Alright guys I need serious help, I'm 28 and divorced twice yet I'm sleeping with my exes one of whom is married and the other we got divorced because she slept with my brother! So why am I doing this... I'm currently sleep with 3 other girls at the moment besides them so I know its not for the sex. I don't want either of them and really hate them both so I was thinking it was a out revenge because I'm constantly pushing to see what I can get out of them but I'll blow other girls off if one of my exes wants to hangout...
I must be crazy!
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You are a slave to the poon. Next thing you'll be posting about how you knocked up your ex. Then we'll see who gets the revenge.
Alright maybe a little back story will help, my first wife I got with when I was 15 and married at 20 divorced at 21 and I was a total beta and after that I decided I'd never let a girl control my life again, So I went the extreme opposite and enjoyed being young and sleeping with every girl I could, well two years later I meet wife #2 and I'm 23 at this time and she's 19 well we date for 6 month and then get married, completely ignoring all the red flags and alarms going off, no dad, moms a junky, grew up bouncing from home to home even her aunt told me she has serious issues two hours after I married her! So we were married 3 years before things got crazy and I found out she was sleeping with my brother! So the night I find out about it we get in a big fight and I leave and stay at my buddies a few days figuring out what to do, she moved 2000 miles to be with me so she doesn't have any family here and at the time our daughter was 6 months old so I couldn't just kick her out and I had just built our new home and we had been in it 4 months so no way was I gonna keep sleeping on my buddies couch!! So I contact my first ex wife (she's a lawyer) and I tell her what's going on and she helps with all the legal paper work because wife #2 was trying to take the house, so finally she dropped it and she moved out and got an apartment and we settled everything out of court. So I'm talking to wife#1 a lot thru all this and she starts telling me how she's not happy in her new marriage and she wants out so we start sleeping together and that last about 6 month before my brain kicks in and I get out! So life is good for about a year and a half, meeting new girls but mainly just focusing on me and my daughter, then wife #2 being the manipulatur that she is started worming her way back in to the point where we are going on vacations together and see each other daily but I hate her with every ounce of my being!! Then wife #1 calls and says she's having a party and that I should come, so I go and her husband had to work so end up staying the night and we've been sleeping together 2 or 3 times a week since for the last two month
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You have proven you are easy for women to manipulate and control. Once women know this about you.. they show no mercy. Even when you KNOW they are doing it.. you can't help yourself. Intense attraction gets the best of you.
You just need to learn to END relationships once they fail. If you know these women are trouble there is no reason to keep going back to them.
Hopefully you learned your lesson --> DON'T get married!
Why any man wants to be tied down to one woman in the prime of his life is truly mind boggling. Many men foolishly believe in "soul mates" and spend their lives looking for her instead of chasing their own dreams and trying to accomplish something meaningful in life. A woman is meant to be a supportive side-kick in a man's life.. NOT someone he needs to rearrange his entire life for.
Marriage is one of those things that had its time (like the Dinosaurs) and now that time is UP. But men are often the slowest to adapt to changes in the social environment. They cling to the past and keep doing the same dumb sh!t that stopped working a long time ago. Like that old guy at the office who refuses to learn how to use a computer.
Understand the world has changed and stop thinking you can do what your daddy did and get the same result. Take some time to focus on yourself and emotionally detach yourself from these toxic women for good. Strengthen your inner core, then start spinning plates.
You just need to learn to END relationships once they fail. If you know these women are trouble there is no reason to keep going back to them.
Hopefully you learned your lesson --> DON'T get married!
Why any man wants to be tied down to one woman in the prime of his life is truly mind boggling. Many men foolishly believe in "soul mates" and spend their lives looking for her instead of chasing their own dreams and trying to accomplish something meaningful in life. A woman is meant to be a supportive side-kick in a man's life.. NOT someone he needs to rearrange his entire life for.
Marriage is one of those things that had its time (like the Dinosaurs) and now that time is UP. But men are often the slowest to adapt to changes in the social environment. They cling to the past and keep doing the same dumb sh!t that stopped working a long time ago. Like that old guy at the office who refuses to learn how to use a computer.
Understand the world has changed and stop thinking you can do what your daddy did and get the same result. Take some time to focus on yourself and emotionally detach yourself from these toxic women for good. Strengthen your inner core, then start spinning plates.