I love being right.

[ive]

If you're lost in the city and ask someone: "Where is 17th street?".. they tell you.. then you say: "Hmm... I don't think so". Does that make sense? :crackup:

Good luck

hehe youre right thanx

 

[backbreaker]

I'm with Samspade on this one. I ignored the thread for days but for some reason caved last minute and wasted 10 minutes of my life answering her (its?) questions. I guess there is still some white knight left that needs to be removed.

At the same time, Mike and BB have good points in that we were just being helpful. I would have treated any man the same way as I treated this female. She received no special treatment from me in this case because she was a female. Her questions seemed legit/sincere enough to be taken somewhat seriously. But I'd definitely like my 10 minutes back seeing how things ended.

you said what iw as trying to say much better

we say it all the time. treat a woman just like you treat anyone else beucase she just is anyone else. by avoiding her, the fact that you are avoiding her in itself is treating her different.

be as helpful as you would be if any guy were asking for help that's how i see it. if you aren't going to give a guy help don't give a girl help. if you are going to give a guy help you shoudl treat a woman the same assuming she isn't lookign for attention which i don't believe was the case

 

[backbreaker]

The part in bold. I understand, when I was in a relationship I didn't mind being "helpful" to female friends. But to be honest, I've only had 2 women who actually have listened to my advice, they are like little sisters, I've known them for years and I don't mind. But some chic I don't know...screw em. Not my job and I don't wanna waste my time.

oh i never said they listened. but look at it like tihs. how many times do you give advice to peole and they actually do listen? just about every guy i know asks me man how do i get cut up like you are. i tell them they don't do it and still *****. how many times do people ask me man how do i become successful and i tell them and they don't put in the work and *****. how many AA meetings i've been to how many guys i've sponsored adn told this is what you have to do to stay clean and sober, they dont' do it, then *****.

people in general don't listen. but that does not mean you turn a cold sholder at least to me it doesnt'. no one will ever say i was an ******* to them or didn't try. that 40 year old addict who asked me when he was 25 how to get clean and ****ed up can't blame anyone but him beucase i tol dhim. others told him.

 

[Warrior74]

oh i never said they listened. but look at it like tihs. how many times do you give advice to peole and they actually do listen? just about every guy i know asks me man how do i get cut up like you are. i tell them they don't do it and still *****. how many times do people ask me man how do i become successful and i tell them and they don't put in the work and *****. how many AA meetings i've been to how many guys i've sponsored adn told this is what you have to do to stay clean and sober, they dont' do it, then *****.

people in general don't listen. but that does not mean you turn a cold sholder at least to me it doesnt'. no one will ever say i was an ******* to them or didn't try. that 40 year old addict who asked me when he was 25 how to get clean and ****ed up can't blame anyone but him beucase i tol dhim. others told him.

Yah. I used to be like that. This place, my marketing groups and my clients are pretty much the only places/people I share advice with, when it's asked for. Mainly because I've learned a lot on SS and in my marketing groups and of course it keeps my clients coming back as a trusted source of info. But anyone else, I look at the context (ie, the person asking) and if I don't know them, or they seem like a time waster, I avoid it. If that's being cold, so be it, but I think it's cold for them to waste my time. Anyone with half a brain knew that thread was a complete time waster from the context alone. The fact that you keep trying to justify it shows me that you fail to see the broader context and the obvious conclusion it was headed towards. I been here long enough to know SS and to know when to fold em. Pearls and swine bro.

 

[Bokanovsky]

this doens't have anything to do with that but nothing peeves me / irks me off more than IRL when you are sitting down and a group of dudes are just acting like a normal group of dudes and a cute girl is introoduced to the group for whatever the reason may be and now everyone around you is just trying way too hard. telling over the top jokes, it's like most guys just loose their whatever when a girl is present.

**** really you can go a long with with women by just not being that guy.

First of all, how do you know that the girl in question was 'cute'? She never posted any pics. Second, the reaction is somewhat understandable considering this forum is 99.9% male. When a woman opens an account here and asks for dating advice, it's bound to turn into a circus. Just like a guy asking for dating advice on some feminist message board.

What irks me is that someone like you, who has been on this board for over a decade and has nearly 10,000 posts, could not smell the obvious troll and kept feeding it with your captain-save-a-ho-ish posts.

