I need examples of acting like a jerk.

[high desert dj]

I would like some examples of acting like a jerk around women. is it just being comepletely rude or what?I think i act differently around my friends than around women .By the way this is a great site i have learned a lot.

 

[THA REALNESS]

"jerk" is a term here .It doesn't literally mean "jerk" ,it's about doing whatever you feel like and it gets labeled as being a 'jerk".

 

[Monkey]

If you act a jerk, any self-respecting woman will either ignore you or kick your ass.

Its about being confident and a little ****y, certainly not rude.

Go and read the bible, again!

 

[On_the_Top]

Being a jerk will get you women, but it will get you women that have, mental problems, emtional problems, and or like abuse. Note you have to have allot of social proof to become a successful jerk. Anything else, you'll get your ass kicked, or ostricised.(sp?)

 

[CaptianMorgan]

maybe he wanted to know how to act like a jerk so he could purposly turn a women off and make her pissed because he doesnt like her....just maybe

 

[DJZ]

Yeah, if you act like a true jerk, they won't like you. We went out last night and decided we were going to be *******s for no reason. Just b/c a lot of the women in clubs go for no other reason than to have fun with their friends, and so they decide to be b*tches to any guy that hits on them. Don't get me wrong, I go to have fun with my friends, but up until last night, I was always there to pick up women. But last night was diff, we decided to be a**holes to the women, since they try to act like they are supermodels in the club.

So last night we had these 2 girls following us around. Later on we went to get some food, and whata-ya-know...the 2 girls show up right behind us. So we go in and are eating, they sit with us, and my friend is saying something...(can't remember what), and one of the girls comments on it and he replies "was I talking to you...?" Hahahaha, the other girl rolled her eyes and said "ohh my god, lets go" After that they left -- in a very bad mood I might add. That wasn't the only jerky thing he did...he was being an a** to them the whole night...

So basically if you don't want the poon, act like an arshole.

 

[Player_Supreme]

No acting like an ass*hole is just being an ass*hole. Here are the positive traights of being a jerk that women love:

The Jerk has:

1. his pleasure comes first
2. he will quickly dump a woman who gives him trouble
3. doesn’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. doesn’t let women or people disrespect him.
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about him and isn’t looking for approval.

It’s women who complain about a man being a jerk. And this is because he is un-tame-able.

 

[MVPlaya]

Re: Re: I need examples of acting like a jerk.

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
f*ck you.

HAHA!!!

 

[Jay_VCU]

Suck my ****, now!

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

Too many people on this site are stuck on DEFINITIONS and TERMS and everything else.

Go out, be yourself, improve yourself and learn.


If your really a nice guy and go out and pretend to act like a jerk, you my friend, are most likely going to get your azz beat by other guys at the bar or guys that know the girls you were a jerk too.

This loose term of JERK is sooo stupid.


Most guys who are AZZHOLES and JERKS, aren't just AZZHOLES and JERKS to women. They are AZZHOLES and jerks to their family, friends, co-workers and people in general.

Being a nice guy isn't bad, just dont let people walk over you.

Sticking up for yourself and standing up for yourself is also a good thing to do.


Being an AZZHOLE and a JERK at a bar with a bunch of drunk men and women usually gets you put in a crowded cell for a weekend.

ANd if your just pretending to be a JERK or an AZZHOLe to get puzzy, it'll get you beat up or just laughed at.

Live, learn, grow, but don't pretend to be somebody your not. It's not really worth it.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
No acting like an ass*hole is just being an ass*hole. Here are the positive traights of being a jerk that women love:

The Jerk has:

1. his pleasure comes first
2. he will quickly dump a woman who gives him trouble
3. doesn’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. doesn’t let women or people disrespect him.
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about him and isn’t looking for approval.

It’s women who complain about a man being a jerk. And this is because he is un-tame-able.

^^^^^^ Word to Big Bird.
That's exactly what i'm saying and that's not even being a 'jerk' when you look at it most guys first instinct is to do all of the above.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Being an AZZHOLE and a JERK at a bar with a bunch of drunk men and women usually gets you put in a crowded cell for a weekend.
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Yup. Even worse some women might provoke into doing something if they see your a Loose Cannon.

 

[b's nuts]

Youve got the wrong mindset. Spend some time reading the posts in the dj bible about the differnces between the jerk, the nice guy, and the dj. Once your in the right mindset, you don't want to be a jerk, you just don't take sh*t, don't let people use you or walk all over you. Its about having some balls between your legs. So lift up your skirt, reach for the middle, and tell me what you feel. You don't need to act like a jerk, you don't need to act like an azzhole, you need self respect.

 

[Imbrondir]

I think we are all exagurating the 'jerk's chick magnetism here. As already over-explained, they have some great traits, but I'm beginning to think they are over-rated.

But the real reason for the 'myth' is probobly that we so easilly notice them when they succeed. They brag loud about it. They are often high profile people. And offcourse we hate them for succeeding. We already hate them, so when we get jealus as well, it burns in our heads. So basicly, we just notice them easier. The smooth ass james bond player in the background, gets alot more ass then the jerk if they looked abit more in detail.

