speedballs
Don Juan
I met a girl (Anna) last summer with another friend. We've been talking on MSN ever since then and recently we've been hanging out a lot more. She knows I "like" her and that I'd want to go out with her. But there are two problems, one is that she doesn't like me. The other is that I made a bad mistake and sucked up. I played the puppy act and said too much so it seems that I need her (exactly what the "Nice guys vs. Gerks" article said not to do)
Do you have any advice on going backwards so it seems like I am still interested in her but not that I need her so much that I'll just stay friends.
A little background: She said that we might make a good couple, so she might be interested even though she didn't say she liked me.
We are very open with each other, we can talk about anything without feeling at all awkward or embarrassed.
We always have something to talk about, anyone who has spent time on and instant messenger knows that after a while finding something to talk about can get hard, but in the time that I've known her there is always something to talk about. Same with when I'm talking with her in person.
We get along great but I know she doesn't feel the same way I feel about her.
Thanks.
Do you have any advice on going backwards so it seems like I am still interested in her but not that I need her so much that I'll just stay friends.
A little background: She said that we might make a good couple, so she might be interested even though she didn't say she liked me.
We are very open with each other, we can talk about anything without feeling at all awkward or embarrassed.
We always have something to talk about, anyone who has spent time on and instant messenger knows that after a while finding something to talk about can get hard, but in the time that I've known her there is always something to talk about. Same with when I'm talking with her in person.
We get along great but I know she doesn't feel the same way I feel about her.
Thanks.