 

[backbreaker]

Yah. I used to be like that. This place, my marketing groups and my clients are pretty much the only places/people I share advice with, when it's asked for. Mainly because I've learned a lot on SS and in my marketing groups and of course it keeps my clients coming back as a trusted source of info. But anyone else, I look at the context (ie, the person asking) and if I don't know them, or they seem like a time waster, I avoid it. If that's being cold, so be it, but I think it's cold for them to waste my time. Anyone with half a brain knew that thread was a complete time waster from the context alone. The fact that you keep trying to justify it shows me that you fail to see the broader context and the obvious conclusion it was headed towards. I been here long enough to know SS and to know when to fold em. Pearls and swine bro.

i don't have to justify anything. i know i didn't do anything that was "un djish" by my standards and at the end of the day that's all that matters.

this is the married / unmarried DJ argument all over again. there is no right answer. there are different brands of djism. i'm a helper. it's why i thrive in AA/NA. i like to help. you aren't. there is nothing wrong with that. but it doesn't make me wrong and i don't have to justify **** to you or anyone else nor you me.

 

[Warrior74]

i don't have to justify anything. i know i didn't do anything that was "un djish" by my standards and at the end of the day that's all that matters.

this is the married / unmarried DJ argument all over again. there is no right answer. there are different brands of djism. i'm a helper. it's why i thrive in AA/NA. i like to help. you aren't. there is nothing wrong with that. but it doesn't make me wrong and i don't have to justify **** to you or anyone else nor you me.

I can respect that. I've always had respect for you because you speak your mind and back your beliefs even if I don't agree with them all the time. We are both helpers in our own way. We wouldn't even post if we thought it wasn't going to help someone. I'm just selective about who deserves my time. At some point I'm either stroking my own ego, or failing to be honest by wasting words on the undeserving.

Boys, BB here is a great example. He states his opinion and doesn't get butthurt over a disagreement. He speaks directly to the person talking to him. Learn a lesson. This is how a man acts. Bashing a person you disagree with on another thread and calling them names behind their backs, that's the actions of women and children. I'm talking to you Darth. If your jimmies are rustled you should ask yourself why. If you are right and secure in your reasons and logic, why are you upset with me personally? You're not. It is because I made you doubt. I made you ask yourself, "am I being a fool? was there something I didn't see here? And to drown the small voice that said 'yes', you had to kill the messenger. That's just human nature. We all do that from time to time. It's cool bro. I forgive you.

Nobody likes to think they've been made a fool. And yet every man will be one at some point. Myself included. The man who think's he won't be, already is. This is the last I'll speak on it.

 

[( . )( . )]

Boys, BB here is a great example. He states his opinion and doesn't get butthurt over a disagreement. He speaks directly to the person talking to him. Learn a lesson. This is how a man acts.

Christ, really?

A fraudulent, liberal captain save a ho. Fvck that noise you keep it, I'll stay a boy if that's what acting a man gets me. Plus I don't want to have to write a small essay explaining how awesome I am with every post.

 

[Mike32ct]

I cringe when guys hit on new female posters. For example,

"I live near your city. PM me and we can have a drink."

 

[( . )( . )]

I cringe when guys hit on new female posters. For example,

"I live near your city. PM me and we can have a drink."

I don't cringe (maybe a little) but I'd prefer a solid wall of TITS OR GTFO! whenever a unique snowflake comes here.

At least until she's proven to have half a brain, penkitten, WaterTiger, and don juanita? spring to mind. I think that was her name. Generally the majority though are your typical done grown duds and are as welcome as a cold sore.

 

[Jitterbug]

Our dear BB has a proven track record of butthurtness where, after some storm in a C cup argument, he'd declare that we're all losers and he'd never come back here again, only to slip back in 6 months later as if nothing ever happened. This occurs about twice a year for the last heaven knows how many years. Surely you have noticed this, Warrior74.

Anyway, I do find it amusing that whenever some chick posts here, it's usually a very long thread with nearly everyone eager to give her advice.

 

[speed dawg]

backbreaker is the worst poster on the board.

 

[cordoncordon]

Just read this and the other closed thread. There are so many fails (from both sides) that I don't even know where to begin.

So I will cliff it:

Girl seemed decent.

Guys offered some decent advice.

Girl starts to feel a little empowered, ignores some good advice, senses a gang bang about to happen, but she quickly quells that and says "enough".

Some guys on here get their testes all up and bothered, which I see a lot with a group of men and a lone female, and the thread goes to ****e.

Same old same old.

OT: BB man I don't know how you do it. You seem to run with a lot of really odd and drama filled people from reading all of your posts. From all your friends that can't seem to exist without cheating on one another and gossiping back and forth, to your 'meetings' full of abused, unstable, broken people, it just seems like it's all too much. You have more drama in one week than I do in an entire year. Not sure how much of that is actually 100% accurate and how much of it is your interpretation of it all, but either way, remove yourself from all of that. Or don't.

