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Hey guys,
Long time reader of this forum. First time posting. I met a girl about a year ago. Id rate her a 8 out of 10. She has 3 kids though from 3 different guys. Anyways I always told myself id never date a girl with 3 kids. I went against my own advice. So weve been seeing each other for the past year. Anyways I show up at her place the other night and about 30 seconds after I get there another guy shows up and he asks me who I am. I tell him my name and the guy is acting like hes her girlfriend. She comes outta the door and hes like skip this then he goes to his car in the street. At that point me and her are standing in her lawn and he drives his car up to me and says ITS ON. I had pepper spray in my pocket so I sprayed the guy. The guy was freaking out. After I sprayed him he said hes gonna get his baseball bat. At that point my girl told me to get in my car and leave. So I left. The next night comes along and I drive by and his car is in her driveway. My question is should I leave this girl alone or should I go back to her house and take care of this guy. I almost feel like he took my girl and I should of fought him and stayed with her instead of leaving her that night. Thanks
 

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bra id pull up along da crib wit my homies and light dat ***** up. kids too. dem niggas will kno ur real after. shawty be all like wut!!
 

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tic tac ur not even one of the best don juans, stop hogging the thread
 

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Should I just sit at home and do nothing about this or should I take some action? What would you guys do if a guy showed up at your girlfriends house and was acting like she was his girlfriend?
 

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crosshook said:
Should I just sit at home and do nothing about this or should I take some action? What would you guys do if a guy showed up at your girlfriends house and was acting like she was his girlfriend?
I'd run away crying...
 

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she told me not to call the cops that night cause she has a warrant out for her arrest. She is by no means a good girl. I typically date bad chicks. She smokes weed every single day. shes a solid 8 nympho
 

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crosshook said:
Should I just sit at home and do nothing about this or should I take some action? What would you guys do if a guy showed up at your girlfriends house and was acting like she was his girlfriend?
Your woman is at least 50% at fault. If she was 100% dedicated to you, this guy wouldn't even know where she lives, nor would he come over to her place.

Kick the bytch to the curb.

As a side note, you cannot treat a woman like property in today's society. Today's women don't behave like they want to be property, so you shouldn't treat them as such. Fighting another man for a woman isn't worth it if she's not 100% devoted to cleaning and cooking for you. There are way too many other useless bytches out there with multiple children from multiple dads. Go pick another one to fvck for a while if that's what you're into.
 

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crosshook said:
Should I just sit at home and do nothing about this or should I take some action? What would you guys do if a guy showed up at your girlfriends house and was acting like she was his girlfriend?
__________

That's what the other guy thinks too.

If you didn't know this, your 'princess' is f*cking other guys.
 

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Desdinova---He showed up at her house that night cause he put his name on her electric bill so he has her address now. She told me shes done with him. He showed up unexpectedly. Anyways she is getting to the point now where she wants me to move in with her and her kids. I have my own nice apartment right now. Im 35 years old. On one hand I dont wanna live alone but on the other I dont wanna deal with her kids. I dont know what to do
 

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tictac---I agree 100% percent. This guy seemed just as confused as I am.
 

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Mauser--She was married twice. One father committed suicide and the other 2 fathers take her kids 50% of the time
 

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Shes 33. I found out the other guy was the guy she was seeing before me and her met a year ago. So basically hes her ex boyfriend and shes known him for 6 years. From the rumors ive heard she has been seeing him on the side. Hes much older then her so im pretty sure shes using him for money. Example--he has her electric bill in her name and he pays her cell phone bill
 

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Oh my god.... When I read this, I can't help but feel good about myself and the drama I have with bytches. LOL, there's always someone who has it worse :D

The ex who commited suicide just did it for me, I can't stop laughing out loud here in front of my screen!!

Dude, you need to GET THE FVCK AWAY FROM HER!!! Jesus Christ, this girl is such incredible garbage and you are thinking about moving in with her?!?!

Read some more SoSuave, learn about self improvement, self respect and growing into the best man you can be. You are doing yourself SUCH a disservice by staying with a girl like this.
You deserve better, man. Look at yourself in the mirror everyday and say that out loud: "I deserve better than this!" And believe it, truly believe it!
Your nasty past, fvcked up childhood, all the trouble and all the sh!t in your life that has held you back and prevented you from reaching your true potential..... FVCK ALL THAT, don't let it hold you back!

Don't be that sucker who tells himself: "I typically date bad chicks. It's just my fate and I've accepted that." You have the power to change your fate, don't hold the believe that life, the world and all the circumstances around you determine what happens in your life... Instead, believe that YOU determine your life, YOU determine the world around you and YOU determine what happens in your life.

Turn it around, stop dating this worthless piece of GARBAGE, make something out of yourself and your life, and find a girl who is truly worth something!
 

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Ok so should i just leave her be and not confront this guy? Just basically let him steal my girl from me???? Also if i do decide to leave her then what should my next steps be. I feel like my options are either live alone or move in with her and be stuck with her kids and drama. I dont see a good outcome on either one I choose. Coming home to an empty apartment isnt exactly the best feeling
 

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fukk you mauser. your so old you probably cant even get your dikk up anymore. you sound like a fagboy that hates on women. the last time u saw pusssy is when you were born.
 
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