I met that 39 year old nurse today at work. Interesting how we met. Didn't look the same though(OLD)

[biggoal]

So I met that nurse who lives almost 60 miles from me today but not really a date though. So she decided to go to the fleamarket today and texted me this morning. She was coming with her friend to shop. Anyway I had her phone case so I said I'd meet her at the food court and give her the case. It's a big market and long walk to the back and she was in the very front.

Anyway, We meet up at the food court since they were eating. Anyway it was with one of her older guy friends! She's 39 and he looked about 52 or so. Overweight, beer gut and slightly balding head. Nice guy, but kinda a slob eating with his mouth open while talking and all. I'm thinking this is her FWB. I knew who he was because she mentioned him before. Anyway I was working and the meeting was only about 10 mins while I put the phone case on her phone. It just seemed a but awkward though because he was there so I couldn't really talk like you normally would. I did offer the phone case for free since it only cost me 4 bucks but she insist she pay me anyway and gave me $10. Normally I'd sell it or $15.

I said she was decent looking, HB7 from OLD and pics she texted me BUT in person she was a very low end 6!!! I mean cute and barely cute enough I'd still blow her but not quite the same as in her pics. Her pics were a bit blurred and off centered. Still cute but just not that hot. Also about 3 inches shorter than listed but that part isn't a big deal since we all lie about height a couple inches.

What is it with OLD and many of these women don't look the same as on their profile!! She also looked a bit older than 39 too. She is 39 cause I looked her up. For LTR I don't think she'd age well. She seemed nice otherwise but would have rather met alone in a more traditional way without her greaseball guy friend with her.

So tell me, why is she hanging out with this older greaseball for at her age? Do you think she's betabuxxing off of him? Balding, fat,and overall looked like a slob and wore a shirt too tight. So do I need to put on 50lbs and look like that and go after women 15 years younger than me?

What would you do in this situation next time if she has her guy friend with her a girl from OLD brings along an old fart friend like that?

The 50 year old sent me a few pics from bike riding today and man she looks way hotter than this 39 year old. I'd totally would tear her.

Is this to be expected with OLD when you meet up they look older than the pics?

 

[Julian]

I almost read this entire thread.

 

[RickTheToad]

So I met that nurse who lives almost 60 miles from me today but not really a date though. So she decided to go to the fleamarket today and texted me this morning. She was coming with her friend to shop. Anyway I had her phone case so I said I'd meet her at the food court and give her the case. It's a big market and long walk to the back and she was in the very front.

Anyway, We meet up at the food court since they were eating. Anyway it was with one of her older guy friends! She's 39 and he looked about 52 or so. Overweight, beer gut and slightly balding head. Nice guy, but kinda a slob eating with his mouth open while talking and all. I'm thinking this is her FWB. I knew who he was because she mentioned him before. Anyway I was working and the meeting was only about 10 mins while I put the phone case on her phone. It just seemed a but awkward though because he was there so I couldn't really talk like you normally would. I did offer the phone case for free since it only cost me 4 bucks but she insist she pay me anyway and gave me $10. Normally I'd sell it or $15.

I said she was decent looking, HB7 from OLD and pics she texted me BUT in person she was a very low end 6!!! I mean cute and barely cute enough I'd still blow her but not quite the same as in her pics. Her pics were a bit blurred and off centered. Still cute but just not that hot. Also about 3 inches shorter than listed but that part isn't a big deal since we all lie about height a couple inches.

What is it with OLD and many of these women don't look the same as on their profile!! She also looked a bit older than 39 too. She is 39 cause I looked her up. For LTR I don't think she'd age well. She seemed nice otherwise but would have rather met alone in a more traditional way without her greaseball guy friend with her.

So tell me, why is she hanging out with this older greaseball for at her age? Do you think she's betabuxxing off of him? Balding, fat,and overall looked like a slob and wore a shirt too tight. So do I need to put on 50lbs and look like that and go after women 15 years younger than me?

