Somethings wrong with me, im in HS, and i feel like ****. I see my ex, and wish i had a gf. Tons of ****ty ass memories. I get depressed about not having someone, and thinking about who i lost. Its been awhile, and i still am not over this ****. Im sick of being in this rut, but nothing seems to help.
I need a slap in the face
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Don Juan
imagine a football team after losing a football game.
" dam we feel so bad, i mena look at the other team they are happy and winning, im losing and depressed, and sad, im thinking about the game i lost, i feel like im not going to play the rest of the season cause i lost this one game that i had in the bag if it wasnt for my dum mistakes i made on the 45 yrd line, instead of recuperating and going over what i did wrongin the game and practice so that i dont make that mistake that cost me the game again, im just gonna sit in the locker room and cry about it, tell my homies about it"
Now hopefully u get the message in there.
don't think that you can live your life and not EVER get depressed. Everyone gets depressed. you just have to accept that. Just make sure you get lots of sleep. It will pass. time will heal it. you are just going through a phase. it will be gone in a few days.
Working out helps alot. do something new. Join a martial arts club or something. Get your frustrations out!
Working out helps alot. do something new. Join a martial arts club or something. Get your frustrations out!
shrewd
Don Juan
LOL once i tried to score a try from the 22 yrd line, i thought it was the goal line!
Seriously though stop *****ing about HS, i didn't even talk to a girl for the first 4 years, (well they didn't talk to me is more like it) and i've NEVER had a steady GF but hopefully that's about to change.
find a new girl, if you can.
Seriously though stop *****ing about HS, i didn't even talk to a girl for the first 4 years, (well they didn't talk to me is more like it) and i've NEVER had a steady GF but hopefully that's about to change.
find a new girl, if you can.
Delta
Master Don Juan
hey kid,
yah it hurts and i'm sorry.
but think about why you're depressed. is it because you feel like she's soooooo fantastic or that you feel like you can't get another one.
even if she was PERFECT, believe me, there's better. and remember before you met her, could you imagine feeling what you did for her?
or if you had past girls, didn't you always feel like they were the ones too? until the next one came around?
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mourn if you must but also don't let it get you too down. a bit o depression can become REALLY bad and worse later if you INDULGE it and wallow in it more than you absolutely have to.
take my word for it, simple depression transmogrifies to anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorders sooner or later and SSRIs are quite expensive.
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revel in your youth. one day, you'll wake up and be 30 and you don't want the preceding years to be nothing but self loathing and depression.
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if you feel so bad because you feel like you can't turn it on and get other and better chicks, keep reading this site and check out the dj bible.
where there's life, there is hope and where there's youth, there's beauty. you have a lot of time still to make yourself such that girls would break down doors to get to you.
try to make yourself like this and also realize that many many many many men are spectacular failures with girls in high school so you don't even have much pressure.
you've got nothing to lose and the opportunity to surprise others and yourself.
when you're able, splash some cold water on your face, take a deep breath and enjoy life as you can now and keep at the woman hunting.
good luck
delta
yah it hurts and i'm sorry.
but think about why you're depressed. is it because you feel like she's soooooo fantastic or that you feel like you can't get another one.
even if she was PERFECT, believe me, there's better. and remember before you met her, could you imagine feeling what you did for her?
or if you had past girls, didn't you always feel like they were the ones too? until the next one came around?
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mourn if you must but also don't let it get you too down. a bit o depression can become REALLY bad and worse later if you INDULGE it and wallow in it more than you absolutely have to.
take my word for it, simple depression transmogrifies to anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorders sooner or later and SSRIs are quite expensive.
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revel in your youth. one day, you'll wake up and be 30 and you don't want the preceding years to be nothing but self loathing and depression.
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if you feel so bad because you feel like you can't turn it on and get other and better chicks, keep reading this site and check out the dj bible.
where there's life, there is hope and where there's youth, there's beauty. you have a lot of time still to make yourself such that girls would break down doors to get to you.
try to make yourself like this and also realize that many many many many men are spectacular failures with girls in high school so you don't even have much pressure.
you've got nothing to lose and the opportunity to surprise others and yourself.
when you're able, splash some cold water on your face, take a deep breath and enjoy life as you can now and keep at the woman hunting.
good luck
delta
listen my man,, you gotta get a new girl. nothing in this world will get you out of that depression until you get another girl. your situation is called ONEities. once you get another one youll be alright. keep reading in this site and learn some more. once you feel ready put your courage on the line and go for it.
if all the girls in your school know you as an AFC it will be very hard to get a hot one there. it doesn't hurt to try to get chicks in other places such as from other schools, in movie theaters, and so on.
keep reading and keep learning=that is the way to enlightment.
your just fine bro, I wish I knew as much as do when I was your age. I am 27.
there was no sosuave or anything even close to this site to help me out when I was your age. youll get over it.
everyone gets depressed sometimes. even psychology doctors do.
if all the girls in your school know you as an AFC it will be very hard to get a hot one there. it doesn't hurt to try to get chicks in other places such as from other schools, in movie theaters, and so on.
keep reading and keep learning=that is the way to enlightment.
your just fine bro, I wish I knew as much as do when I was your age. I am 27.
there was no sosuave or anything even close to this site to help me out when I was your age. youll get over it.
everyone gets depressed sometimes. even psychology doctors do.
