HarlequinMan said:
This girl said she wanted to be exclusive, and i agreed (regretfully) and i soon learned she wont be sexual at all (barring making out). So, i called my ex-girlfriend (dont ask me why) and she came over and we had sex....
Man now i feel like ****, my ex thinks we are together, and the other girl thinks we are exclusive...if i tell my ex that i just want to be friends she will think i used her for sex...but if i don't then im afraid the other girl will find out (who i really like but she hasnt been sexual yet) Any tips?
You are being... a VAGINA.
Number one, ANY woman who doesn't allow you to make out with her and then ASKS YOU TO BE EXCLUSIVE is either a f*cking weirdo or she's got other intentions.
Number two, you should not feel ANY remorse for having your ex over to have sex. People have sex. Get over it. There's no such thing as 'using', women use us for sex all the time. Stop being a vagina.
Number three, who cares if this other chick finds out? You're obtaining what she cannot give you. Too bad for her. Yeah, sh!t on you for accepting some fake relationship, but you can't live in the past. If you desire sex or ANY intimate contact in your woman, then there should be no reason to be seeing this chick right now. If you don't, then continue dating her.
Stop worrying about what others will think of you. No matter what anyone says, sexing up an ex is not a bad deed. She's just as guilty as you. However if you're sexing up an ex who you're still in love with, you're only doing a bad deed unto yourself.