What would you do in this situation next time if she has her guy friend with her a girl from OLD brings along an old fart friend like that?

The 50 year old sent me a few pics from bike riding today and man she looks way hotter than this 39 year old. I'd totally would tear her.

Is this to be expected with OLD when you meet up they look older than the pics?

I get a kick how you judge another dude and a lady, yet you've not been inside a lady in over a year.. Classic.

 

[biggoal]

I get a kick how you judge another dude and a lady, yet you've not been inside a lady in over a year.. Classic.

But this guy was out of shape ate mouth open and a lot older than her. That 49 year old teacher texted me some bike riding picks from her ride today. Solid HB9. So gonna plow that hopefully.

 

[RickTheToad]

But this guy was out of shape ate mouth open and a lot older than her. That 49 year old teacher texted me some bike riding picks from her ride today. Solid HB9. So gonna plow that hopefully.

Dude, I (and most other dudes here) would take a chubby 39 chick over a 49 year old chick any day of the week. You need to get your head examined. 36 y.o. dude dating a 50 y.o. grandma. Jesus. NO chick, 48, 49, 50+ is an HB 8 or 9. NONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[biggoal]

Dude, I (and most other dudes here) would take a chubby 39 chick over a 49 year old chick any day of the week. You need to get your head examined. 36 y.o. dude dating a 50 y.o. grandma. Jesus. NO chick, 48, 49, 50+ is an HB 8 or 9. NONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There it is again with that land whale thing some posters have a thing for. She has a hot 21 and 19 year old daughter as well.

 

[RickTheToad]

There it is again with that land whale thing some posters have a thing for. She has a hot 21 and 19 year old daughter as well.

Yep, that's it.. Says the dude who chases grannies.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

what has this place become

 

[corrector]

So do I need to put on 50lbs and look like that and go after women 15 years younger than me?

No, 30 lbs should be enough.

What would you do in this situation next time if she has her guy friend with her a girl from OLD brings along an old fart friend like that?

Check my smartphone youtube app to see if any new videos have been posted.

The 50 year old sent me a few pics from bike riding today and man she looks way hotter than this 39 year old. I'd totally would tear her.

Ok

Is this to be expected with OLD when you meet up they look older than the pics?

Yes, but men are so desperate that they don't care.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lol...a low end 6 but you are bending over backwards for her by going to meet her, trying to nice guy your way into her pants by giving her a case for free and then wondering why she is with some dude who probably doesn't give a fvck.

 

[biggoal]

Lol...a low end 6 but you are bending over backwards for her by going to meet her, trying to nice guy your way into her pants by giving her a case for free and then wondering why she is with some dude who probably doesn't give a fvck.

She looked like a 7 in her pics online though. Still cute though but just not like what she looks like online. that 50 yr old looks way hot.

 

[thinker]

@biggoal I didn't think it would come to this but desperate times call for desperate measures. I think you should establish a relationship with a local escort of your choosing. Your recent posts seem to suggest that your strategy is now to beta buxx your way into vag. If you are going to do that escorts are better because at least you are guaranteed to get laid. If you want to keep working on yourself while you do this go ahead , but you should start actually using some of the advice on this forum. Last thing is I don't think that you lift, if you don't then you need to start lifting,

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She looked like a 7 in her pics online though. Still cute though but just not like what she looks like online. that 50 yr old looks way hot.

I don't care if she was an 11. Stop doing weak ass sh!t. It won't give you the results you want.

 

[RickTheToad]

Biggoal's lady...

 

[biggoal]

@biggoal I didn't think it would come to this but desperate times call for desperate measures. I think you should establish a relationship with a local escort of your choosing. Your recent posts seem to suggest that your strategy is now to beta buxx your way into vag. If you are going to do that escorts are better because at least you are guaranteed to get laid. If you want to keep working on yourself while you do this go ahead , but you should start actually using some of the advice on this forum. Last thing is I don't think that you lift, if you don't then you need to start lifting,

What about that Ashley Madison site? Seems to be higher quality from what posters on here said who use it.

