I need serious help...

[thevilittletroll]

first of all keep in mind that girls on dating websites have 100 more options then you have. she chose someone else who better fit her needs, or someone else who has better game. i've known a lot of girls that have done online dating and they all say the same thing. they all say they are tired of meeting *******s in bars who have sex with them and never call again. they want to meet a nice guy. they go to online dating and get 1000 emails from nice guys and go out on a bunch of dates but they dont go anywhere cause the guys are all beta and dont make their moves. the women are left unsatisfied, get pissed and delete their account.

online game realistically is no different than real world game. girls have hundreds of options and are only attracted to *******s and alpha males. you have to be aggressive and make your moves. otherwise she will lose any attraction, get bored, and will move on to someone else who will be man enough to satisfy her sexual needs.

 

[GreeneyedBeast83]

Good points, Down Low. I'll have to say I disagree with you on not having had a relationship by now being "average" when I was hardly beaten with the uglystick. And you're right, I've spent far too much time on the computer. And perhaps you're right about the prospects of finding a decent woman but one thing about it, if a woman cheats on me it may be with a better looking man, but he more than likely would have a smaller Johnson. lol I do laugh a little out loud because I'm generally more amused than others by myself. Perhaps your right about the girl for all I know. And I can be a little facetious but don't feel like I'm that giddy or feminized. I think my dad showed me how to be a man...it's just that he's bigger, was in a war, and has a more outgoing personality, better looks, and has never had any of the awkwardness or depression that I have. I think it's pretty valid though when you say that my generation is more feminized and have to say I'm less manly than my dad. I think I'm a decent looking guy but I've always lacked total confidence and have been a little awkward, which is pretty incongruent. Another thing is that I was blessed with the "muscle" that counts but have always acted like I have a small pecker. It's a ****ing dilemma and I'm trying to get over it. One thing I can say is at least I'm not the jealous type. I may want to be as happy as others and it may suck that this girl is with someone else, but I wouldn't want to be anyone else because on some level I feel narcissistic and better than them....which is probably the attitude I should have outwardly all the time. Thanks for your input.

 

[rgeere]

first of all keep in mind that girls on dating websites have 100 more options then you have. she chose someone else who better fit her needs, or someone else who has better game. i've known a lot of girls that have done online dating and they all say the same thing. they all say they are tired of meeting *******s in bars who have sex with them and never call again. they want to meet a nice guy. they go to online dating and get 1000 emails from nice guys and go out on a bunch of dates but they dont go anywhere cause the guys are all beta and dont make their moves. the women are left unsatisfied, get pissed and delete their account.

online game realistically is no different than real world game. girls have hundreds of options and are only attracted to *******s and alpha males. you have to be aggressive and make your moves. otherwise she will lose any attraction, get bored, and will move on to someone else who will be man enough to satisfy her sexual needs.

Evilittletroll is right. And I know keep saying this over and over again, but dating websites like POF are mostly full of people who just want to have no strings attached sex. You can seriously just leave your profile blank, only ask women for their panty and bra sizes and when they ask what you look like post pictures of your erect member alone and you'll get positive responses from the majority of them.

Somewhere there was some thread posted here where people were doing experiments with POF by creating fake profiles. Complete waste of time but pretty much showed how people can be superficial asshats.

And yeah, women do go hiding and deleting their accounts because they get tired of whiny men who say a lot and don't do much.

I disagree that women are only attracted to *******s and alpha males, they are attracted to beta males too however they usually end up havng their more carnal needs with alphas, because of the failure of betas to take action. However, women don't stay with alpha males. Its actually men who have the skillsets from both alpha and beta males who succeed most with women.

 

[GreeneyedBeast83]

Yeah, I think you're both right on...I should've gone for the gusto and tried to **** her that night since I'm sure I wasn't the only one she was talking to. And she actually has been friends with the guy she's with for a long time and I know this because I've seen him pop up before on her statuses. My mind recently has been on finding that ever elusive relationship that I've never had. It's funny you say these things about POF but it's funny how much resistance I get even from those that aren't that attractive. I've found that most of them are real tight-asses because I usually communicate on a sexual level, not crudely direct but let it be known that I'm horny. I think POF and this girl have driven me back to being the aggressive horndog I was when I was about 23 or 24, a guy that has no intention of finding anything serious.

Maybe I should be even more direct and sexual on POF instead of just telling them they're stunning and trying to flirt. I took one of the guys' advice on here and sent a few messages, in which I said something funny and took an interest in their interests and it got me a response and they said it was funny....but then when I sent a reply introducing myself, it got no response. I'm beginning to think the site just sucks and nothing good has or will ever come of it. I'm not really sure to be super aggressive with all of them because there are so many that have this "I'm not looking for a hookup, I don't want sex" defensiveness and probably won't respond. OR to be completely un-sexual and just be funny and subtle, which I'm not good at. I'd like to be able to just ask for panty and bra sizes because I'm shifting my mindset back to just wanting to get laid since obviously the result of being a gentleman is being snubbed like a square with a microscopic ****.

 

[rgeere]

I know the resistance you are talking about and the way to get past it is that you have to challenge the girl to be warm to you.

The reason that the girls are resistant is because they do not know your social value. You have to give them stories that indirectly tell them you are a high value male who might just go right for the gusto.

Personally, I have successfully broken that resistance a number of times and have gotten cranky b1tches to warm up and to talk they way I have wanted to.

Here in a bit maybe I'll send you some actual messages I have sent to girls you can look at and see what it is that I do. Give me a couple of hours.

 

[rgeere]

Yeah I read through a bunch of stuff I had written to girls and comes to think of it I shouldn't post any of it. However, GreeneyedBeast83 if you want to talk over Facebook or something I'll share more information.

And I just realized how much of a d1ck I have sounded like to some of these women, especially the ones I banged. Funny, they ate it up.