I mean c'mon... How hard can it be too find a nice girl!

[Aesthetix29]

I must have some serious bad luck... Had plenty of plates as of late and things always seem to be going well... Then boom! Things just never work out... I mean this is getting boring now and expensive haha, I'm at a age now where I want to settle down and nothing's seems to be working out for me.

Anyone else having the same problem? This is really getting me down now to the point where I'm feeling depressed.

 

[JNil]

Yep I have a similar problem, someone made a good point once, that in this day and age its nearly impossible to find a girl who will be apart of you. Everyone has ADD and multi-tasks in every form of there lifes, so it becomes normal to bring it into the relationship world. But man... What i would kill to have a ride or die chick until the end of my days, no amount of ***** can beat that.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

^ I second that.

 

[Aesthetix29]

I just can't seem to find a girl who will stick around.. I mean I'm not ugly pretty muscley and lean.. I just don't know what it is must be my sh!t personality or something..Oj haha! I mean 2 months ago I was seeing this HB8 for a few weeks then she just goes really quiet and distant and probaly seeing other guys and yesterday she commented on my FB status for the first time since she deceided to back off yesterday (weird) and I've also been taking another HB9 out a few times last time on Friday just gone only to recieve a text off her yesterday saying she isn't ready to get involved with someone yet and that she thought she was but isn't... But she did say she liked me etc... Head fu** or what, I just don't know what's going on at all... She could of told me that before I spent £400 on us Friday LOL!

Just need a break I think.. But I'm not getting any younger I'm almost 30... It's just one of these things that gets me feeling really low ):

 

[MattTheW]

Brutally honest - you invest too much in one girl

You go after a girl, it doesn't work out, so then you look for the next

You need to have multiples on the go, then when one falls away you got the others to keep you going.
Also stops you getting too invested in one girl too early on in the game.

And if you're getting old then I'm buggered already!

 

[Poop1337]

You have a very weak desperate mindset. Women will always possibly bounce on you and having kids and being married doesn't change that. They are running on emotion not logic.

Why the fck are you spending so much money the equivent of $800.00 usd on some chick wtf man. You take girls on cheap dates I don't spend more then $20 on the both of us and I try to spend zero. Spending money on them actually turns them off remember that.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Believe I won't be doing it again.. And your right I do have a desperate mindset I need to work on that... I'm just getting to the point where I've had enough of it all... It's beginning to get me down now.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Religion does nothing to women. Some of the biggest *****s I met were religious. What's meant to be will be....it is tough finding a nice compatible girl...the market is looking really weak right now....**** it though man I love getting *****....I don't believe in the "one" anyway

 

[the_stig]

I think it's not just you, but that relationships are just going the way of the horse and buggy. Dating these days is so fast paced that its turned into "meet up, grab a few drinks, jump in the sack, move onto the next one". Smart phones and all the social media apps attached with them puts endless options at one's finger tips, the next better looking date is just about to send their message. Hung out with a girl tonight who told me she had like 3 different apps on her phone where guys would approach her.

I just get the vibe that women aren't even looking for relationships anymore. Even if they are, their standards are so damn high. I'm starting to see quotes plastered all over their facebook like "if I die alone, at least I know I didn't settle".

I used to bounce from relationship to relationship, fling to fling, but the last two or three years, just getting a second date is hard. Can't get laid nearly as often as I used to. I'm still the same guy, same looks, spitting the same game, so I don't think it's me?

 

[Bingo-Player]

^^^^ - bingo

you aint goanna get many chicks between 20-30 to stick around much longer than a few dates these days unless you have a full cheque book or they have some serious baggage and i will tell you why .....

i work with women, a lot of women the older generation say between 35 & 50 all of these women just missed the social media / online dating boom by the skin of they’re teeth

now these women the same as every other women on this fvcking planet believes that she deserves BETTER , she wants better than what all her girlfriends have & she wants to show off

of course the problem is all the women i work with have already settled down with they’re partners got married had a few kids whatever they didn’t have the luxury of tinder , pof , FB.....

the woman’s value has now decreased to almost nothing shes a mother and a wife now and she knows that those childish dreams of a tall dark handsome millionaire swooping her off her feet aint ever going to happen and she realises this is as good as its going to get

now fast forward to today .....girls are watching these reality shows like jersey shore , TOWIE , the kardashians etc etc

and they want what the women on the tv have got , i mean at the end of the day these chicks on the tv are NOBODYS “so if they can make it why cant i”

Mix this attitude with the social media/online dating/selfie &casual sex culture and suddenly youve got a whole generation of women who quite simply refuse to settle for anything less than they believe they deserve

Like it or not its the truth and the sooner you start looking at it in a different light the funnier it becomes

The attention seeking FB status

The fake Marilyn Monroe quotes

The “Why aren’t there ANY decent men on this planet”

The relentless uploading of selfies for likes

I could go on and on and on sometimes i load up my FB and just pi*s myself at the delusion these women have

The good news is if you learn to be a true DJ, keep your mouth shut & manipulate they’re stupid little realities you can fvck as much pussvy as you want whenever you want

p.s

400 bucks on a date are you fvcking insane !!!!

