i need advice: first date ever in 3 hours

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im actually going on my very first date.

it may be inappropriate for me to type in this "problem" that does'nt seem to be one.

but listen up please, i need advice, i dont know... i just have a feeling i'll mess this up, i dont know why...

i need to know everything about first dates or dating for that matter.

what is good to talk about, what not to talk about, what to do, and what not to do?

should i be holding hands with her already on the first date? i'm clueless!

i've read the dj bible, and i know much of the principles, but i dont know if i can actually apply it in real time.

if u are reading this, please reply with any help u can! i am going to get ready for my date, and i need u to help me NOW please!

 

[rgeere]

Stop thinking for one....

These things should be coming naturally to you by now. Stop worrying..

 

[CLOONEY]

Relax, like Bob Marley smokin a joint!

 

[true|hockey]

whoever you were when you asked this girl out, be that same person. That is who she'll ultimatly want to go out with, and have a good time with.

 

[bob2007]

You asked her out and she said yes, so you already won like most of the battle.

You know she's interested. Just stay calm and have a good time.

 

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Originally posted by bob2007
You asked her out and she said yes, so you already won like most of the battle.

You know she's interested. Just stay calm and have a good time.

im sorry this may come off as a stupid q yet again, but what if she thinks im boring??

alot of girls tend to like me bcause of my looks and money but after they get to know me... they lose all signs of interest.

 

[Don Pablo]

Just let things slide into place and go with your DJ instincts.
Go get'm tiger!

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

I heard this in a hindi movie "Jo dar gaya woh mar gaya" which means 'he who is afraid is as good as dead' its applicable to you

Anyway just lead & be fun to be with. Simple

btw add me if you got MSN enemy_fleet_smashed@hotmail.com
...we're both 20 & RAFC, im just a bit ahead of you tho

 

[BRYCEicl]

Your very first date, aaaaw it's so precious, NOT.

Congrats on getting your first date. I C you are feeling a bit nervous but what I want you to do is go and mess this one up. Let this be your little experiement. Oh believe me there will be plenty more dates for you, the only way to learn is to dive right in and make mistakes my friend. IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO EFFECTIVELY BECOME THE MAN YOU"VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE.

Walking on eggshells, and worrying about how not to mess this precious, one of a kind date up will get you one tenth of the way compared to going in there, trying new things, messing up and then catching the next date. Take my advice, say invite what you fear.

 

[MackJr]

If it's your first date, just focus on having a good time. You don't need to lay her or get into advanced C&F or whatnot. The first date should just be an experience for its own sake.

 

[OddTech]

update?

well, how did it go? Did you learn anything interesting?

 

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Re: update?

Originally posted by OddTech
well, how did it go? Did you learn anything interesting?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56815