 

[biggoal]

Oh and posters on here bash me about the clothes I wear because I tend to dress more like a college kid than someone in their mid 30s and saying how on a date a woman my age would think that's a joke. I mean like I wear American Eagle, Calvin Klein, Hilfiger, Ralph Lauren, Abrocombie, etc. Posters suggest on first meetings for example a basic pair of jeans and a tshirt.

Why do women in their later 30s think that's a joke? Like wearing a 80 dollar MSRP shirt for example. Like when I met this chick today I was wearing Hilfiger Jeans and a Ralph Lauren Polo Sport shirt with the big logo on it. She was dressed pretty modest in a basic top, something you'd find at Target.

 

[RickTheToad]

Oh and posters on here bash me about the clothes I wear because I tend to dress more like a college kid than someone in their mid 30s and saying how on a date a woman my age would think that's a joke. I mean like I wear American Eagle, Calvin Klein, Hilfiger, Ralph Lauren, Abrocombie, etc. Posters suggest on first meetings for example a basic pair of jeans and a tshirt.

Why do women in their later 30s think that's a joke? Like wearing a 80 dollar MSRP shirt for example. Like when I met this chick today I was wearing Hilfiger Jeans and a Ralph Lauren Polo Sport shirt with the big logo on it. She was dressed pretty modest in a basic top, something you'd find at Target.

You need to dress like an adult, not a college dude. Don't you understand? These grannies you are chasing are going after a good time, but you are going after a relationship with the Geritol crew. Heck one of the grannies already told you this, but you still do not listen. It's comical you continue to do the same thing over and over again, but expect different results.

P.S. - I didn't even know Abercrombie & Fitch was still in business.

 

[biggoal]

You need to dress like an adult, not a college dude. Don't you understand? These grannies you are chasing are going after a good time, but you are going after a relationship with the Geritol crew. Heck one of the grannies already told you this, but you still do not listen. It's comical you continue to do the same thing over and over again, but expect different results.

P.S. - I didn't even know Abercrombie & Fitch was still in business.

There was one HB7 grannie who was 43! On facebook dating. She had a baby when she was 16 and another at 18 with the same guy and her kids married really young too and have kids now. Grandma at 43.

Again, when you mean dress like an adult you mean just more modest clothing, not bank busting clothing with big brand logos plastered all over it? Btw I go to their stores. Like I'll go to the Ralph Lauren or Hilfiger stores and they sell the stuff for 50 percent cheaper than what Macy's sells the same shirt for. If they have them on sale and a coupon promo on top of it you can get it dirt cheap. I bought a shirt that goes for about $80 at Macy's for $28 bucks at the Polo Store because it was on sale and I had a coupon. Here in FL they have a lot of those PRemium outlet malls with those stores. Tourist go there and buy tons of stuff because up north they don't have as many outlet malls.

Oh, and what about the watches? I suggested possibly buying a Brietling watch that go for $2500 to $3000 or even a used Rolex to look like big money too. What would a woman think of that? Try and use me for betabuxxing?

 

[corrector]

Oh, and what about the watches? I suggested possibly buying a Brietling watch that go for $2500 to $3000 or even a used Rolex to look like big money too. What would a woman think of that? Try and use me for betabuxxing?

You should improve yourself. Build and the women will come.

 

[biggoal]

I don't care if she was an 11. Stop doing weak ass sh!t. It won't give you the results you want.

The other problem is most of the OLD sites the women under 35 on them 70 percent of them are land whales. Most women under 35 if they're not a landwhale or damaged goods are not on OLD because they don't need OLD! There is a much high quantity of women over 35 who are in good shape and such on OLD.

Even an athletic, young looking 49 year old is better than a landwhale in her 30s.