her for a while, and when I DO talk to her, just be polite and indifferent?

Anyways, I'll be waiting for some help here.

 

[Bballer7389]

Personally, Id say for get her. I know you say you want her back, but ask yourself: why do you think she ended it? What makes it any different now and before? Id personalyl let her suffer jsut to stick it to her, by being polite to her but indifferent. However if you really want her back take her aside and talk to and ask her why she wants you back. Try to gauge if shes Bsing you or crap liek that. Jsut dont open yourself up jsut yet to her, cuz obviously shes not afraid to end it when she wants.

 

[dnscache]

But she never said anything to me about wanting me back... so how could I "take her aside" and ask why? You were assuming that she had said something to that effect, correct? Because she really hasn't, unless you consider that MySpace thing to be her saying that... lol.

So, anyone else?
I liked this chick for like 4 years then got her so thats why I want her back. Just FYI.

-dns

 

[foxintehsnow]

See heres how this goes "you dont know what you have it's gone". So now she wants you back you know what if i was you I wouldent take her back. Yeat who knows you could aways take her back and brake up with her or something just so you feel better about the who realtionship ending?

 

[djweses89]

really dude ask yourself are you gunna be wit this girl for a really long time. If you dont see you with her after high school dont worry bout find a new girl man cus most likley you will find someone better thats if you play your cards right dont be a retard like me and not realize how to pick up chicks untill my senior year. but all im sayin is the girl i dated for like 2 months broke up wit me then flirted wit me all the time after that i havnt tried to hook up wit her agian and im glad because i didnt waste time i needed on her. and like my friend he dated this girl she broke up wit him and he hasnt took her back and its been almost a year and she still has feeling for him even though she has a b/f and if he ever told her he liked her agian she would break up wit her b/f that instance. basicly wat im sayin find a new girl unless you think theres a good chance of relationship after high school cus if not u will be doin this on and off dating thing for ever and miss out on hookin up wit other girls.

 

[Bballer7389]

Basically the two guys above said what I said as well, dont take her back thats what I personally would do.