Still, jerks have some attractive traits (don't seek approval, don't give a ****, teasing). No reason not to learn from them, but no reason either to become like one.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

The problem i see on this site and in real life is, exactly as you stated, the JERK is always in the forefront, everybody notices him.

While they might fail often, most people only remember them succeeding because A-THEY usually become good BS artists or B-because they usually brag more then anybody else about minimal things.

So people who come to this site or just to a friend and try to get advice, think being a JERK is the way to go.

Here is the biggest myth.

"JERKS DONT GIVE A CRAP NOR DO THEY SEEK APPROVAL....."

Yeah right, most JERKS/AZZHOLES have the biggest insecurities. Yeah they act tough, might even be tough, but they are so LOUD and try to BRAG soo much, not because they don't give a crap, but because they Need people to NOTICE THEM. They need people to notice how rude or arrogant or how much of a jerk they are.

While many do get women, many also get women that look great at first, but after finding out about them, they are PSYCHO chics.

I've had a few friends who were the typical AZZHOLE/JERKS. Yes they hooked up a lot, but they also dated some of the most psycho chics i've ever met. But every single one I've known, they needed more approval and reassurance then anybody else, they just were good at making it look like they didnt.

Dont think the JERK GRASS is greener then where your at, because it's not.

 

[high desert dj]

Thanks guys all this stuff helps.

 

[THA REALNESS]

I'm saying though,do you still need examples?

 

[Hemingway]

Too many phone numbers, too little time.

Lately I have abandoned my AFC ways so much that I have gone to the other extreme. I have been acting like a jerk.

I work long hours, but I do get out and have had no problem getting phone numbers. I can't really plan weeknight dates in advance, so I honestly don't have time to see all these women. I actually care so little about these women that I throw obstacles in their way.

• I call at 9pm for a date. That very night.
  
• I wear a tee-shirt on a date.
  
• The other night a girl in my car asked me to change the music ("this is a little too headbanger for me") and instead I scowled, turned it up and told her to keep her hands off the CD-changer.
  
• Instead of entertaining her with my ****y-Funny, I behave bored and uninterested.
  
• I cut a date short after just a half-hour.
  
• I wouldn't dream of buying a flower or card.
  
• If I have her phone number, I completely ignore her e-mails.
  
• When she calls me back (from her caller-ID) I tell her I don't know who she is, and most times I really don't remember which one she is.
  
• I have numbers for two "Patti"s and two "Karen"s, and I can't remember which one is which.
  
• I look for reasons to delete her phone number. I've gotten so many phone numbers that I've started deleting the numbers of women who live more than five miles away from me. I ran out of room on my cell phone, so I started deleting numbers that are more than a month old who I never got around to calling.
  
• My attitude has become so anti-AFC that I now don't respect a woman who is too willing, ready, and able. I don't like a woman who is is oneitis over me. Now if she calls and wants to drop a food dish off at my apartment, I tell her I already ate.

The AFC cure is to not care about her. At all.

I've heard it said that "it will get worse before it gets better."

Perhaps this is the swing of the pendulum to get the AFC out of me once and for all.

I don't feel bad about this behavior, but I am wondering if I am off track.

 

[EL CABBO]

let me tell you jerk what is jerk and how to be a jerk;
put a sticker on your @ss and print on it the word "jerk"
there you go man coz there ain't no other way you can become a jerk

 

[flashdance]

Re: Too many phone numbers, too little time.

Hemingway,

This is interesting. What I dont understand is... how do you get all these numbers in the first place if you never act interested and dont care? Obviously you have to show some interest up front to get a number. Also, are you really 48? Are these all old (35-50) women your talking about?

Originally posted by Hemingway
Lately I have abandoned my AFC ways so much that I have gone to the other extreme. I have been acting like a jerk.

I work long hours, but I do get out and have had no problem getting phone numbers. I can't really plan weeknight dates in advance, so I honestly don't have time to see all these women. I actually care so little about these women that I throw obstacles in their way.

• I call at 9pm for a date. That very night.
  
• I wear a tee-shirt on a date.
  
• The other night a girl in my car asked me to change the music ("this is a little too headbanger for me") and instead I scowled, turned it up and told her to keep her hands off the CD-changer.
  
• Instead of entertaining her with my ****y-Funny, I behave bored and uninterested.
  
• I cut a date short after just a half-hour.
  
• I wouldn't dream of buying a flower or card.
  
• If I have her phone number, I completely ignore her e-mails.
  
• When she calls me back (from her caller-ID) I tell her I don't know who she is, and most times I really don't remember which one she is.
  
• I have numbers for two "Patti"s and two "Karen"s, and I can't remember which one is which.
  
• I look for reasons to delete her phone number. I've gotten so many phone numbers that I've started deleting the numbers of women who live more than five miles away from me. I ran out of room on my cell phone, so I started deleting numbers that are more than a month old who I never got around to calling.
  
• My attitude has become so anti-AFC that I now don't respect a woman who is too willing, ready, and able. I don't like a woman who is is oneitis over me. Now if she calls and wants to drop a food dish off at my apartment, I tell her I already ate.

The AFC cure is to not care about her. At all.

I've heard it said that "it will get worse before it gets better."

Perhaps this is the swing of the pendulum to get the AFC out of me once and for all.

I don't feel bad about this behavior, but I am wondering if I am off track.