 

[No.Danny]

Obviously none of you are putting anti dumps machine into play. Need to weed out these hoes......

 

[Aesthetix29]

I must of been insane... but to be honest money doesnt go far in the town centre at all then taxis, hotel rooms etc... it all adds up! but i think next time i'll order takout or something haha,

Just when you think your onto a good thing and everythings going well...BOOM! they drop you in the nicest possible way of course. Seriously im ready to throw the towel in had enough im just going round in circles.

Been single for over 2yrs now and would just like to meet someone to make life that bit more interesting... sound like an old bag haha!

Honestly tho i know what my problem is... i invest to much too soon! Just need to back off some!

 

[Poop1337]

It's ok man. I know that feeling but you need to get logical and see how retarded you're being. You're being very negative and aren't using your gaming knowledge. Date young my friend. If 16 is legal where you are make that your minimum and 23 your maximum. Turn yourself into an approach machine and don't slow down till you have more than a couple of plates. Never stop approaching. This idea that you get to retire and become some fag who writes love poetry just ain't happening. You will get pretty girls to fall in love with you though it's just that love may last years or days no one can tell

 

[Aesthetix29]

It's ok man. I know that feeling but you need to get logical and see how retarded you're being. You're being very negative and aren't using your gaming knowledge. Date young my friend. If 16 is legal where you are make that your minimum and 23 your maximum. Turn yourself into an approach machine and don't slow down till you have more than a couple of plates. Never stop approaching. This idea that you get to retire and become some fag who writes love poetry just ain't happening. You will get pretty girls to fall in love with you though it's just that love may last years or days no one can tell

I know buddy.. i usually set my age limit from 18-35 preferably the lower end LOL... as im 29yrs myself... i already have another 2 plates on the go but there HB5-6 at best nothing special... But i am working on my frame...

 

[Desdinova]

I usually find a nice girl after about a year or so of constantly dating garbage. Sometimes the nice girl eventually turns out to be garbage as well.

Good women are certainly difficult to find. The one I'm dating right now seems to be pretty damn good. She was home-schooled and raised on a farm, so she doesn't have a lot of the social conditioning that comes with being exposed to public school, and she likes to clean, cook, garden, slaughter cows, and all that good stuff.

 

[MattTheW]

I usually find a nice girl after about a year or so of constantly dating garbage. Sometimes the nice girl eventually turns out to be garbage as well.

Good women are certainly difficult to find. The one I'm dating right now seems to be pretty damn good. She was home-schooled and raised on a farm, so she doesn't have a lot of the social conditioning that comes with being exposed to public school, and she likes to clean, cook, garden, slaughter cows, and all that good stuff.

lol, she tell you that in casual conversation?

 

[Desdinova]

lol, she tell you that in casual conversation?

She told me that when she was talking about life on the farm. She has no problems killing animals. If I go out and shoot myself some squirrels or a deer, she's not going to get all mushy about the animal's feelings. If anything, she'll probably be a better shot than me and help me hang the deer.

 

[JohnChops]

I usually find a nice girl after about a year or so of constantly dating garbage. Sometimes the nice girl eventually turns out to be garbage as well.

Good women are certainly difficult to find. The one I'm dating right now seems to be pretty damn good. She was home-schooled and raised on a farm, so she doesn't have a lot of the social conditioning that comes with being exposed to public school, and she likes to clean, cook, garden, slaughter cows, and all that good stuff.

I had a nice girl once, she turned out to be mentally insane. Nice girls are overrated <3 those sluts!

 

[Nn877]

I agree with peaks it's unfortunate but you have to date down. Finding an hb8-9 with no baggage/emotional issues is nearly impossible. Unless you're so far ahead in social status and looks, it's basically a set up for failure.

 

[logicallefty]

If you think a girl is "nice" in 2014 all that means is that her shell still needs cracked. Crack her shell and she becomes normal girl.

Careful on the termination of the relationship, though. If she has a rep for being a "nice girl" and is really good at the front and everyone thinks she is "so nice" then she will be able to tell the whole world "He looked at me wrong and I just HAD to end it". The world will believe it too and think you are the biggest piece of sh|t because what kind of MONSTER could cause such a "nice girl" so much anguish? She is SO NICE, you must have REALLY been bad to her in how you looked at her wrong...