You are not man enough,
from what I gather, in her eyes, you are not man enough for her tastes. The one she is with right now was willing to fight you over her, which is something that she wants in a man. By not standing your ground, you just blew your chance to get back with her again, if that is what you want. If you really want to get back with her again, you should call her up and you should chat with her at school, etc. and DO NOT BE AFRAID IF HER CURRENT BF TRIES TO GET PHYSICAL WITH YOU. STAND YOUR GROUND AND IF HE GETS PHYSICAL ABOUT IT, DO NOT BACK DOWN. OTHERWISE SHE WILL LEAVE YOU AGAIN.
Or you can forget about her and find someone else.
ChunLi
from what I gather, in her eyes, you are not man enough for her tastes. The one she is with right now was willing to fight you over her, which is something that she wants in a man. By not standing your ground, you just blew your chance to get back with her again, if that is what you want. If you really want to get back with her again, you should call her up and you should chat with her at school, etc. and DO NOT BE AFRAID IF HER CURRENT BF TRIES TO GET PHYSICAL WITH YOU. STAND YOUR GROUND AND IF HE GETS PHYSICAL ABOUT IT, DO NOT BACK DOWN. OTHERWISE SHE WILL LEAVE YOU AGAIN.
Or you can forget about her and find someone else.
ChunLi
chun li,,,YOU ARE WRONG.... why get physical because of a girl who already decided who/what she wanted for herself.
she is not worth one sweat from him and that is the reason why he doesn't need to fight for her.
the best way to solve this is by learning and be ready for the next challenge because it will be even more exciting.
are you going to fight for someone who doesnt belong to you?
remember, slavery is over in the US and she does not belong to him. he has to let her go and get someone new.
the following situation occured to a friend of mine. he was very possesive and believed that his girlfriend belonged to him for life.
once he found her talking to a guy and he was outraged about it. he killed the guy by hitting him with a brick in the head.
he killed him for her..
its being 5 years since that happened and he was sentenced to 20 years in prison. the sad thing is that since he's being in prison she has had 4 boyfriends and counting while he is probably having sex with a homo in jail.
my question is,,,,, how many women he would have had a relationship if he would have never gone to jail during next 20 years? 20? 40? 50 200 or 500?
in this situation it may be that he is sacrificing 300 women for 1.
this case happens everyday to a new stupid man who thinks that a his chick belongs to him.
women dont belong to anybody, only their CURRENT boyfriend
forget= dont worry, be happy.
she is not worth one sweat from him and that is the reason why he doesn't need to fight for her.
the best way to solve this is by learning and be ready for the next challenge because it will be even more exciting.
are you going to fight for someone who doesnt belong to you?
remember, slavery is over in the US and she does not belong to him. he has to let her go and get someone new.
the following situation occured to a friend of mine. he was very possesive and believed that his girlfriend belonged to him for life.
once he found her talking to a guy and he was outraged about it. he killed the guy by hitting him with a brick in the head.
he killed him for her..
its being 5 years since that happened and he was sentenced to 20 years in prison. the sad thing is that since he's being in prison she has had 4 boyfriends and counting while he is probably having sex with a homo in jail.
my question is,,,,, how many women he would have had a relationship if he would have never gone to jail during next 20 years? 20? 40? 50 200 or 500?
in this situation it may be that he is sacrificing 300 women for 1.
this case happens everyday to a new stupid man who thinks that a his chick belongs to him.
women dont belong to anybody, only their CURRENT boyfriend
forget= dont worry, be happy.
BigWillyStyle
Banned
Nonsense. Women, or men for that matter, don't belong to anyone. They're are not property.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
"Time is a healer
and all hearts that break
are put back together again
'cause love heals the wounds it makes"
Eva Cassidy
I think shes trying to say move on and find someone else m8...worked for me loads of times.
and all hearts that break
are put back together again
'cause love heals the wounds it makes"
Eva Cassidy
I think shes trying to say move on and find someone else m8...worked for me loads of times.
squirrels
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Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Let me give you a piece of advice - you are a teenager in high school - very few of the relationships that you have now will be the relationships that you will have over the next 10 to 20 years.
Your job now, soldier, is to go out and get as much ***** as you want, not sit there and mope over someone that you would never end up with in any capacity.
You're young, take advantage of it - get laid by as many chicks as you want. Because believe me, all those young high school girls are doing the same.
Forget relationship bullsh*t - trust me on that one - once your in one, you will long to get out.
You're going through teenaged angst. Get your butt out there and get some chicks. At your age especially it's very important you don't get all wrapped up in a oneitus - because this is the bloody result - you become a basket case.
I would tell you to stand up and be a man, but you are not one - not yet - you're still a puppy, take this as the learning experience it is - you will turn around in the blink of an eye and be in your thirties and you will look back and wonder why you wasted all of the prime of your life on being depressed. No one likes being around a depression case.
Start workin out, short of that, if you have a depression problem, then for the love of christ - get help! Talk to someone.
Where's your father, can't you talk to him?
I didn't say kill the other guy. I'm saying that he should stand up for himself if someone challenges him. Standing up for yourself doesn't always mean that you should put up your dukes and slug it out with him. There are mature alternatives, such as reporting the incident to a teacher or a police officer, etc. There is no shame in reporting these incidents to the proper authorities. THIS is standing up for himself. Your friend commited homicide.
ChunLi
