I made out with a girl, and girls ARE poisnous.

[moneyisking]

After the last post, I just tried not to care about girls whole lot. Thankfully I came across some movies in which I learned precious attitudes and started applying them in life. Funny I would've never thought I learn something from movies. And of course, as my bros told me from the last post, I started setting high goals and struggled hard to achieve them. Accomplishment feels good.

I met a girl at a restaurant on saturday night, and she was there with her friend. I knew her through facebook, but never talked before. Before, I would've just got scared and done nothing, but I somehow didn't feel the shake or nervousness anymore (I guess that is b/c I didn't care about scoring anymore). I went up to her and said, hey xyz, I know you on facebook right? Fortunately she worked in a place where I work now, so we had some short conversation; and I told em it was good seeing them, and she went "so do I have your number?"

Next day, she texts me good morning, so we just have light conversation, and later afternoon, I suggest we "go out" (Don't use "Hang out" to girls anymore). We end up in movie theater, and at first it began as who was dominating the side bar of the chair (where you put elbows), but we ended up holding hands and cuddling. Rest of story is typical American night. Made out in car, made out some more, and was c0ck-blocked by her friend in my place, other-wise, I could've lost the v-card. By the way, she is incredibly hot. Every dudes were looking at me when we walked holding hands.

Now to my real reason of writing this post: Girls are poisonous.
It is weird but in many Asian wisdom documents and proverbs, it is said that "million men cannot bring down a dynasty, but one woman can." Take Genghis Khan's dynasty for example. Mongolians were technically invincible until they started sleeping in palaces and fvcked many women. There are many recordings in Chinese history (although I'm not Chinese) where emperor of lesser dynasties would send beautiful women to bigger power as a "gift" to poison his mind and erode him from within.

I will not lie. Before I met this girl, I felt satisfied even though I did not have a girl. I had no worries, no anticipation or anything. But soon after I hooked up with her, I felt that something within was not as exactly the same. I'm saying woman steals man's mind if he's not ready to protect it. They are indeed like snakes. I think a lot of us can relate to this. I'm just reminding myself that focus is always on me and that I should always struggle for high goals.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

I don't get what the problem is, you made out with a chick you knew from Facebook and you could've closed, but her roomate was in? To her being a sapien?

 

[moneyisking]

no. my chick was going to stay but her friend acted drunk, so we couldn't let her go by herself. but my point is not in the fact that I made out, but how woman can put a man off his balance if he's not ready.

 

[Jitterbug]

Girls are poisonous.... man, you have some issues!

Your knowledge of Asian history is all wrong, and that proverb is made up (either by you or some other drunk fella who couldn't get laid).

 

[joe henny]

you are definitely a virgin :yes: :crackup:

 

[perseverance]

you are definitely a virgin :yes: :crackup:

Well you have proven to have mastered the basics of literacy.

Girls are poisnous? Well, yes, they are, but believe me it's a price worth paying when you start having sex. Just bite the bullet and move in for the kill.

 

[hexx]

Yeah, taking what women say seriously makes them poisonous. Having sex...that's some sweet ****.

 

[theunflushables]

Girls aren't poisonous, you're just weak.

Look at the parable of the scorpion and the frog. Scorpion asks frog to carry him across the river. Frog not trusting his instinct asks for assurance from Scorpion that he won't get stung. Scorpion promises it, but half way across the river Scorpion stings and Frog asks why he did that for they both will die now. Scorpion responds "I'm a scorpion; it's my nature."

Its not the scorpion's fault this happened, he was only doing what was natural for him. It was the frog's fault for being so weak minded.

Stop blaming women for being scorpions when you're a frog. Become a scorpion yourself and then have lots of freaky scorpion sex.

 

[moneyisking]

yeah, so I must insist that a man has to be ready all the time

 

[loveshogun]

Continue with this path:

Step 0) Know where you are in life.
Step 1) Work towards where you want to be in life.
Step 2) Repeat until successful.

Now, about step 0...

I will not lie. Before I met this girl, I felt satisfied even though I did not have a girl.

You are lying. You did not feel satisfied with your life. If you did, you would not post here asking for advice, or support.

We are here to help you. We want to help you. But the first thing you need to do is stop being ruled by your emotional pendulum.

Before, you were at the low extreme - everything about you, according to you, was wrong, unworthy, incapable. Now, less than a week later, you're above the game, you don't need women for anything, and suddenly you're enlightened?