I did have to chuckle at whomever said upthread something about BB responding to others in this thread the way we all should. No knock on BB, because he offers some good advice at times, but he really is not the one to emulate when it comes to responding to others on this thread or this site in general. He has had more blowups, leavings of the site, and reconciliations than Rhianna and Chris Brown haha. I think even he will admit that one.

 

[zekko]

It's interesting to me that this is a seduction forum, and yet whenever a woman posts on here, it almost always results in fights, confrontations, and a bunch of insults hurled at the female. For a bunch of guys who supposedly know so much about how to handle themselves around women, they sure do get bent out of shape when one is around.

I think the latest thread s
howed just how badly men will stab eachother over a woman. White knights are a perfect example of that.

Not disagreeing with your assertation though. If I was a woman, I would love to surround myself with men to get whatever I wanted. And it doesn't hurt that they are all "d1cks in a glass" in case of emergency.

All good points.

i dont like any of my guy friends, it is not rational i have not sat down with a notebook writing pluses and minuses to decide whether or not they are eligible. it is binary - you like the person or you dont like the if you are not attracted to the person, even if he is the most eligible person on earth you dont like him.

That's a pretty firm friendzone right there.

 

[betheman]

how bizarre! thread is locked, discussions as to why caused so much b!tching, new we have more b!tching, and here she is again, conitinuing a discussion she demed had ran its course and with almost royal warranty had the previous thread closed, at what point will she order this one closed?

 

[betheman]

Did you get noods Bradd?

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Read the locked thread. Read this one.

Seems like a few "men" wanted the girl to take their advice over others. You got "Men" sh!tting on each other saying the other guy doesn't know what they're talking about.

Jesus Christ the girl even said she appreciated the replies and was moving on from the thread. Your fu<king egos got the thread locked. Who's the scapegoat? The girl? The "mature men"? The "afcs" who don't know what they're talking about? Listen, Iqqi is a troll. Wyldfire could have been considered a troll. This chick isn't.

Come on, guys.

 

[user43770]

Women be shoppin'!

 

[Burroughs]

read the thread...very funny

from the syntax of the language 100% fact this *ive* is the *Indian Race Troll* that invaded the main board

careful brad....IRT has a history of PM drama

 

[backbreaker]

Just read this and the other closed thread. There are so many fails (from both sides) that I don't even know where to begin.

So I will cliff it:

Girl seemed decent.

Guys offered some decent advice.

Girl starts to feel a little empowered, ignores some good advice, senses a gang bang about to happen, but she quickly quells that and says "enough".

Some guys on here get their testes all up and bothered, which I see a lot with a group of men and a lone female, and the thread goes to ****e.

Same old same old.

OT: BB man I don't know how you do it. You seem to run with a lot of really odd and drama filled people from reading all of your posts. From all your friends that can't seem to exist without cheating on one another and gossiping back and forth, to your 'meetings' full of abused, unstable, broken people, it just seems like it's all too much. You have more drama in one week than I do in an entire year. Not sure how much of that is actually 100% accurate and how much of it is your interpretation of it all, but either way, remove yourself from all of that. Or don't.

I did have to chuckle at whomever said upthread something about BB responding to others in this thread the way we all should. No knock on BB, because he offers some good advice at times, but he really is not the one to emulate when it comes to responding to others on this thread or this site in general. He has had more blowups, leavings of the site, and reconciliations than Rhianna and Chris Brown haha. I think even he will admit that one.

the funny thing is, I might list.....maybe.... 1/3rd of the **** that actually goes on in my life. most of the time i don't even bother. I'm an interesting dude. I have a life beucase i get out there and do ****. sometimes good **** sometimes bad **** but i get out there. the more you get out the more interesting your life is. I actually go out of my way to dumb down ****.

****..JUST TODAY.. the porn star's website we are building is on hold beucase she got knocked up and can't work now she can't pay her porn site bill and wants us to keep working on it simply beucase she's pretty good looking.. and just so you don't think i'm pulling that out of my ass here you go

http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/55_zps9cd53b33.png

actually if you do a scroll in my photobucket account you can see her site.

A dude who was in recovery who has been over my house a few times got arrested this morning for trying to rob a store for drug money.. for the 2nd time this week, and my wife wants another baby. Oh and I hit the 5th at Santa Anita today too (seriously)

and that's just thursday. I don't find any of that **** worthy of talking about. that's just everyday life for me. It's one of if not the main reason why i never really had a problem with plates once i got ahold of this siht.. i may be a lot of things, but one thing I'm not is boring. There is nothing boring about me or my life.