I'm not trying to put you down. I'm trying to tune you into your own situation and get you to think clearly without all the mood swings that seems to afflict you.

I'm glad you're on the road to accomplish your personal goals, but you need to remember that this isn't a three-day weekend, a seminar, or a vacation - this is your LIFE. You're either taking those steps every day, or you're doing nothing.

No one said it would be easy. But, at the same time, you have to admit that it's completely within your ability to do what you want and be happy - it's up to you.

Finally, one thing about hubris: don't even attempt to compare yourself to someone like Ghengis Khan. The man ruled the largest empire in history. He's ALLOWED to f*ck up however he wants, any time he wants, without any of us steppin' to him with some made up bullsh*t about how "a woman took his AFC a*s down." When you become ruler of the largest empire the world has ever seen and you do it without being influenced by women, then maybe you can use someone like Ghengis Khan as an example of someone who "wasn't ready." Until then, it just takes a special kind of self-delusion. Just my two cents.


Real men are not perfect. They just know how to recover from their mistakes without constantly having to shield themselves from the truth.

 

[Lucifero]

you are definitely a virgin :yes: :crackup:

 

[Lucifero]

Just start getting game and approach a lot of women....once you start having a lot of women on your team you start to not give a **** about any of them...dont get infactuated thought...keep your head in the game.

 

[moneyisking]

thanks shogun, maybe i'm confused, or not. in fact, force of life keeps throwing confusion, worries, and bunch of sh!t that makes men worry. Like (i think) you said before, great men aren't the ones that feel no fear, but the ones that know what to do when get hit by life. ah what the fvck, im 21. I still got lot to learn. Al is well.

 

[frisco]

Its part of society, It part of Evolving the human race, Its Adam and Eve ****. Now that thats out of the way Proceed to bang proclaimed HB

 

[Tesl]

You are lying. You did not feel satisfied with your life. If you did, you would not post here asking for advice, or support.

We are here to help you. We want to help you. But the first thing you need to do is stop being ruled by your emotional pendulum.

Before, you were at the low extreme - everything about you, according to you, was wrong, unworthy, incapable. Now, less than a week later, you're above the game, you don't need women for anything, and suddenly you're enlightened?

You beat me to it. Didn't moneyisking very recently make a thread where he appeared almost suicidal due to his constant failure with women? Then writes this? Unbelievable.

 

[Alle_Gory]

The difference between a poison and a cure is the dosage. Some people are just sensitive I guess.

 

[moneyisking]

You beat me to it. Didn't moneyisking very recently make a thread where he appeared almost suicidal due to his constant failure with women? Then writes this? Unbelievable.

I feel it's incredible how much I grew apathetic to women in so short period of time (which ironically is helping me with women...) Everything is confusing a little after what happened with her. Well, I will find out what happens b/t me and her and report here.

 

[Tesl]

I feel it's incredible how much I grew apathetic to women in so short period of time (which ironically is helping me with women...)

But we aren't talking months here, didn't you make that thread within the last week? Declaring that this sudden change is "ironically helping you with women" is impossible to say - because you haven't given it enough time. You can't prove anything over just a 1 week time period.

I know its hard to stop yourself but please try and stay in control when it comes to this girl, don't get oneitis too hard (I sense you are already close).

Good luck

 

[joe henny]

Just start getting game and approach a lot of women....once you start having a lot of women on your team you start to not give a **** about any of them...dont get infactuated thought...keep your head in the game.

lol I thought I was the only one who still used the word "team"

 

[moneyisking]

But we aren't talking months here, didn't you make that thread within the last week? Declaring that this sudden change is "ironically helping you with women" is impossible to say - because you haven't given it enough time. You can't prove anything over just a 1 week time period.

I know its hard to stop yourself but please try and stay in control when it comes to this girl, don't get oneitis too hard (I sense you are already close).

Good luck

Yeah, in fact that is the problem; I feel good and think all the pain is over, but mind starts worrying, it feels like world is throwing confusion and worries to take me off the control. I probably have to go through few more of these to be unshakable in the mind, but still it's crazy how I came that close to losing v-card to HB at least 8-9. I don't know. We can't be sure where I'm really at now b/c like you said, only a week has gone by, but I'm sure this will make me develop once more, so I'm happy.